In a blind date in Chongqing, a couple who were supposed to start a happy life sparked conflicts due to the bride price issue, and finally embarked on the road of breaking up. Xiaoli, an older girl, asked her blind date to pay a bride price of 66,000 yuan, which sparked a heated discussion about marriage, money and family responsibilities.
Xiaoli's family is in the countryside and she met a single man with average conditions. Despite the fact that men have excelled in many areas, the economic situation of the family has not improved. Xiaoli decided not to ask for a garage, only a bride price of 66,000 yuan. The man thought the amount was high and hoped to reduce it, but Xiaoli's family stood firm, leading to an eventual breakup.
This story has aroused the attention of the society, and the public has expressed their opinions. Some people think that Xiaoli is too insistent and that the bride price is not a proper concern in marriage, while others accuse men of being stingy and that marriage should not be linked by money. At the same time, the man chooses to marry a woman with a baby in a second marriage, which makes the story even more confusing and triggers thinking about the motives of marriage.
This incident makes us wonder whether there should be a monetary component in marriage, is it a problem with the bride price system, or is it a difference in the concept of marriage? In this social context, we need to think together and speak freely. Readers are invited to leave their valuable views on marriage and money.