Preamble:
Can you stick to your original intention and love only one in your life?
When he was young and frivolous, who did not say a vow to the nothingness of love.
Fang Zhongxin is no exception, in the face of suitors, he is always "unmarried", but his mouth has never been closed.
In fact, he longs for stability in his heart, but he is always not defensive enough in the face of feelings.
It wasn't until he met her and tolerated her in every way that Fang Zhongxin gradually let down his guard, but he still flinched at the last moment.
However, the birth of his daughter seemed to be made up by providence, forcing him to break his vow.
15 years have passed, looking at his proud daughter, Fang Zhongxin often sighs that the luckiest choice in his life is to choose to be white with her.
Dashing playboy
Fang Zhongxin, who was born in the 70s of the last century, his real name is Fu Li, and his handsome appearance made him discover by talent scouts at the age of 20, sign into TVB, and officially debut as an actor.
may be because he is too defensive about feelings, or simply can't stand the so-called "love at first sight", Fang Zhongxin can be said to be suave in the first half of his life.
I have experienced countless relationships, some for years, but most of them have drifted apart.
The only one who was really entangled with him was his later wife Mo Kexin.
In fact, Fang Zhongxin has always longed for stability in his heart, but in the face of many girlfriends' overtures, he still chose to avoid it.
When a friend asked why, he couldn't explain it clearly - probably because of nature.
He has a perfect appearance, and his way of doing things is equally sophisticated.
Even for the closest lovers, he still has to maintain his image at all times.
Fang Zhongxin is Xi showing his best side in front of others, so much so that many things are overconsidered.
makes the people who care always feel that he is hiding something, which also becomes the fuse for the breakdown of the relationship between the two.
In 1994, he met and fell in love with Chen Shulan, and the two fell in love for three or four years.
Chen Shulan is gentle and generous, with an irresistible femininity.
She was the runner-up of Miss Hong Kong in 1988, and the champion Li Jiaxin was no one because of her beauty, but she unexpectedly won the honor of "Miss Most Photogenic", which made Li Jiaxin cry and leave the scene.
Women always have a side of secret fighting, and the two have not quarreled backstage, but facing the camera, Chen Shulan has always been gentle and decent.
The two are actually quite similar, they have worked hard in the entertainment industry for many years and know this well.
When outsiders see them, they are amazed and compatible, but they all know in their hearts that people who are too similar are easy to be like two mirrors in the corner.
Perhaps it is precisely because of this that the problems of the two are gradually exposed, and the quarrel is becoming more and more intense.
may be too similar, Fang Zhongxin and Chen Shulan's relationship is almost perfect in the eyes of outsiders.
However, in 1997, the two announced their breakup without warning.
As soon as the news of the breakdown of the relationship between the popular Xiaosheng and the top brand Hua Dan came out, it immediately attracted everyone's attention.
What caused the tragic ending is still a mystery.
Some people speculate that family members or agents interfered, after all, the careers of the two were on the rise at that time, and the relationship may have interrupted more important opportunities.
The real inside story is difficult for outsiders to know.
The Queen's intervention
There are two speculations about the reason for the breakup of the two.
One is that both of them have hot tempers and can't stand the friction; The second is that the woman Mo Kexin intervened in the relationship between the two.
If it was really the latter, it would not be surprising that Chen Shulan was hostile to Mo Kexin.
Mo Kexin, who was elected as Miss Hong Kong in 1993, is known as "Sister Hong Kong".
She was born in a prestigious school, not only beautiful and talented, but also has the skill to take care of family and career.
But the relationship journey was not smooth, and several boyfriends ended in failure.
How could such a woman be willing to be a junior.
Compared with Chen Shulan, Mo Kexin's conditions do not seem to be outstanding.
But she is very intelligent, very emotionally intelligent, and never goes head-to-head with anyone.
Perhaps this impressed Fang Zhongxin, and the two had several private meetings.
Mo Kexin was gentle and considerate to him, and didn't mind his condescending attitude at all.
However, at this moment, the news of Chen Shulan's breakup spread, and Mo Kexin immediately became the target of public criticism.
It is rumored that the relationship between the two has been ambiguous for a long time, and it is only a matter of time before they break up.
Mo Kexin denied this claim, claiming that he "never robs other people's things".
She insisted on her innocence, only to coincide with the placebo.
However, when the media interviewed Chen Shulan, she bluntly said that she was "deceived" and even fought with Mo Kexin.
The real situation is only known to the parties concerned, and people can only speculate and secretly suspect this woman's mind.
Sticking to his side for 12 years
In 1998, Fang Zhongxin's acting career was at a low point.
That year, TVB's top management changed blood, many old actors left one after another, and Fang Zhongxin also had no drama to shoot under the pressure of the management.
During this time, he was in extremely bad shape, tired of running around all day, and hit walls everywhere.
