It's been a long time since I've seen a scene like this-
A couple divorced, all netizens were worried, and until now, firecrackers were set off in the comment area to congratulate.
It can only be said that it is not how much the people who eat melons like to hold justice and become "emotional judges", but they are too much to bring emotions into.
"Goodbye Lover 3" is over, and the relationship between Zhang Shuo and Wang Mianmian can be regarded as an end, and even the introduction of the entry can't wait to draw a clear relationship between the two.
I still remember that at the beginning of the show, everyone was holding the mentality of eating melons, but the more they watched it, the better they looked, and at the end, they all wanted to weld Wang Mian to death in the car, so that she could escape overnight, and the farther away from Zhang Shuo, the better.
Maybe even they themselves are ignorant, how did it become like this?
Between them, there was originally a novel-like opening.
met in high school, fell in love in college, walked into society from campus, from a young boy to a family, for ten years, they have always been by each other's side, and they are the "golden boy and girl" in the eyes of outsiders.
It's just that nothing is set in stone, including feelings.
The fuse of all contradictions is attributed to two words, that is, marriage troubles.
Three years ago, at the wedding, Zhang Shuo's friend harassed the bridesmaids while the couple was busy, and after reacting, Zhang Shuo went to apologize to the bridesmaids.
Sleep sleeps but feels that whoever is at fault should bear it, and wants Zhang Shuo to stand firmly on his side and find the harasser to apologize in person.
Such a request is not excessive, but it is a pity that Zhang Shuo took care of his buddy's face and never took any action, so it dragged on for three years.
During this period, whenever the two quarreled, this old incident would be turned over, Zhang Shuo felt that it was a trivial matter, but he didn't understand that it was a wound that had been difficult to heal in his heart.
After marriage, their quarrels became more and more frequent, and it can be seen from the show that the two will fall into a suffocating atmosphere of disputes from time to time.
At first glance, I thought it was a short temper and aggressiveness, but later I realized that it was Zhang Shuo who forced her to look like this.
During the journey, the group was arranged to climb the iceberg, and soon after falling asleep, they developed a low-grade fever, and Zhang Shuo called the program team to help find medicine, and then went back to sleep with peace of mind.
Asked why he was indifferent, he said:
"Actually, I cared about her at the first time, and my concern may have been to ask her what was wrong, and then to help her ask for help from others. ”
Good guy, listening to this tone, you still feel quite proud?
Looking further down, it seems like he's always done that.
In the past, when she was sick when she slept and slept in the hospital, she would be left alone to take a drip, and then go out to eat stew by herself.
And when he was sick, he always stayed by the bedside when he slept, and he didn't dare to leave.
Sleep knows that he pays attention to the sense of ceremony, so over the years, every birthday, anniversaries and other large and small days, he will always prepare gifts for him, but he has not even given a bouquet of flowers.
When asked about the reason, he said that because he gave a sweater chain many years ago, he said he didn't like it and asked him to return it.
After that, he felt that he would not get positive feedback even if he gave gifts, and it was better not to do it at all than to do it wrong.
If these absences in action are annoying, then his eloquent mouth adds fuel to the fire, so that countless netizens can only use "???" to express their indignation on the barrage.
The house where the two lived together was the down payment paid by Zhang Shuo's parents, and Zhang Shuo's name was written, but usually the two of them repaid the loan together.
Zhang Shuo said that he didn't mind adding Sleepy's name, but when Sleepy really asked, he excused himself by saying that the real estate certificate had not been done and he couldn't get it for the time being.
In front of other male guests, Zhang Shuo also mentioned that sometimes he didn't pay off the mortgage when he slept and slept with all the money he paid.
Even the other guests couldn't listen to it, and said: "It's right if you don't give it!"
He emphasized, "They live together."
At this moment, even the guests in the observation room couldn't listen to it, and bluntly said that there was a feeling of collecting rent from sleep.
Turning to the statement of sleep, it seems that the truth is not like that.
Usually, when Zhang Shuo only cares about eating, drinking, and having fun, and spends all the money in his pocket, he sleeps to pay off the mortgage.
On two occasions, Zhang Shuo once listened to the words of his friends who drank and meat, and he had to engage in some investments that he was not familiar with, and his persuasion was useless, and he failed as expected.
Not to mention that he has been abandoned for two years, it has brought a series of troubles, and he has also slept and raised this family during this period.
As a result, on the show, Zhang Shuo not only dumped Buffett in a grand manner:
"I'm just unlucky, you can't just say that my decision at that time was unreliable just because the result failed, you call Buffett over now, do you see if he can make every investment?"
is even more justifiable to sleep:
"Actually, I didn't let you pay more!"
