The loving couples in the entertainment industry seem to be quite unreliable, many bloggers are discussing the changes in Huang Lei's relationship with Sun Li, Huang Lei has been pua Sun Li for a long time after marriage, and there have been problems in their marriage.
The marital problems between the elders have even directly affected the children, although Duoduo has now gone abroad to study, but it is still affected by the emotional problems of his parents, and even psychological problems, in short, because of various problems, the marriage of Huang Lei and Sun Li is currently in jeopardy.
Huang Lei PUA Sun Li, it's no longer news, when the two first got together, Sun Li felt inferior because of the unequal relationship between teachers and students, and Huang Lei can be regarded as a PUA master, on the one hand, he persuaded Sun Li with various words to stay by his side with peace of mind, and on the other hand, he used his identity as a teacher to force back other suitors around Sun Li, and finally succeeded in bringing Sun Li and him together.
When the two first got together, Huang Lei was a good boyfriend who was obedient to Sun Li's words, but after a long time, the status between the two was reversed, and it became Sun Li's various compromises to Huang Lei, so Sun Li, who was still on the rise in her career, chose to return to the family after marrying Huang Lei, and even at the age of forty, she did not hesitate to use means to fight for her son, behind which was because of Huang Lei's long-term mental control.
From some of the interviews that the couple accepted, it can also be seen that the marriage relationship between the two is relatively deformed, many times it is obvious that Huang Lei has done something wrong, but he not only has no sense of apology, but after some justified defense, all the fault is put on Sun Li's head, really, it is strongly recommended that Sun Li download the anti-fraud APP.
To put it bluntly, this is the gaslighting effect, through subtle suppression and smearing, Sun Li unconsciously fell into self-doubt, and then dwarfed herself, making her think that she could not do without Huang Lei, so as to realize Huang Lei's desire to control Sun Li.
And this routine, Huang Lei can be said to be quite proficient in playing, not only in the family to Sun Lizhong, but also in daily work, he is also relying on his identity as a senior teacher, almost everyone around him is indiscriminate.
For example, Huang Lei PUA has PUA Guo Qilin and Zhang Yixing in the show before, and even in the face of Huang Bosun Honglei, who is in the same coffee position as him, he can't help but be eager to try, and the routine is similar.
Huang Lei Sun Li later had a child, a child who does not touch the world, and will become a puppet under his control, so whether it is the eldest daughter or the second daughter, Huang Lei is as always suppressive education, thinking of the first time Duoduo appeared in public, many people praised her for being well-behaved and sensible, and there is no naughty and smart that a child should have, I think it is the result of Huang Lei's education, and as she gets older, the more she can feel the melancholy revealed in the depths of Duoduo's soul, which shows that Huang Lei has a far-reaching impact on her.
Many insiders have also revealed that they think Huang Lei's family relationship mode is strange, if it is really like the scholarly family he marketed, how can it be strange, it can only be said that the entertainment industry is really a magical place, there are all kinds of demons and monsters, it is really too dazzling, and these cows, ghosts, snakes and gods are reflected in the appearance of a few people, coaxing the public.
Of course, even if it is such a deformed family environment, it does not mean that Huang Lei and Sun Li will divorce, Sun Li has been out of the entertainment industry for many years, and has long been incapacitated, and is a morning glory that has to rely on Huang Lei to survive, and has been PUA for nearly 20 years, it is almost impossible to wake up on her own, if nothing else, she will live in the illusion of happiness created by Huang Lei for the rest of her life.
Poor is Huang Lei Sun Li's two daughters, Duoduo has become a failure of Huang Lei's education, the future is still unknown, what kind of treatment the second daughter will suffer, we still don't know, I hope that my sister Huang Duoduo's experience can give Huang Lei and Sun Li a warning.
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