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Before writing this article, I was reminded of a song called "Banknotes", and a few lines in the song are sung like this:
Who made the banknotes
You are the ruler of the world
You can't live without money
Money, you are a knife that kills people without seeing blood
Face the glittering banknotes
How many people use their brains
Someone is sad for you
Someone laughs for you
Running east and west, nodding and bowing
Banknotes, your majesty is really not small
Money, how many people have you been fascinated by
The lyrics really express the power of money vividly, yes! In this money society, who can live without money! Although money is not everything, it is difficult to move without money.
Everyone longs for money, but the attitude towards money is very different, some people regard money as dung, some regard money as life, for money, they can not need parental affection, in their eyes, money is above all else, such as the family in the following story.
For a house, the elder brother sued his sister, but lost the lawsuit, the elder brother in order to fight for the house, even asked his mother to give false testimony, the mother refused, and the daughter-in-law asked her mother-in-law to make a big noise, it is really difficult to be a mother! The palms and backs of the hands are full of meat, what should I do?
Narrator: Aunt Qing
I am Aunt Qing, 62 years old this year, my hometown is rural, and now I live in the city, I have a son, a daughter and two children.
We both lived in our hometown, when my husband and son worked outside all the year round, and I planted a few acres of land at home.
Through the joint efforts of the family, we also rebuilt the old house into a two-story building, and then successfully married a daughter-in-law to our son, who is also from the countryside, a well-read girl, and later gave birth to a little grandson. Then my daughter-in-law and I were at home with the children.
After a few years, when the youngest grandson was 5 years old, the thoughts of the son and daughter-in-law began to change. Because the son and daughter-in-law want their grandson to go to school in the city, our village is more than 20 miles away from the city, and then the son and daughter-in-law want to find something to do in the city.
My son is very smart and business-minded, and after working in that daily chemical shop for two years, he felt that he had also figured out some ways, and then he discussed with us to open a store like that himself.
At that time, we were still hesitant, afraid that we would lose money if we didn't do well, but our son repeatedly assured him that he was sure that he wanted to start from a small shop first, and not buy too many goods first, so that the investment was not much, even if he lost it, it would not affect his life, anyway, he was still young, and he still went to work.
We felt that our son was right, and then we took out the family's savings, plus some of the money our son earned, and the small shop finally opened.
When the shop first opened, it was my son and daughter-in-law who were in the store, but when the business was good, my son and daughter-in-law were too busy, so they asked my husband and I to help and let me be responsible for picking up and dropping off the children.
Later, the business is getting bigger and bigger, and more people are needed, at this time, the daughter also graduated from high school, and then the son asked the daughter to come to the store to help, at that time the son went down to run the business and deliver goods, the husband and daughter-in-law and the daughter guarded the store, and then the daughter-in-law gave birth to a second child, and she was also at home with the child.
After the joint efforts of the family, the business in the store is getting better and better, and the money is getting more and more, and within a few years, my son bought two houses in the same community in Zhengzhou with full payment, and these two houses are one for them to live in, and one for us and our daughter to live.
Usually they are in the store, and I have two grandchildren in our house.
In this way, a few years later, during this period, the daughter also got married, the son-in-law is from the countryside, and then the daughter also had a child, and the daughter wanted the child to go to school in the city, so she proposed to buy a house in our community, because our community is a school district house. The grandson attends this school.
At that time, my husband and I were very supportive of our daughter's house purchase, thinking that the family lived in a community, and my daughter didn't have to run back to her in-law's house, and the eldest grandson also went to junior high school, and the remaining daughter's children and little grandson were all in the same elementary school, and I could also pick up her children by the way, and take care of each other, how good it was!
But buying a house is a big deal, not to mention the school district house in Zhengzhou, the down payment alone costs a lot of money, of course the daughter can't afford it, but the daughter can afford it, because the daughter has been working in the son's store for 10 years, and she has helped her brother earn millions of dollars, but the son has never paid his daughter a monthly salary, at the beginning she was young, and the son never gave her money, and then the daughter was capable, and the son said that she would open 5000 a month, and give her a 20% commission after a single order. But it's just to say, it's never cashed in, usually if the daughter spends money, it's all for us, because the son never gives the old man a public salary, but will give us living expenses.
So we think that our daughter has already earned a down payment on a house in the past ten years.
Later, we told our son that his sister wanted to buy a house, and our son and daughter-in-law also agreed to buy a house for our daughter, and then my son took out 500,000 yuan and gave my daughter a down payment for a house in our community.
After buying a house, my daughter worked for another three years, and then she wanted to go out and work alone, planning to do a daily chemical business.
