Last night, before going to bed, I saw Dr. Tao Yong on the hot search.
I thought it was some kind of medical-related content, but when I opened the details, I was caught off guard.
The hot search square is all scolding him, and the following comment Yishui's support is "scolding well".
The topic has been read more than 1.6 billion times.
After figuring out what happened.
I have to sigh again!
In the Internet era, the creation and destruction of gods are in an instant, which is really not something that ordinary people such as us can understand.
Let's briefly review Tao Yong and his people (those who understand the previous situation can skip to the red part below)
Doctor of Medicine from Peking University, chief physician of the Department of Ophthalmology of Beijing Chaoyang Hospital, has been practicing medicine for 13 years and has performed 15,000+ eye surgeries.
There are less than 10 eye centers in the world that can perform bone and tooth artificial corneal surgery, and Tao Yong is one of the few doctors in China who can perform this surgery.
On January 20, 2020, Tao Yong was violently slashed by a patient at the hospital where he worked.
As a result, the left hand was fractured, neuromuscular blood vessels were broken, head trauma, occipital bone fracture, and 1500ml of blood was lost, and it was out of danger after two weeks.
And this patient did this just because he was not satisfied with the results of the treatment.
In the previous treatment process, Tao Yong also helped him reduce the cost of surgery.
Nearly three months after the incident, Tao Yong was discharged from the hospital.
As a result of the incident, he had no sensation in his left hand and had to wear a brace 24 hours a day to live.
After being cut, the basic functions of his left hand were difficult, let alone high-precision eye surgery.
Tao Yong in recovery
Although Dr. Tao Yong later returned to work and resumed visiting clinics, the loss of professionalism has a far-reaching impact on the entire Chinese ophthalmology community.
However, because of his active rehabilitation, his continuous pursuit of medicine, and the restructuring of his medical career, Dr. Tao has always been a warm, strong and loving person in everyone's mouth.
Who would have thought that a Weibo he posted on the 23rd recording his daughter's birthday would make this kind of reputation plummet.
In just one day, he changed from a "god of great love" to a "father who everyone shouts and beats".
The content of Weibo is to the effect that her daughter is 12 years old, but she has become difficult to communicate.
She can chat and laugh with netizens, and she is also willing to do something for her elders at the suggestion of her family.
But when it was her turn to communicate with her daughter or ask her to do something, she was very uncooperative.
Dr. Tao chalks this behavior down to a "lady to witch" shift.
And with the "birthday photo" taken by her daughter reluctantly with a black face below,
Then he was scolded by everyone without accident.
said that he was too controlling, his father's flavor overflowed the screen, and he disciplined his daughter everywhere, try to change his son......
Some people even scolded him for deserving to be cut down, cursing that he would be hacked to death next time.
All kinds of insults have led Dr. Tao to delete the post now.
I won't let go of more radical remarks, it's not good for the heart, it's not good for blood pressure.
In short, the scolding is quite ugly, and there is no shortage of all kinds of personal attacks.
Let me tell you what I think.
The birthday photo of the little girl in the original Weibo was manually typed by me.
After all, people are really reluctant.
I could tell from her expression that she was reluctant and very unhappy.
In fact, in the original article, when I saw Dr. Tao describe my daughter's lack of cooperation in taking pictures, I already had an idea:
A daughter who has just reached her adolescent self and a stubborn father who is very undissuaded and eager to show relatives and friends that "my family has a girl who has just grown up".
The further down I looked, the more I confirmed this idea.
Originally, I thought it would be a heartwarming story of my father explaining how he reconciled himself and understood the meaning of parenting.
Unexpectedly, he was blaming his daughter for being obedient.
At the age of 12, from elementary school to junior high school, it is a period of rapid expansion of self-thinking, I don't like to listen to my parents, and I am no longer "at the mercy" of my parents as I was when I was a child.
This is a normal emotion, everyone has come over like this, and I understand it very well.
It can also be seen from Dr. Tao's words that the etiquette details such as serving rice and vegetables have also been done by the little girl, and she is not a child who does not know how to be polite.
But this stubborn dad has to spoil the fun on someone else's birthday.
The shame DNA of being asked by my elders to perform in public from childhood to adulthood moved instantly, who knows!
What's more, this stubborn father does not let his children perform talents, but let them perform "well-behaved and obedient".
When I'm 6 years old, I might be glad that my parents celebrated my birthday and asked me to work, which made me feel amazing.
But when I was 12 years old, I didn't even want to wear the clothes my parents had arranged for me, let alone let me wash the dishes.
I took the initiative to take on the housework myself, and you forced me to do the housework in front of my relatives on my birthday.
When will parents know how to respect their children's growing thinking and wishes?
It is inevitable that Dr. Tao's article will be discussed.
But I thought it would be a profound issue about how parents and children get along.
I didn't expect the whole painting style to be so bad.
Why is it that whenever something happens, everyone is always unable to express their opinions on the basis of facts and promote the resolution of the matter.
Rather, to add fuel to the fire and turn this into an even greater contradiction?
In the same way, when can we separate a person's professional and private life as much as possible?
If a person is praised for a certain aspect, it does not mean that the entire details of his life are flawless, and it is not good to be as objective as possible.
Finally, I want to say that as a public figure, I still try not to expose my private life too much to the audience.
After all, there is no "sentencing standard" on the Internet now
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Finally, I would like to say:
Relatives don't want to watch other people's children perform at parties, okay!!
Whether it is performing filial piety and being well-behaved, whether it is performing singing and dancing, it is really a big headache for our relatives to laugh and praise brainlessly.
Let's just cook happily, please!!