Author: Wen Sui's emotion
On December 22, the high-profile Jin Sha took her boyfriend Sun Chengxiao, who was 19 years younger than her, on the red carpet for the first time, and their sweet behavior instantly sparked heated discussions among netizens.
In this shining event, Jin Sha was wearing a silver sequined dress, delicate and gorgeous, like a little princess in a fairy tale, while her boyfriend Sun Chengxiao was wearing a suit, tall and thin, always paying attention to Jin Sha's every move.
In the lively atmosphere of the scene, the two competed together, and the photo session was directly on the red carpet in front of everyone and kissed passionately, which was impressive.
After kissing for a while, Jin Sha stopped and looked at Sun Chengxiao with a shyly face, and the picture was full of sweetness.
The host invited Jin Sha and Sun Chengxiao to comment on each other's styles. Jin Sha generously praised her boyfriend's appearance today for being very similar to the male protagonist Do Min Joon in the Korean drama "You from the Star", while Sun Chengxiao responded wittily, saying that Jin Sha is like a beautiful mermaid princess.
Although the two are 19 years apart, their affectionate performance on the red carpet has sparked controversy among netizens.
Many netizens said: "This age gap looks like a primary school student kissing his mother!"
However, the power of love makes them ignore the age gap and bravely pursue true love.
Recently, 42-year-old Jin Sha posted this video of walking the red carpet on social platforms, and affectionately called out to her boyfriend Sun Chengxiao: "May love make us relax, progress, and every day is full of positive energy." ”
In the video, Jin Sha is dressed in white and tied in a ponytail, full of energy. She folded her hands and made a sincere wish: "May the 9 suns bless Sun Chengxiao, and he can love me until the last moment of his life." ”
In the face of Jin Sha's affectionate confession, Sun Chengxiao quickly responded: "I hope Jin Sha can love me for 500 million lifetimes." ”
This pair of lovers proved with practical actions that true love is fearless of age, as long as there is love in their hearts, every day is happy. Let's bless this pair of lovers and wish their love for a long and sweet one.
However, it was questioned and ridiculed by many netizens in the comment area. Jin Sha, a female singer known as the "princess of love songs", this bold attempt in feelings does not seem to be recognized by the public.
On the contrary, many people feel that she is in her forties and should look at feelings more realistically, rather than falling into the so-called "love brain".
The incident started on November 3, Jin Sha posted a video with the man's official announcement on Weibo, and the man's name in the video was Sun Chengxiao. This boy, who is only in his early 20s, has just graduated from the Shanghai Theater Academy, and the difference between him and Jin Sha is nearly 20 years old.
In the video released by Jinsha, she revealed the age gap between the two, and said that the year she was born was the year of her debut.
After this relationship was exposed, there were two voices in Jinsha's circle of friends. Half of them envy her for finding such a young boyfriend and think she is as attractive as she was back then, while the other half think she is too idealistic and has too many illusions about the relationship.
In the face of these different opinions, Jin Sha admitted frankly that although age is a hurdle between the two, she still feels that the man is a husband candidate worth looking forward to.
Jin Sha has always been eager to get married, she thinks that good men are not circulating in the market, and Sun Chengxiao is this rare "good man".
Despite the large age gap between the two, Jinsha firmly believes that true love can overcome everything. At the same time, Sun Chengxiao also spoke bluntly, saying that her love goal is to get married, not just play.
Behind this comment area full of doubts and ridicule, we don't know whether the relationship between Jinsha and Sun Chengxiao can go to the end.
A netizen said that he did not pursue Jinsha, but he had to say that netizens showed double standards for relationships with different age differences.
Taking Wu Qilong and Liu Shishi as an example, the age gap between the two is almost 20 years old, but the public generally gives blessings, and even thinks that this is a normal relationship.
However, when the roles were reversed, that is, women were older than men, netizens questioned one after another, and some even maliciously attacked and abused.
This made this netizen sigh: In fact, it doesn't have to be like this.
First of all, we must admit that the age gap is indeed a factor that cannot be ignored in a relationship. Lovers of similar age are more likely to resonate, and the growth process they have experienced together can also enhance their understanding of each other.
But we should also understand that love does not depend solely on age. In fact, love is a complex relationship that encompasses many other aspects such as trust, understanding, support, etc.
When we look at the relationship between Wu Qilong and Liu Shishi, we will find that the interaction between them is full of tacit understanding and warmth.
Both of them are powerful actors in the entertainment industry, and each other's career achievements are worthy of admiration.
Such a relationship is undoubtedly based on mutual respect and understanding. Therefore, netizens blessed them because they saw the sincerity and beauty in this relationship.
However, when roles are reversed, why is it so difficult for us to accept it?
In fact, this is where we should reflect on it. In real life, the age gap is not the only measure of the success of a relationship.
In fact, there are many relationships with a large age gap that also have happy endings.
For example, the famous Taiwanese writer Li Ao and his wife Chen Wenqian, who is 29 years younger than him, their relationship once became the focus of public opinion, but in the end they responded to all doubts with a happy life.
So, when we look at Jinsha's romance, why can't we give them the same blessings?
We should look at the age gap rationally, instead of blindly insulting and attacking.
Love is beautiful, and we all want to see every couple of lovers eventually become married. And in the face of love, age is really not an issue.
Finally, we need to recognize that everyone has the right to pursue their own happiness. Whether it is Wu Qilong, Liu Shishi, or Jin Sha, they all have the right to choose their own love.
And we, as bystanders, should give them more understanding and blessings, instead of judging their relationship with double standards.
Let's look at these relationships with a more open mind and believe in the power of love, which transcends the boundaries of age and brings us endless warmth and happiness.