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My husband Xiaobao and I have been married for two years, and we can say that we are a very loving couple.
"My dear, we've been married for two years, and time flies. "One morning, I lay in my husband's arms and said sweetly.
"Yes, I feel very happy every day with you. "My husband stroked my hair gently.
Back home, I couldn't wait to share the good news with my husband: "Husband, guess what? I'm pregnant!"
My husband was so excited that he hugged me tightly and circled, "Really? Great! We're going to be mom and dad!"
Just when we were immersed in the joy of becoming parents, my husband's mother, who is also my mother-in-law, Li Nan, called. I told her the good news.
"Pregnant? I have to be more careful, don't mess with my grandchildren. The mother-in-law's tone was a little displeased.
I replied softly, "Mom, don't worry, I'll take care of it." ”
The mother-in-law then said, "Okay, hang up." I'm going to move in with you for the next two days and take care of you and the kids. ”
I was a little embarrassed, my mother-in-law was rather mean, and I was worried that her moving here would affect my life with my husband. But when I thought that I really needed someone to take care of me, I didn't object.
I held back the dissatisfaction in my heart and said with a smile: "Mom, you have worked hard, let me pour you a glass of water." ”
"There's no time to drink your water!" The mother-in-law said impatiently, "Go to the kitchen and help me prepare dinner, don't be lazy all day long!"
"Okay Mom, I'll go now. "I had to obediently go into the kitchen.
After dinner, the mother-in-law suddenly announced the new house rules: "I see that your life is too casual, from today onwards, the family's meals, washing dishes and other housework have to be done in turn, and I have already done a good job of the task list." You must strictly follow the table, and if you violate the rules, I will deduct 100 yuan from you every day!"
My husband and I looked at each other, this order is too dead. And now that I'm pregnant, it's not appropriate to do heavy work in the first place.
"Mom, me
"Mom, I'm pregnant now, it's not appropriate to do heavy work, can you relieve me of my task first?" I said cautiously.
The mother-in-law snorted coldly: "Don't look at whose child you are pregnant, you are still so squeamish when you are pregnant, and it will be even harder to give birth to a child in the future! Go and do your task, don't make excuses for me!"
I could only silently go into the kitchen to wash the dishes, feeling very aggrieved. After washing the dishes, my back hurts, and I am really tired. When my mother-in-law saw me resting, she said loudly, "I'm so tired after washing the dishes, what will I do when I have a baby? It's really useless!"
Holding back my tears, I asked my husband to help me go to the bedroom to rest. My husband said distressedly: "Mom is so embarrassed for you, I'll go talk to her." ”
"Forget it, it's useless to say it, it will only upset her. "I advised my husband not to look for trouble.
After that, my mother-in-law's harsh criticism of me became more and more severe, and my tasks became heavier and heavier. She always finds fault with me, the dishes I wash are not clean, the food I cook is not delicious, the floor is not clean, etc. Although I was very tired, I never dared to complain for fear of causing my mother-in-law's dissatisfaction.
One day, my mother-in-law ordered me to climb a ladder to clean the windows. I was scared and said, "Mom, I'm five months pregnant, and it's not convenient to climb the ladder, please let my husband come." ”
"There are excuses!" My mother-in-law forced me to climb up without saying anything, "I'll see if you dare to disobey me!"
I could only climb the ladder with tears in my eyes and carefully wipe the window. Halfway through the road, I fell off the ladder!
"Daughter-in-law!" My husband nervously helped me up, "Are you okay?"
Only then did my mother-in-law realize that the situation was serious, and she asked her husband to take me to the hospital immediately.
At the hospital, the doctor examined me and said that I had signs of threatened miscarriage and needed to be hospitalized for observation. I was terrified, afraid I would lose my baby. My husband's heart is like a knife, and he can't wait to suffer this for himself.
When I returned home, my husband finally couldn't bear it anymore and became angry with his mother-in-law: "Mom, how can you treat your daughter-in-law like this! She is weak, you have to toss her, and we almost lost our child!"
"Enough!" My husband yelled, "You have to move right away today."
"Enough!" The husband roared, "You must move out of our house immediately today, you can't hurt my wife anymore!"
The mother-in-law panicked now, and she begged: "Son, I really didn't mean it, you can forgive me this time!"
"No way!" My husband was resolute, "Unless you move out immediately, we will call the police and let you get out!"