How to say it, if it weren't for reading the cause and effect, this is so firm that it really makes people almost believe it.
What Zhang Shuo is best at is the output of his mouth, including but not limited to: quibbling, throwing the pot, painting cakes, and acting......
When asked why he went to deliver lamb skewers when he had a fever after sleeping, he said it was because the lamb there was precious;
When asked why he felt wronged, he said that it was because his efforts were not seen by Sleep and could not be praised, but even he couldn't say what he actually paid;
Every time he was questioned by Sleep because of his lack of attention to action, his answer was forever "I know I can't do well, can you give me a little time?";
When asked why he was indifferent to the crying of sleep before and after marriage, he said that because women are strong and men are weak, he feels inferior and is eager to prove himself......
These behaviors stung her sleep deeply, so she had to stab back hard with-for-tat words every time, wanting Zhang Shuo to feel the same pain in her heart.
As a result, it slowly evolved into a forever aggressive Wang Sleep, and a grievance and poor Zhang Shuo.
The further the show goes, the more puzzled everyone becomes, they have been hurt like this, why they can still hold on not to divorce.
It doesn't seem to be the case that she's "in love".
Because she is never blind, even every analysis of herself, the analysis of this relationship, can be called profound.
She knew very well in her heart that Zhang Shuo didn't love her as much as he said, he was not mature enough to be the head of the family, and after getting married, he probably felt that he was trapped and didn't want to think about it anymore.
But she always had a glimmer of hope, expecting Zhang Shuo to change, and at the same time had countless confusions and fears about the future without him.
So every time Zhang Shuo takes a small step, she will be pulled by emotion and reason, on the one hand, she will obviously soften her attitude, and on the other hand, she will rationally wait for Zhang Shuo to solve the problem, which is called "sober love brain" by netizens.
As for Zhang Shuo, whenever he was about to lose her, his sense of urgency would change him, but once he noticed that his sleep had become gentle, he would immediately get carried away.
It can be said that until the last moment of the choice, she still did not give up on sleeping, and she was still telling herself that if she could rebuild a little bit of trust in Zhang Shuo, maybe this relationship would last.
It's just that Zhang Shuo still lived up to her expectations.
She prepared her high school uniform, dressed up as her first encounter, and said a solemn goodbye to her youthful love.
When she got out of this relationship, she realized that there are still many choices and ways to live in her life.
And Sister Kapok wants to say, never be afraid of the unknown that choice brings.
If you are already in pain, then no matter which direction you take a step, you may be approaching happiness.
I still remember Guo Keyu in "Goodbye Lover 1", she is naïve and reckless, she will rely on and care for Zhang He during the journey, but she will also firmly choose not to remarry.
Because she knows that she has been in this marriage for too long, and it is time to let each other go.
Later, she reappeared, wearing a white dress and singing "South China Sea Girl" on the beach, the smile on the corner of her eyebrows made the whole person reveal her vigorous vitality, so beautiful that she couldn't take her eyes off.
It's no longer the raunchy look it once was.
It's a gift she chooses to give back to herself.
and Wu Yating in "Spring Delayed Departure", the story of her and Wang Lixin, until now, has made many netizens have a trace of anticipation, waiting for the day when they will remarry.
In the past, they loved each other in a high-profile manner, and Weibo was full of traces of their love.
However, in the end, they couldn't withstand the impact of time, and on the day of the divorce, they looked unusually bland.
During that time, Wang Lixin was so bullied by the Internet that she was afraid to see people, and Wu Yating "cried when she woke up, and slept when she woke up crying" every day.
But time has finally given an answer to their choice.
Now Wang Lixin, relying on his excellent business ability and true temperament, has gained a lot of fans, and his career is thriving.
Wu Yating, who started as an anchor with goods, was full of confidence and cheerfulness on her face.
In order to minimize the impact of the divorce on the children, they agreed that both children would live with their mothers.
However, they will not be absent from every important moment of the child, and will celebrate the child's birthday together.
The two children went to Dad's concert as guests, and the mother would prepare happily with the children two months in advance.
Then one is on the stage to support the bottom, and the other is cheering off the stage.
After separation, they both get better and better, and that's what the choice is about.
As for what the future holds, it doesn't really matter.
Because love is romantic, reality is also cruel.
It is beautiful to grow old together, but if Lan is fruitful, he only hopes that they can be well with each other.
What really matters is not whether you are one person or two people when you move forward, but always have light in your eyes and walk on the road to happiness.
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