"When I was able-bodied, I often complained about the bad environment around me, but when I was paralyzed, I missed the days of walking and running freely," Stetson said. A few years later, I developed bedsores and started to miss the time I spent in a wheelchair, then I got uremia and started to miss the days when I had bedsores, and after a few years, I needed dialysis and my waking time became very small, and I started to miss the uremia days. ”
Don't complain about life now. If you can still sigh and complain, it means that your life is not bad enough. People who are really bitter can't even make a sound.
In a program, Dou Wentao asked a young man who failed to start a business and was in debt: Do you think you are poor? The young man said: I am not poor, at least I can still be on the show. In reality, the real poor have no ability to speak out at all, and they are poor and poor.
You are not satisfied with the status quo, not because of how embarrassed the status quo is, but because you have a bad mentality. Cultivate your heart, when your heart is strong enough, indifferent enough, everything you see is a landscape, and everything you think is grateful.
Contentment
An explorer found treasure on a desert island and took the villagers to dig for it. Everyone sailed there and was very excited. They all worked very hard to dig, and everyone was eager to bring home all the treasures.
When they got on the boat and returned home, the villagers carried more treasure than the boat could carry, and the explorers told everyone to put most of the treasure down to ensure safety. However, everyone was blinded by the dream of getting rich and did not listen to the advice of the explorers.
The boat reached the middle of the stream, the villagers' boats sank into the water, and the explorers saved some of the people with their own empty boats.
The ancients said: Desire is hard to fill.
Desire is a bottomless pit, and when a desire is satisfied, more and greater desires will be born. In this way, I was led by desire for the rest of my life, lost myself, and never recovered.
Only by knowing how to control one's desires can one be the master of one's own life, and with clear wisdom, one can live as oneself wants.
Not being satisfied is always a pain that you can't ask for. Being content, life is easy to feel fulfilled.
Pleasure Self
Life is hard, and the only way to cross it is to cross it.
If you don't know how to please yourself, you will always soak in the bitter water of life, sink in, and suffer for a lifetime.
Some people live a good life, with fine clothes and food, and are leisurely, but their hearts are delicate and sensitive, sentimental, and they will only stare at the defects and regrets in life, and they will not feel the happiness of life.
And some people, even if they are deep in the mud, their lives are difficult, and others are sneering, they still live a sunny life, full of flowers, and unbridled.
The world is its own, and it has nothing to do with other people. Learn to love yourself and rely on yourself, if you snub yourself, then no one will love you.
Liu Bei looked at the thatched house three times, and did not see Zhuge Liang for the second time, so he asked the boy: Where is the gentleman? The boy replied: Or drive a boat on the rivers and lakes, or find a monk's way in the mountains, or visit friends in the villages, or play the qin and chess in the cave, unpredictable, nowhere to be found.
Zhuge Liang can always find fun for himself, and manage the days that are as light as water to be sound and colorful.
Pleasing ourselves and adding a little sugar to an already difficult life can make us find happiness.
epilogue
The best way to live is not to pursue great wealth and prosperity, but to be content and happy, please yourself, and live the current life without regrets.