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When I was studying, there was a word that was very popular, called "ivory tower".
The earliest origin of the word is in Bible songs, when a husband complimented his wife on the beautiful neck.
In the 19th century, after the French poet used the "ivory tower" to criticize another poet, the "ivory tower" became an imaginary paradise away from the social complexities.
After the 20th century, when it comes to the "ivory tower", everyone will involuntarily think of the school, because in the minds of many people, the school is "a pure land".
However, in recent years, some scandals have been exposed in schools from time to time, resulting in various conflicts between schools, students and parents.
No, December hasn't finished yet, and there have been multiple hot searches about schools, and each one is more uncomfortable than the other.
Let's first look at the first one, the school uniform must be worn outside, and the student is swollen into a tire man.
As we all know, the recent wave of cooling has caused many people to wear down jackets or padded jackets, including students from major schools.
However, these students, unlike us adults, have some schools that require children to wear uniforms to school.
This has led to the pain of some parents, how to wear the school uniform?
If you wear too little, your child will get cold, and if you wear too much and put on your school uniform, your child will be swollen into Michelin-tired men, and her arms will be like penguins.
Some parents even said that her children have been wearing three clothes and three pants to school these days, which looks like a "ball", which is very funny.
After this incident was exposed, it quickly became a hot search, and many netizens complained:
"Even if you wear it on weekdays, do you still wear it in winter?"
"Do you have to wear this school uniform?"
"I had this rule when I was studying, but I didn't expect that after so many years, this matter has not been canceled"
"It's speechless to see what these students are wearing"
Yes, although letting students wear school uniforms can show the overall style of the school and students, but is this kind of rigid requirement really for the sake of students?
Looking at the pictures posted by some parents, wearing school uniforms and putting on a few clothes, not only makes it inconvenient for children to move, but also has a very limited comfort and warmth effect.
If you really want your child to wear a school uniform, you can get a down jacket school uniform in winter, instead of making the student's body healthy, which is a rigid and rigid uniform dress code.
But it's such a simple requirement, and some schools can't do it!
Let's look at the second news, which is also outrageous.
It is about the head of a primary school in Jiangsu Province who sends his children to school in the morning.
However, in the case of minus 5 °C, the school does not let the children who arrive early in, but instead lets these students wait outside the school, and the parents complain, which is very inhumane!
Later, the parents asked the school staff why they didn't let the students in, and the results were:
The school requires students to arrive at 8 a.m., and considering that some parents will send their children early, the teacher will take turns to bring the students to the classroom, and if there are about 20 students, the teacher will bring them in.
After the incident was exposed, the staff of the school said that after discussion, the teachers will bring the students directly to the classroom after they arrive at the school, and they will no longer enter the school in batches.
This incident reminded me of the previous news, and it was also a parent who complained that a middle school, in the case of heavy rain, put students at the door to get drenched in the rain, because the time to enter the school did not arrive, so the door was not opened!
At that time, netizens who watched the video were very angry and said:
"It's raining so hard, the school says don't let you in, you look at these students standing outside, they have a cold and fever in the rain, how to learn and Xi!"
This incident also attracted the attention of CCTV celebrity Bai Yansong, who also spoke out on social platforms: This kind of "one-size-fits-all" regulations are very rigid.
Although I can understand that the school's approach is to fear that students will have "accidents" when they enter the school gate early, which will lead to "trouble" among parents, so they choose "more than one thing, better than one less thing".
After all, in recent years, accidental injuries to students have occurred from time to time, both school and parental factors, resulting in entanglement between the two sides on the division of responsibility.
But is this the right thing to do?
Some time ago, the discussion on social platforms about "ten minutes between classes" was very lively. The school stipulates that students can only Xi quietly in the classroom during recess, do not go to the playground to play, and are not allowed to jump.
But this request has led to a lot of absurd phenomena: children have to "socialize in the toilet" and even exchange snacks in the toilet.
What does this mean, relying on these hard and fast rules cannot stop certain things.
Judging from various experiences, there is no way to solve the "one-size-fits-all" behavior in schools.
For example, in the case of bad weather, the school can notify parents one day earlier and send a group notification in the class;
You can also set up a canopy and a rest area at the school gate, so that students can have a place to stay when the weather is cold or rainy, or arrange for parents to take turns to take care of them.
Parents should also understand that although the school has the responsibility of management and guardianship, this responsibility is not omnipotent, and some accidents in the school cannot be borne by the school.
In recent years, there have been more and more "entering the campus" affairs, and the non-teaching burden of teachers has become heavier and heavier, and this incident has undoubtedly once again exposed the management dilemma of some schools in the mainland.
Exchanging "the stillness of students" for "peace in school" seems to be a happy result, but in fact it is a deformed guidance to education.
Therefore, schools, teachers, and parents should not stand on opposite sides, but should understand each other.
Finally, let's look at the third news, which is also the most infuriating.
As we all know, the earthquake in Gansu has been affecting people's hearts in the past few days.
From various videos and images uploaded on the Internet, we can see that when the earthquake occurred, the houses shook violently, the buildings were in ruins, and many people ran away in panic in the middle of the night.
In this case, a university in Xi'an actually did something incomprehensible.
At that time, the students living in the school wanted to run out of the dormitory as soon as possible after seeing the warning news of the earthquake.
However, the students' safe passage could not be opened because it was locked.
You know, at that time, at that time, at the critical moment, on the crowded corridor, every extra second implied more dangers.
But this group of students lost their freedom because of a lock.
At first, some students shouted to find the dormitory manager to open the door, but after shouting Auntie many times, no one paid attention.
In the persistent shouting of the students, I finally waited for the response of the dormitory manager, but unexpectedly, the response of the dormitory manager was: there is no instruction from the street guide and the school leader, and it is not yet time to open the door, so they can't be let out.
From the news reports, I think everyone can feel how desperate this group of students must have been.
Fortunately, in the end, a student picked up a stool in the dormitory, broke the glass on the door, and ran to the open area with the others.
Afterwards, a reporter interviewed the school and found that the school had invited the Shaanxi Mobile Team of the National Fire and Rescue Bureau to organize relevant activities this year, and conducted fire safety knowledge lectures and earthquake fire drills.
Unexpectedly, after the incident really happened, the so-called safety guidance was more often just a formality, and few people really put student safety first.
In order to facilitate the management of university dormitories, the doors are locked at night, and I believe everyone can understand, but under special circumstances, if you want to know how to be flexible, don't you understand this point?
After the incident, it immediately attracted the attention of netizens across the country, and even CCTV reported the incident, saying that it would pay attention to this situation.
After the earthquake, the school also responded, saying that it was aware of the situation and was dealing with the matter.
The word "processing" is intriguing.
Is it to deal with the dormitory management or to deal with the students who broke the glass and escaped from the dormitory?Or is it to investigate the campus security incident and give reasonable attention.
I hope that the follow-up treatment is not simply to deal with the dereliction of duty of the dormitory manager, but to pay attention to the huge negligence in the safety management of the school!
After all, natural disasters cannot be avoided, but disaster mitigation is human.
From these news, we can see many similar "one-size-fits-all" and "formalism", which should not appear in schools, as important places for teaching and educating people.
It is hoped that in the future, schools should make reasonable decisions based on the actual situation, fully consider the needs of students, and refuse unrealistic ideas to enter the campus.