At that time, after my daughter proposed this idea, I was a little worried, because his brother had bought her a house, and when she left, my son would have one less capable helper, could my son be willing?
But the daughter said that she also has her difficulties, although her brother bought her a house, but she also has a family of several people to eat, she also has to live, and her brother is not good at giving her a salary, saying that there is a commission for 5000, but she always does not cash, she wants his brother to give some, and her brother is embarrassed to say too clearly, only separate, otherwise she will not be bored.
Actually, I also understand my daughter very well, so I didn't object, just told her that it was okay to go, but I had to tell her brother well, and my brother and sister couldn't make trouble.
My daughter agreed at the time, but I don't know what she told her brother later.
Unexpectedly, as soon as the daughter proposed to leave, the son and daughter-in-law were unwilling, and the son proposed that if the daughter went out to work alone, the 500,000 yuan for buying the house would be returned to him, but the daughter still went out and did it herself.
When my son saw that my daughter didn't listen, he asked me to do my daughter's work and let my daughter come back, but at that time, my daughter had already opened the store, of course I didn't want to come back, and besides, she was married and started a family, so she didn't want to do it herself!
When my son saw that I couldn't persuade my daughter back, he was very dissatisfied with me, and since then he has ignored me.
I thought that my son was just angry for a while, and it would be fine after a while, after all, it was my sister. But he kept holding on to this matter, and he had to ask his daughter to pay back his 500,000, and he didn't ask his sister for it, but asked his daughter-in-law to ask me for money every day, so that her sister could pay back the 500,000.
I originally thought that my son was not doing it properly, so I didn't give it to my daughter, and my son hated me even more.
Because of the money, the daughter was also very distressed, in order to avoid the troubles, the daughter was so angry that she moved out of the community, and the family went out to rent a house to live, but the son still did not give up and continued to ask for money.
Later, her daughter was forced to have no choice, so she promised to pay back her brother's 500,000, she may also be tired of her brother and sister-in-law, and she wanted to be quiet.
But at this time, the son changed his mind again, he said that he didn't want the 500,000 anymore, and the reason he gave was: After so many years, the price of the house has already risen, and the original 500,000 can no longer buy the house here, so he wants his daughter's house to share half of him, which is fair, of course the daughter does not agree.
Because my daughter doesn't live in this community, and then my son asked my daughter-in-law to make trouble with me, and let me continue to ask my daughter for money, for the sake of family harmony, I can only say yes, as a mother, with a son on one side and a daughter on the other, what can I do?
Because the daughter always disagreed, the son was annoyed, and finally sued his daughter because of the house, but the result was that the daughter won the lawsuit, and later, the house was awarded to the daughter.
The son didn't get half of the house, and he was still unwilling. He asked his daughter-in-law to find me and said that I should testify, and he said that when he bought the house, his son bought it in his daughter's name.
Of course I wouldn't agree to such a fake thing, and then my daughter-in-law came to me again to make trouble and quarrel with me, and the palms and backs of my hands were full of meat!
I could never have imagined that my son would be such a person, and in order to fight for a house, he would do everything he could, and he didn't think about the brother-sister relationship.
Now my daughter-in-law quarrels with me every day about the house, and I am really forced by her to have no choice, she asked me to give false testimony, I can't do it, in order to be quiet, I don't want to take children to them anymore, I have brought children to them for more than ten years, and now the eldest grandson is 13 years old, and the younger grandson is also 10 years old, I decided to go back to my hometown.
Then I mentioned to my daughter-in-law that I wanted to go back to my hometown, and my daughter-in-law said on the spot: "You can go, but my father can't go, let's talk about it first, you go back to your hometown, don't give us food and drink in the future." ”
I said, "I don't show you the child, I'm useless, you can not give me money, but you let your father do it for you, you should pay him a salary." ”
Then the daughter-in-law said, "You go and ask the shops around us, they are all busy in the shops, you ask whose old man is asking for money for his son's help, and it is not enough to provide food and drink?" Not to mention that he has bought a house for you, and ask whose children have our filial piety, don't be dissatisfied." ”
I said, "Your father has earned money for a house in the past ten years, and I have been raising children for you for more than ten years, shouldn't you give me living expenses?
It's really sad, when there is no money, the family is harmonious, at that time the son and daughter get along very well, the son and daughter-in-law go to work, although the family is not rich and expensive, but the family is always harmonious, and there is no quarrel, but now! There is money, and the son has earned millions of dollars in recent years, but people are becoming more and more greedy, and more and more selfish, for money, it is really the love of mother and son, brother and sister.