Introduction to the famous dancer Shen Peiyi
Speaking of the most outstanding contemporary Chinese dance performance artist, how can you not mention the name Shen Peiyi? She is like a dignified and elegant jasmine flower, blooming on the stage with her graceful figure, and every movement is full of agility and rhythm.
The work "Farewell to the Newlyweds" depicts the sorrow of the bride tearfully parting with the groom, which deeply touched the hearts of countless audiences. "Falling Flowers in a Dream" renders a hazy dream-like beauty through tactful gestures.
Coincidentally, Shen Peiyi, who was born in Guangzhou in 1966, could have lived a privileged life, his parents were intellectuals, and his family was wealthy. However, the political movement caused unprovoked damage to the children in this greenhouse, and the family was displaced under the roof.
At the age of 9, she set foot in Beijing with a dream, but was almost interrupted by the political trial. Fortunately, fate favored her, and at the age of 12, she entered the Beijing Dance Academy to study Xi dance as she wished.
Now 57-year-old Shen Peiyi is not only a recognized dance master, but also starred in many successful film and television dramas. But what makes the public talk about the most is her 29-year marriage.
Her husband Wang Xiaoming is not as good as her, but he always follows him. The story of the two has become a classic case of "strong women and weak men" marriage, which is worth reading carefully for every pair of lovers.
Childhood experience in the middle of the family
If Shen Peiyi were to go back to when she was born in 1966, how would she choose her fate? Probably all little girls would fantasize about becoming a princess, living in a luxurious castle, and being pampered by their parents and servants.
At first, Shen Peiyi's life seemed to be favored by God, and everything was as she wished.
His father was a famous painter, his mother was a middle school teacher, and his family was surrounded by servants and silver. At a young age, she has learned to taste sweet and delicious cakes and play in a large house with classical architecture.
However, the good times were short-lived. In 1969, their father was criticized, and their fate changed abruptly. Gone is the extravagant life, replaced by the despair of the ruined family.
The western-style buildings with bright and clean windows are gone, replaced by wind and food under the eaves. Her mother held her young child and stood in the heavy rain for three days and three nights, tears mixed with the rain.
The heavy blow sealed the memory. In order to make a living, her parents decided to entrust her to her grandmother in Wuhan to raise. Whether it's crying or reluctant, the torrent of fate has pushed this little girl who is less than 10 years old to an unknown distance.
Dance paints a successful Shen Peiyi
Life is like a dance, with ups and downs, ups and downs. Counting Shen Peiyi's experience, she is like a small dandelion, floating from Guangzhou to Wuhan, and then to Beijing to settle down.
At the age of twelve, she entered the Beijing Dance Academy to study Xi ethnic dance, and finally found her destiny in life.
Shen Peiyi is a natural dancer, with a high level of understanding and hard work. Under the strict training, she is always the first to arrive and the last to leave. The body during the development period is like a soft vine, which gets the most beautiful metamorphosis in stretching and rotating.
Those seemingly arduous movements were so calm and light on her.
After graduating from university, Shen Peiyi directly studied for graduate studies at the university and stayed on to teach. She is a top student, both in terms of theoretical knowledge and practical experience, far beyond her peers.
At the age of 23, Shen Peiyi joined the General Political Song and Dance Troupe and became the youngest member of the troupe. The days of Huaicai are not easy, but she has no complaints. At the age of 29, Shen Peiyi became one of the youngest national first-class actors in China at that time! This is tantamount to a master's affirmation and the highest recognition of her artistic attainments.
Since then, Shen Peiyi has become one of the most outstanding dance performance artists in China! Every work she brings is shocking and moving. Whether it is the sad parting "Newlyweds", or the ethereal and romantic "Falling Flowers in the Dream", the beautiful figure makes people's eyes bright.
Successful Shen Peiyi, painted with sweat and perseverance. Now every time she takes center stage, she cherishes it and is grateful.
Ordinary husband Wang Xiaoming: Shen Peiyi's harbor
We often say that the better a woman is, the more she will choose a partner who walks side by side.
The acquaintance of the two is not thrilling, but the most ordinary colleagues. In 1991, Shen Peiyi joined the General Political Song and Dance Troupe, where she met Wang Xiaoming.
I have to say that at first glance, Wang Xiaoming is not outstanding, a very ordinary young dancer, with a mediocre appearance and no big reputation.
But Shen Peiyi fell in love with him. Maybe it was the maturity and stability of his body that didn't match his age that attracted her, or maybe it was the innocence and kindness in his eyes that moved her.