My mother-in-law packed her luggage with a sad face and kept complaining that I had caused her to lose her son. Although I am still angry, I can't bear to see her like this.
"Mom, I understand that you want to help, but you can't do it this way. You'd better go back to your own home and come back to see you when I'm better. "I advise my mother-in-law.
My mother-in-law gave me a blank look and slammed the door. My husband and I were relieved and finally returned to the happy and peaceful world of two.
A few days later, I was discharged from the hospital and went home to continue my recuperation. My mother-in-law called me, still in the same commanding tone: "I'm here to cook a meal for you today, and you are waiting for me to prepare the ingredients." ”
I immediately refused: "No need Mom, I can cook by myself, don't come." ”
"What are you doing when you're sick!" The mother-in-law did not relent, "I am coming, you are not allowed to stop me!"
I had no choice but to ask my husband to go to my mother-in-law's house to intercept her. Sure enough, the husband stopped the mother-in-law, and the mother-in-law went home angrily.
After that, my mother-in-law tried all kinds of tricks to return to our house, but was intercepted by my husband one by one. Finally, at the insistence of my husband, my mother-in-law no longer appeared in front of us.
My health is gradually improving, and the baby in my womb is safe and healthy. In the later stages of pregnancy, my husband was very considerate of me and took care of all the housework at home, allowing me to concentrate on recuperation.
"Husband, thank you for always protecting me. "One day, I said to my husband gratefully.
"That's what I'm supposed to do. My husband held my hand, "You have given me such a lovely home, and I will always protect you." ”
I was so moved that I kissed my husband on the cheek. With my husband, I feel extremely happy and satisfied.
In this way, under the care of my husband, I passed the pregnancy period safely and gave birth to a lovely daughter. We named her Xiao Huan because her arrival made our whole family happy.
On the day of Xiao Huan's 100th day, her mother-in-law suddenly called and said that she wanted to come to see her granddaughter. I hesitated, fearing that she would be bad again. The husband said, "Just let Mom come, she should be happy to see her granddaughter." ”
I thought so, so I agreed with my mother-in-law to come and see Xiao Huan.
When her mother-in-law came, when she saw Xiao Huan, a smile finally appeared on her face, and she couldn't help but tease her granddaughter.
"Xiao Huan is so cute, look at grandma here!" The mother-in-law said happily.
I saw that my mother-in-law liked Xiao Huan so much, and I also let down my guard and took the initiative to invite her to stay for dinner.
“妈,您坐会儿,我给您盛碗汤。 ”
"Good boy, you know filial piety to your mother-in-law!" My mother-in-law was happy now.
After my mother-in-law finished eating, she offered to help me wash the dishes and clean up. I hesitated, but agreed. Unexpectedly, my mother-in-law was very face-saving this time and did all the housework in an orderly manner.
"Daughter-in-law, it seems that my mother is also very happy about Xiao Huan's arrival, and now our family can get along in harmony. My husband said to me with a smile.
"Yes, with Xiao Huan, my mother has become much kinder. I nodded with satisfaction.
Since then, my mother-in-law often comes to the house to help take care of Xiao Huan, and no longer asks me to do housework. My husband and I are relieved that our home has finally found balance.
However, the good times didn't last long, and when Xiao Huan turned one year old, her mother-in-law suddenly said that she would take her out.
I immediately refused: "No, Xiao Huan is still so young, she can't leave our husband and wife!"
The mother-in-law tried her best to coax: "Just go out for a while, buy a gift for Xiao Huan, and come back soon!"
"No! unless you move out of our house forever!" I said it strongly.
My mother-in-law was annoyed and angry, she pointed at my nose and scolded: "You unfilial woman, I know that you are not well-intentioned!"
"You're the one who spends all day!" I was also excited.
Just as we were arguing, my husband came back. As soon as he heard what we were arguing about, he immediately understood that his mother-in-law was cheating again.
"Enough Mom, don't you want to bully my wife anymore!" My husband stood beside me, "If you do this again, don't want to see Xiao Huan!"
"I'm her grandmother, and I have the right to take her out!" The mother-in-law did not give up.
"You can't take half a step from my daughter without my consent!" I said angrily.
In the end, at the insistence of her husband, her mother-in-law left in disgrace. This time, my husband never allowed her to step into our house again.
