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Yesterday when I was having dinner, my son came home and said that he and his daughter-in-law were going to divorce next week.
I pity my little granddaughter who is only 3 years old, and I don't want them to leave! Because the child is so pitiful, I said to my son: "Why don't I go to your mother-in-law tomorrow and talk to her to see if I can get it back, my mother doesn't want you to leave!"
But my son wouldn't let me go, he said, "It's useless, the people who want to leave can't be kept, so don't waste that time and energy." ”
I couldn't speak for a long time, in fact, I also understood that what my son said was right, because for my son's marriage, I had a premonition that they would come to this point, but I didn't expect this day to come so quickly, and I was really leaving, I was still very uncomfortable.
The divorce was brought up by the daughter-in-law, and the reason was because of money.
I am 55 years old this year, my family is in a city in Northeast China, my wife and I have only one son, my son and daughter-in-law met on the Internet, and my daughter-in-law's family is rural, far away from us, more than 1,000 miles.
At the beginning, when my son told me that he had a girlfriend on the Internet, I didn't agree, because it was too far, You said find a close, and you can also inquire, but this more than 1,000 miles of land, how to inquire, but my son is willing!
Later, my son brought the girl here, and I realized that no wonder my son wanted to marry, this girl is really good-looking, she really wants to have a figure, she wants to have a face, who doesn't like it!
So, we agreed, and then we married them.
Soon after the daughter-in-law got married, she had a little granddaughter, the little granddaughter was just one year old, and the daughter-in-law was clamoring to open a restaurant, and the daughter-in-law always thought that her son earned less and the money was not enough to spend. In fact, the family earns money, and there has never been less money spent by the daughter-in-law, and her son's monthly salary is more than 4,000, which she spends alone, and the daily expenses of the family are all subsidized by us.
The daughter-in-law said that she wanted to open a big bone broth shop, and she would definitely not be able to do such a shop alone, so she didn't let her son go to work and run the restaurant with her.
The son also agreed, at that time, the two of them were choosing a location and learning the technique of boiling big bone broth, and they had to choose materials, seeing that my son and daughter-in-law were so busy, I discussed with my wife, I said: "We have a son, what is the use of us working hard to make money, we might as well help our son, and the son has the opportunity to earn money is fundamental!"
My wife was moved by what I said, so she quit her job, and my small shop was gone, so we were ready to help our son open a restaurant.
At that time, my small store transferred 80,000 yuan, and I gave it all to my daughter-in-law to let her open the store, and then paid for them to buy a freezer, and the store finally opened.
At that time, my son was in charge of making bone broth, my wife and I were doing chores for them, and my daughter-in-law was in charge of receiving guests.
I didn't expect that the business was still quite prosperous, and I could earn more than 10,000 yuan a month at that time.
The hotel made money, and the daughter-in-law, who had spent a lot of money, was even more unrestrained in spending. I don't care about spending money, I earn money and let it be spent, but the way she spends money is different from others.
Obviously, my family's big bone broth is delicious, but she just bought something else, because there was also a bone broth shop not far from our store, so she went to buy someone else's. Maybe you want to taste it, compare the tastes of the two! We don't know what the psychology is.
Then she bought a copy, but when she bought it and drank it, it didn't taste good, and then she threw it away, but after a few days, she bought it and threw it away. But I can't say either.
The daughter-in-law also loves to order takeout, at least once a day, and the takeaway she buys back, as long as it is not delicious, she throws it away, and then buys it, and throws it away if it is not delicious.
Her favorite food is durian, how expensive durian is! But no matter how expensive it is, she has to eat it, and every time she buys a few or a few dollars, she has to buy a few hundred yuan at a time. But such a big durian, she couldn't eat it all at once, and we didn't like to eat it, and then it always went bad, and then it was thrown away. Seeing such a large piece of durian thrown away by her, I felt very distressed and wasted, but I didn't dare to say anything about her.
As long as she wants to eat, no matter what it is, no matter how expensive it is, she will buy it. She herself said: "As long as I want to eat, I have to eat in my mouth, otherwise I won't be able to sleep." ”
I also said at the time, "You can eat whatever you want, and young people can eat whatever they want." ”
To be honest, it's not that I'm reluctant to let her eat it, and I'm not sorry for the money, but don't waste it, if you don't eat it, it's so distressing!
She is not only willing to eat, but also very willing to wear, the little granddaughter is only a little more than a year old, and there are so many clothes that she can't stuff in the cabinet, in summer, she can buy dozens of skirts, and in winter, she can buy more than a dozen pairs of small boots, and the clothes and shoes she buys are at least more than 200 yuan a piece, and she can't look at dozens of dollars at all.
Once, she told us that she and her father went out to buy clothes, bought a few pieces and finally checked out, more than 3,000, his father was confused, and said that those few clothes were more than 3,000? Why is it so expensive, he didn't know that her daughter often bought clothes like this. She also laughed at her father for not seeing the world, and I didn't understand it, she was a girl from the countryside, why didn't she know how to be thrifty? Her father was a hard worker!
I won't say anything about this, there are a few young people who don't like to eat or wear. Besides, it's not that they don't make money, so I don't say anything about how my daughter-in-law spends money, as long as he and his son are doing well, whatever happens.