Despite the different opinions, Shen Peiyi's determination has never wavered. In her eyes, her husband's excellence and excellence never look at the outside, but on the inside.
In 1994, holding the hand of the son, growing old with the son, the two hearts took root in Beijing. In order to make his family's life better, Wang Xiaoming consciously resigned from the song and dance troupe in 2003 and founded a cultural company.
It is not easy to struggle to fish in the commercial sea, and the ups and downs make Wang Xiaoming physically and mentally exhausted. Fortunately, his wife is always waiting behind him. Shen Peiyi desperately supported her husband, and finally put the small company on the right track.
The glitz fades, and the essence makes people. The ordinary Wang Xiaoming, the extraordinary Shen Peiyi.
Strong women and weak men in marriage: Shen Peiyi's choice
We often say that a marriage in which a woman is strong and a man is weak is destined not to last long. Because the woman often has too strong a sense of superiority and looks down on her husband, the weight of marriage is unbalanced, and there is only parting.
But Shen Peiyi proved that this is not the case.
In 2001, at the age of 35, she gave birth to her daughter Wang Zixin. Now that her daughter has grown up, the family of three is happy.
Her secret, in fact, is very simple. First of all, Shen Peiyi never felt that she was better than her husband. Whether it is career success or fame and status, she is humble.
She understands that her husband and herself are just different in life, but walking together for a lifetime is eternal.
Secondly, Shen Peiyi rarely compares with other women's husbands, and is never superior to this. Even if some friends marry and become famous, and her husband lives in a big villa in a famous car, she can not pay attention to it at all.
Because, as long as she has a happy marriage, it's fine.
Finally, Shen Peiyi cherishes the people around him very much. We often say that the most feared thing in feelings is forgetting and procrastination. For 29 years, she has been running this family with her heart and has never slacked off.
She believes that as long as she is attentive enough, the road of marriage will go farther and farther, and the sweeter it will be.
It is not difficult to succeed in the marriage of women, the key depends on whether you put your heart into it. This is a life lesson that Shen Peiyi has taught us.
Behind the scenes hero Wang Xiaoming: Shen Peiyi's backing
We often hear that there is a great man behind successful women. For Shen Peiyi and his wife, this sentence couldn't be more correct.
On the glamorous stage, Shen Peiyi spun and jumped, blooming with light and heat. And when she takes off her gorgeous dance dress, her husband Wang Xiaoming will silently stay backstage, waiting for her with a warm baby and a towel.
Wang Xiaoming is like a nameless pillar that gives strength to his wife when she is tired.
In fact, for Shen Peiyi, her husband's support is far more than that. During the day, Wang Xiaoming is busy working to support his family; When he returned home at night, he was still the considerate "Little Mingzai", cooking and cleaning with his own hands, and accompanying his daughter to do her homework.
What's even more touching is that the two have gone hand in hand over the years to face the ups and downs of life together. In order to give his wife a better development platform, Wang Xiaoming quit his stable job and founded a cultural company.
It was not easy to get started, and he ran around all day, but he never complained. Because he knows that his wife will always support him.
Along the way, Wang Xiaoming carried this family on both shoulders. He may not be as good and dazzling as Shen Peiyi, but he builds warmth with his hands, watches with his eyes, and accompanies him with sincerity, and everything is not bad.
This is the hero behind the scenes.
The secret of happiness: Mindset determines marriage
Love is like a dance, if you frown, the dance will no longer be light. This is Shen Peiyi's experience in the past 29 years.
We often ask, have you met the right person? And Shen Peiyi taught us that it is not only the right person, but also the right mentality. Over the years, she and her husband have remained in a sweet relationship, just because she loves him in the right way.
First of all, Shen Peiyi never felt that she was better than her husband. She will not be superior to others because of her career success and fame, and she will not hurt her husband with this sense of superiority.
In her eyes, her husband has always been the most important backing.
Secondly, Shen Peiyi's heart is very peaceful. Some women always like to compare their husbands with others to get a sense of accomplishment from them. And Shen Peiyi is not like this.
She doesn't care about the standard of success in the eyes of others, as long as two people are happy together, it is happiness.
In the end, Shen Peiyi cherishes everyone around him very much. For 29 years, she has been carefully running this family, for fear that she will lose everything she has worked so hard to get if she is not careful.
It is precisely because of her heart and affection that life will be so fulfilling.
Love always begins with a smile and ends with a quarrel. Mentality determines marriage, this is the secret of Shen Peiyi's 29 years of keeping the clouds open and seeing the moon.