At this time, the family suffered an accident, and the relatives passed away, and there was a lot of trouble for a while.
During this low period, many friends changed their attitudes abruptly, public relations expenses and gatherings were reduced, and even the staff greeted them perfunctorily.
Fang Zhongxin was deeply frustrated, and at this moment, Mo Kexin seemed to shine into his dark life.
There was a better place to go, but she always stuck to it.
Maybe she saw the true fragility of Fang Zhongxin's heart, or maybe she was just sympathetic, but her arrival undoubtedly soothed his saddest heart.
She took good care of his daily life and mediated his work.
It was thanks to her that Fang Zhongxin got through the most difficult days of those years.
Maybe out of gratitude, or maybe really moved by her, the relationship between the two became closer and closer, and Fang Zhongxin gradually opened his heart.
He didn't care about it, but he began to experience what it was like to be needed.
There are finally people who accept all of him, not just external perfection.
In 2000, Fang Zhongxin polished his name and returned to the position of a first-line student with a "White Tower".
After that, his career went smoothly, and he gained both fame and fortune.
Emotionally, he and Mo Kexin are also getting better.
Except for the occasional quarrel like an old husband and wife, the two are like a young couple in love.
The 12-year pursuit was ridiculous and hopeless in the eyes of others, but Mo Kexin did not give up.
She knows Fang Zhongxin too well and tolerates all his tempers and bad habits.
Even Fang Zhongxin's repeated emphasis on "unmarriageism" is nothing more than a child's willful stubbornness in her eyes.
Daughter's accidental break-in
In the eyes of outsiders, the two are like a pair of beautiful people.
In 2008, when Mo Kexin was 39 years old, she suddenly announced that she was pregnant.
Faced with the dilemma of unmarried pregnancy, Fang Zhongxin's first reaction was to escape.
It was not surprising that he needed time to come to terms with the fact that he had been dealt with.
But for Mo Kexin, it was even worse.
She was walking on thin ice, afraid that any move might make him choose to leave.
During that time, she was nervous all day long, and Fang Zhongxin's attitude made her even more desperate.
Perhaps out of sympathy, or responsibility, after several battles between heaven and man, Fang Zhongxin finally replied - he would be responsible for Mo Kexin.
Although he himself was not ready to be a father, he still did not hesitate.
So, they registered their marriage and became husband and wife.
As a perfectionist, once he has made up his mind, he goes all out in his new role.
He quickly adapted to being a father and named his daughter "Fu Jiaqing".
As soon as their daughter was born, they became the center of their lives.
Fang Zhongxin almost cares about one or the other, and spends all his free time with his daughter.
A reporter smiled and asked Mo Kexin if it was his daughter's "accident" that caught Fang Zhongxin.
But she responded seriously, everything is providential, and she is grateful for the gift from God.
Although they are not as inseparable as in the past, the relationship between the two is still strong.
From time to time, reporters test them and ask if they regret their married life.
Mo Kexin would humorously joke, but Fang Zhongxin looked sincere and denied it.
Because of his daughter, he seems to have found the meaning of life.
The daughter makes the husband and wife proud
The daughter is the heart of the two.
Although Fang Zhongxin is busy with his career, he will also make time to play with Fu Jiaqing.
From an early age, she showed a high level of athletic talent, whether it was cycling, swimming, or skating.
At the age of 7, Fu Jiaqing suddenly became interested in horseback riding.
Not surprisingly, equestrian sports require a lot of physical fitness and perseverance, and very few children can persevere.
However, she did not flinch at all, and practiced Xi day by day for several years.
Her parents support her unconditionally, just asking her to be happy.
Fang Zhongxin saw that his daughter was engaged in equestrian training, and he began to learn Xi sport himself.
He hopes to be able to grow up with his daughter and never miss a moment again.
So, the two fathers and daughters often go out together and spend their family fun in laughter.
It was also her father's encouragement that made Fu Jiaqing persevere, and won many awards in competitions.
In 2023, 15-year-old Fu Jiaqing was finally selected for the Hong Kong equestrian team and officially became an athlete.
Just received the good news of his daughter's selection, Fang Zhongxin was very excited, and his first call was to share it with his wife.
After all kinds of experiences, now seeing their daughter thriving, the couple sincerely sighed: The most correct choice I have ever made is to choose you.
Epilogue:
In the depths of my life, I am fortunate to meet it.
Compared with vigorous, he would rather stay together all his life.
There is no right or wrong in love, but it takes courage to choose, and he will understand it eventually.
Looking back, there are many difficulties, but fortunately, she and her daughter have always been with us.
Fu Jiaqing is the pride of the two.
But it is a gift from heaven that binds them together.
Initially, perhaps, he hesitated to leave; But at this moment, Fang Zhongxin can no longer imagine the world without her.