As a well-known writer in Chinese history, Su Shi of the Song Dynasty was the pinnacle of his attainments in poetry, and he left many valuable classic poems to the world.
Su Shi, who is brilliantly written, not only can write poems, lyrics, prose, and painting, but is also a gourmet.
In terms of persuasion, Su Shi also has two brushes.
Su Shi once wrote a poem in order to persuade his friends to quit sex.
The exhortation effect of this word was so good that it was also engraved on stone at that time to warn the world to abstain from sex.
This poem is the "Linjiang Immortal Gift to Wang Youdao" that has been handed down to this day.
everyone in the east sun is thin , and the spirit of paint is still in the sky .
Yao Lin finally isolated himself from the wind and dust .
try to see the crane , he is still an immortal .
save words and waving jade dust , and really need to protect the authenticity of the equipment .
how romantic it is like a Taoist pure .
should not be with shu guest , but love zhuo wenjun .
The word was written when Su Shi was 67 years old, when Su Shi went to Lushan on the way to visit the famous mountains and rivers in Jiangxi.
In ancient times, most of the literati were Confucianists and Taoists, and they were happy to associate with monks and Taoists.
Those who know Su Dongpo know that he was well-read at the age of 20 and was admitted to the Jinshi at the age of 22. His talent was praised by Ouyang Xiu.
Su Shi has a career in officialdom for more than 40 years, but it is not smooth and can even be described as bumpy. Because of his straightforward nature, he was ostracized and framed by his colleagues in the officialdom.
Su Shi was demoted three times in his life, but fortunately, he had an optimistic and open-minded attitude that everyone admired, so he was not depressed all day long.
Perhaps it was the bumpy career path in his youth that led him to develop a strong interest in Taoism in his later years and make some Taoist friends.
Among them, there is a Taoist friend named Wang Youdao, he and Wang Youdao have been in correspondence for many years, and Su Shi came to Lushan this time to visit this old friend.
In this encounter, Su Shi found that this friend who was about the same age as him had a problem, that is, he didn't realize that he was old, but he was still so greedy for women, which was really insulting.
As a Taoist priest, he should have been pure and had few desires, thinking about how to carry forward their Taoist sect, but he was in a bad mood and trapped in women.
Not only is this not conducive to his cultivation, but his body will not be able to bear it sooner or later.
Su Shi is a person with a bold personality, and when he sees his friend going astray like this, he will definitely not choose to sit idly by.
In order to let Wang Youdao get out of the way as soon as possible, Su Dongpo also took great pains to write a poem "Linjiang Immortal Gift to Wang Youdao" to warn him.
In the upper part of this poem, Su Shi did not go straight to the point to highlight any exhortation. Instead, he took a gentle approach, focusing on complimenting and praising his friend.
In this, Su Shi used some allusions, and he compared Wang Youdao with celebrities such as Wang Xizhi, Wang Gong, and Wang Yan.
Praise them are all isolated from the world, and live freely with the world.
This was not enough, in the end, it was even more like comparing him to the Immortals to raise him to a new level. Because the so-called immortal was once a title used by the world to praise the poet Immortal Li Bai.
Seeing this, needless to say, if this friend at the time, Wang Youdao, had seen Su Shi touting them so high, he would have already been happy in his heart.
This can be said to have given his friend enough face in advance, so that his self-esteem has been satisfied to a large extent.
At the end of the word, Su Shi began to express his exhortation intention, and Su Shi probably expressed in a sentence in the word, even if he waved the dust of the jade handle, it was very important to take care of his body and recuperate.
In addition, Su Shi also admonished his friends, saying that where can the innocence of Taoism be compared to the romance of affairs? Like Sima Xiangru, a Shu guest, it is very unworthy of emulation to be overly greedy for Zhuo Wenjun.
The original sentence here is the two most remembered and controversial sentences in the first sentence, "The province can be lightly spoken, and the real must be protected." and should not be the same as Shu guests, but love Zhuo Wenjun. ”。
Su Dongpo's exhortation skills are still worth emulating to this day.
As we all know, persuasion is not an easy task. Usually everyone should have experienced it, when you are in good intentions and want to persuade someone, what you say is serious, people don't like to listen to it, you will do bad things with good intentions.
To put it lightly, the person being persuaded may not take it seriously at all and fail to achieve the purpose of the exhortation. The wisdom of Su Dongpo's exhortation lies in the fact that he did it first, and then the soldiers.
Before admonishing people, they first praised people, so that people could relax after watching them, and then they held each other to a new height, and finally admonished each other.
Not only does it not make people feel uncomfortable, but it also allows you to subtly admonish the idea.
At that time, Su Dongpo's words of admonishing friends were indeed just right, and it also had a good exhortation effect on friends.
However, later generations have always had a good opinion on this poem.
This poem has especially offended many women.
The reason lies in "should not be with Shu Ke, but love Zhuo Wenjun." "On this sentence.
For men, after reading this sentence, most of them will smile when they look at it, after all, who of them has never imagined that they also have a lot of confidants?
A person who loves only one person in his life is indeed difficult for them.
But from a girl's point of view, who doesn't want to find the "Sima Xiangru" who regards himself as his only true love? The story of Sima Xiangru and Zhuo Wenjun can be regarded as a good story of a talented man and a beautiful woman.
But Su Dongpo borrowed this allusion to persuade others not to follow suit. It is naturally inappropriate to use this as a negative teaching material.
On the other hand, some women think that Su Dongpo is writing like this, is it a subtle expression that the talented girl Zhuo Wenjun is the culprit of sex?
In fact, you don't have to have a prejudice about this poem, Su Shi undoubtedly has no intention of maliciously slandering anyone.
The reason why Zhuo Wenjun's allusions are quoted is entirely to let his Taoist friends and friends recognize their positioning as soon as possible.
After all, it is not easy to persuade people, let alone to persuade others not to be lustful for such a private matter?
Moreover, the social environment at that time was completely different from now, and the status of women at that time was very different from the status of women now, and it is probably understandable that Su Dongpo did not have such a high consciousness.
Besides, we can't one-sidedly only look at one or two sentences of a poem and criticize the author, according to the central idea of this poem, the upright Su Shi simply wants to persuade his friends that they are all old, and indulging in women will only cause him many adverse effects.
So let's not criticize this ancient man who took the trouble to help his friends, and dare to ask who else is suitable to be a friend like Su Dongpo?
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