But the two of them are always angry, and they are angry that their daughter-in-law is going to divorce, and every time they are angry, my son doesn't squeak much, and my daughter-in-law yells, and I don't dare to say it, for fear that my daughter-in-law is unwilling, thinking about their own affairs, and letting them solve it themselves. I'm still trying not to interject.
But seeing my son being pinched by my daughter-in-law, I feel really uncomfortable, my son is actually very honest and able to endure hardships, but my daughter-in-law just can't look down on him, I don't know how they talked about it on the Internet at the beginning, shouldn't they be very emotional?
The daughter-in-law wanted to buy a car, so she took the driver's license with her son, and as soon as the driver's license came out, the two of them went to buy a car together, but since the taxi was bought, the daughter-in-law never let her son drive, not even touched, she drove around all day, no matter how close the road was. dominates the car every day, and once he doesn't let his son drive, his son doesn't drive, and he doesn't get angry with her.
Once, my daughter-in-law had to drive her granddaughter back to her parents' house, she was not skilled in driving, this time I drove alone for a few hours, I was not at ease, so I asked my son to go with her, so that when I was tired of driving on the road, I could also let my son replace her.
But she didn't let her son go with her, and she wanted to drive back alone. I didn't listen to her, so I had to tell her to be careful on the road, and to call me or send me a message when I arrived. She also agreed at the time, and then drove away alone with her daughter.
As soon as she left, my heart really tugged, but fortunately, 9 hours later, my daughter-in-law called me and told me that she had arrived. I said, "That's good, I'll be relieved."
But after a while, my daughter-in-law's mother called again, and as soon as she came up, she complained to me, saying how I let her daughter drive back alone, why didn't my son-in-law come with me, your family is really relieved. At that time, I didn't know what to say.
In fact, my daughter-in-law divorced her son, and she also has a certain relationship with her mother-in-law.
Her mother's family is rural, and since her daughter got married, every year when there is no work in the field, her mother has to come to live in her daughter's house for a period of time, and the stay is three or four months, but the strange thing is that every time her mother leaves, her daughter has to divorce my son, and every time it is like this. Later, my daughter-in-law said that her mother thought my son had a bad temper and was too stubborn.
Once my little granddaughter had a fever, my daughter-in-law and her mother-in-law took my granddaughter to get an injection, and it cost more than 1,000 yuan at one time, and then my son said to my daughter-in-law: "Why is it so expensive to get an injection, it costs more than 1,000 yuan." Then the daughter-in-law and her mother didn't agree, so they quarreled with their son together.
These are nothing, the most annoying thing is that the daughter-in-law still likes to mess with flowers and grass and chat with others on the Internet.
That day, I saw my daughter-in-law and a man from the surveillance, and entered a toilet on the second floor at the same time, and then I pretended to go to the toilet and secretly followed, but the toilet door was closed very tightly, and the two came out half an hour later.
I was so angry that I couldn't bear it anymore, so I called my son over, but she still made a lot of noise, saying that I had framed her and had nothing to do, and my son believed her. Then my son said to her, "If that's the case, I won't spare you." ”
Later, she told her mother, and her mother said, "If you really beat my daughter, I will divorce you." Her mother-in-law doesn't say a "no" to her daughter, she has always been used to it.
The reason for this divorce this time was because of money.
The daughter-in-law had a classmate who she hadn't seen for many years who was getting married, and then told her to go, but the son didn't want her to go, because the daughter-in-law said that when she got married, the classmate didn't go with her, but the daughter-in-law wanted to go, and said that she wanted her son to go with her. The son had no choice but to agree.
The classmate was looking for a partner from Halbin, and his daughter-in-law also said that he wanted to go to the ice world to play, and my son said: "Okay, I'll go with you, but I heard that the ice and snow city to play, a bare door drift will cost 300 yuan, let's buy two tickets is 600, in that case, I can't give you 3500 for living expenses next month, I can only give you 2600, you spend it first, and I'll find a way if it's not enough."
Since this spring, my daughter-in-law said that she didn't want to take care of the store anymore, she had to take care of the children, and since she didn't care about the things in the store, the business has been getting worse and worse, especially in recent months, and it is good to earn 2,000 a month.
Since the daughter-in-law didn't care about the store, she asked her son to give her 3,500 yuan of pocket money every month, and the son gave it on time every month, even if she didn't make money.
This time, my son didn't give my daughter-in-law enough 3500, and my daughter-in-law wanted me to make up for her with insufficient money, so I said, you spend it first, and I will make up for it when I encounter anything in the future.
The daughter-in-law said: "I have the bottom in my heart, give me 2,000 and I don't have enough to spend a month, so I said that this is not enough yet, and I will give it to you again, and then the daughter-in-law is unwilling, and said: "I am used to spending money, and I can't live this life without money." ”
Then I wanted to divorce my son, I wanted to persuade her, but I couldn't persuade her, I was determined to leave, but the little granddaughter is still so young, how can this adult leave, but what about the child! The daughter-in-law still has to take away the little granddaughter, I am reluctant, if the divorce, she designated to go back to her parents' house immediately, and it will be difficult for me to see the little granddaughter again.
Why can't you just get divorced for the sake of the children?