December 20th
A woman in Hengyang County, Hunan Province posted a video saying
My 2-year-old child was beaten by my grandmother
The police were asked to detain the grandmother
The monitoring screen is displayed
A 2-year-old child
was slapped twice by the old man
After the child fell to the ground and cried
Still kicked over by the old man
Wait until your child stands up
The old man picked up the child again
Slam its head on the ground
Official response
the event
It has attracted widespread attention and heated discussions
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December 22nd
The Hengyang County Government responded
The police have been involved in the investigation
After investigation
Parents and grandfathers of children who were beaten
All of them work in other places
At the time of the incident, the grandmother was worried about the child
Playing on the side of the road and being hit by a car
Intimidation and scolding were adopted
The police have taken on the grandmother
Critical education was conducted
Netizen comments
For grandma's practice
Some netizens said they could understand
"This is the grandmother who is afraid that the child will run on the road"
"Don't make any effort, hold it high and put it gently"
But most netizens
I feel very angry
"For such a young child,
Too cruel, isn't it?"
There are also netizens
Questioned the results of the investigation
"I'm afraid that the child will run off the road,
After the beating, also put the child
Throw a man there?"
There are also suggestions from netizens
If possible, try to bring your own
Instead of using "intimidation education"
"The old man is too emotionally unstable,
The child should bring his own,
Otherwise, this shadow will stay with the child for the rest of his life!"
Please stop this "intimidation education"
The consequences are severe!
When the child is mischievous
A lot of parents for
Stop your child's wrong behavior
Tell your child:
"If you're naughty again,
Uncle police will come and take you away,
You're not going to see your mom and dad anymore."
There are also some parents
In a more brutal way,
Directly beat and scold the child to make the child "long memory"
"Intimidation education" may have an immediate effect, making naughty children temporarily quiet, but it is easier to leave a shadow on the child's psychology, causing children's cowardice, inferiority, and even hypocrisy, because they have long been Xi to yielding, and will be more likely to submit to "evil" people who are stronger than themselves in the future, making them more likely to be bullied.
Moreover, medical data show that fear is extremely harmful to human health. A strong atmosphere of fear and sudden fear events can cause a person's nerve center to be strongly stimulated.
Correct education requires the patience of parents, and the real goal of parents in educating their children is not to make them afraid, but to make them realize the wrong behavior and go to the right path, and the way of verbal "intimidation" is absolutely not feasible.
Try replacing negative verbal threats with positive promises, such as "I don't like you if you don't obey and don't do your homework" instead of "Be obedient and give you a hang out after your homework."
Parents when communicating with their children
The best way to do this is to lead positively
Be honest and open-minded
Observe what your child is afraid of
Try to psychologically dispel their fears
Overcome nervousness
It would be better to guide it again
When the child makes a mistake
What methods did the friends use to solve it?
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