"Husband, thank you for protecting me and Xiao Huan again and again. "I hugged my husband gratefully.
"You and Xiao Huan are the people I love the most, and I will always protect you. "Husband gently
"You and Xiao Huan are the people I love the most, and I will always protect you. "My husband gently stroked my hair.
I was moved to tears, and we hugged each other.
Since then, the mother-in-law has never appeared again. As time passed, my relationship with my husband became stronger and stronger, and Xiao Huan gradually grew up.
Until one day, my husband suddenly received a phone call, and the staff on the other end of the phone was a staff member of the nursing home. They said that my mother-in-law is very weak now, and her life may not be long in the future, and she wants to see us as a husband and wife.
"Do you think we should go and see my mother-in-law for the last time?" My husband asked me.
I hesitated. My mother-in-law treated me badly in the past, but after all, she is also my husband's mother.
"Go ahead. I finally said, "Just do what a son does." ”
So my wife and I went to the old people's home. I saw my mother-in-law lying on the hospital bed, pale and very weak.
"Son, daughter-in-law, you are here. The mother-in-law said weakly.
"Mom, are you okay?" My husband asked with concern.
"I'm dying. The mother-in-law sighed, "I know that what I have done in the past has made you and your wife miserable. Today, I want to say sorry to you. ”
My husband and I were surprised, we didn't expect my mother-in-law to apologize.
"Daughter-in-law, I shouldn't have treated you like this back then. I was too selfish and mean. Can you please forgive me?" The mother-in-law was full of remorse.
"Mom, I forgive you. I finally said.
"Great. Only then can I die without regrets. The mother-in-law smiled weakly.
I looked at her emaciated figure, and a sudden wave of pity rose in my heart.
"Mom, I'll take care of my husband and Xiaohuan. Go ahead and go. I held my mother-in-law's hand.
We accompany my mother-in-law to her last moment. She finally passed away with a smile on her face.
My husband also shed tears, and I comforted him softly. We fulfilled our responsibilities as children and sent my mother-in-law on her last journey.
"Daughter-in-law, no matter what happens in the future, we must support, understand and trust each other. No one can be allowed to destroy our home. My husband said to me seriously.
"I agree. I nodded, "We'll be together forever." ”
Since then, after going through these ups and downs, my relationship with my husband has become stronger and stronger, and we have spent countless happy and beautiful days.
One day, I suddenly remembered the bits and pieces I had with my mother-in-law before.
"Husband, I suddenly miss my mother-in-law today. I sighed and said to my husband.
My husband came over and hugged me: "I often think of my mother, although she used to be very strict with us, but after all, she raised me." ”
"Yes, we tolerated her everywhere at the beginning, so we didn't tear our faces with her. I sighed, "We are so patient. ”
"Haha, yes, I had to protect you for the sake of you and the baby, so I couldn't help but not kick my mother out of the house directly. My husband said with a smile.
I nodded and sighed: "Actually, my mother-in-law is not entirely wrong, she just had too traditional ideas in that era, and we must tolerate her." ”
"Yes, Mom's people in her era were more patriarchal, and we can't ask her with our current thinking. "My husband agrees with me.
"Well, she apologized and admitted her mistake before she died, and that was enough. I now only want her to rest in peace in the heavenly spirit. I said.
"Don't worry, Mom, she has a hard personality, but she also has a weak side in her heart. I'm sure she'll understand when she goes to heaven. "My husband comforted me.
I nodded, a hint of relief rising in my heart.
"Husband, in fact, I really understand now that being a daughter-in-law is not easy, and I need to learn how to get along with my in-laws. I said with emotion.
"Yes, I've also come to understand the difficulties of being a son, the trade-off between a mother and a wife. My husband also fell into deep thought.
"Well, although we have experienced a lot in the past, looking back now, we have also gained a lot of valuable life experience. I said to my husband with a smile.
Yes, these experiences have made our marriage tree grow stronger. My husband laughed too.
I nodded, feeling warm and satisfied. Through wind and rain, we can see the rainbow; Through suffering, our love can last.
Since then, my husband and I have cherished our happy life even more. We accompanied Xiao Huan to grow up together, and welcomed lovely grandchildren.
Life is like a book, with joys, sorrows, and sorrows. But as long as we support each other, we will be able to turn every page, go through every wind and rain, and usher in the final happy ending.