The growth of the girl Zhang Liangying
In the winter of 1984, Zhang Liangying came to this world. She was born in an ordinary family in Chengdu, Sichuan. For this generation that grew up in the ups and downs of the Cultural Revolution and reform, the only hope in life is that their children can eat and wear without worry.
The little Zhang Liangying never cried because of lack of love and loneliness, she grew up quietly in this world. When she was four years old, Zhang Liangying followed her elderly grandparents to Zhaojue Temple to worship Buddha.
In these years, people believe in the Buddha more than in the government. She listened to the monk's chanting in the incense-filled hall and spent a peaceful and happy childhood.
In 1998, when Zhang Liangying was 14 years old, Zhang Huaqing and Zhang Guiying finally divorced because of the exhaustion of their relationship. Since then, the mother and daughter can only rely on each other. However, how can a female worker and an unemployed daughter at home cope with the social pressure of soaring prices? Before Zhang Liangying could react, the burden of life fell on her young shoulders without warning.
She didn't have time to cry or regret it. Because life must go on.
met Feng Ke and started a 16-year love
On the night of the graduation ball in 1998, Shaoshan flowers bloomed everywhere. Accompanied by deafening music, countless men and women have enjoyed the effects of alcohol and hormones.
Just behind this lively scene, there was a slightly weak girl figure standing on the stage. Her bright appearance and moving singing voice became the most eye-catching presence of the night.
If it weren't for that immature face, you would think that this was the goddess of everyone present.
That night, 37-year-old Feng Ke had just rushed back to Chengdu from Beijing on a business trip. At this moment, he is indulging in the double shackles of work and marriage. But the moment his gaze collided with the eyes of the singer on stage, it was as if a lightning bolt pierced the cloudy sky in his heart.
Feng Ke never thought that he would fall in love with a girl who was 19 years younger than him. But just like a spring breeze and rain, Zhang Liangying used a pure heart and a moving song to gradually melt this middle-aged man whose heart was full of dust.
Of course, in addition to youth and enthusiasm, her talent and maturity also shocked Feng Ke. Becoming her lover and partner is Feng Ke's greatest pride and pride in this life.
In this way, two hearts that did not know each other were gently held together in the early summer of 1998. The love between them not only crossed the age gap of 19 years, but also withstood the baptism of 16 years of ups and downs.
The road to fame: from Supergirl to Goddess
In 2005, when Zhang Hanyun became famous with "Huanzhu Gege", the two most important men in Zhang Liangying's life also gave her the opportunity to change her life's fate.
Feng Ke encouraged his girlfriend to give up her studies and devote herself to her singing career. Because he is convinced that as long as Zhang Liangying is willing to pay, she will definitely be the next diva-level singer.
At the same time, in order to fulfill her daughter's dream, Zhang Liangying's mother also began to fully support her daughter's development.
In the spring of 2005, Zhang Liangying, who was only 21 years old, was like a rising star, dazzling in the music world. The three most popular online players in Super Girl that year were all from the Sichuan Conservatory of Music without exception.
Although Li Yuchun's super high number of votes later caused a lot of controversy, Zhang Liangying, who finally won the third place, has begun to gain attention and praise. Her clear and distant voice like a dolphin made her stand out among many contestants, successfully advanced to the finals, and won the reputation of "Dolphin Princess".
Zhang Liangying's rise to fame is only a matter of time. Sure enough, with the supergirl documentary starring her being broadcast on various David TVs, Zhang Liangying quickly opened up her popularity in the mainland.
She signed a contract with Huayi Brothers and launched a solo album, which soon sold more than 1 million copies. On the road to the diva, Zhang Liangying stood up step by step with strength and hard work.
After becoming famous, Zhang Liangying did not forget to repay the two men who loved her the most. Her relationship with her mother gradually eased, and the bond between mother and daughter was re-established.
Marriage and divorce
In 2016, Zhang Liangying chose to hold a grand wedding in romantic Italy, announcing her new identity as a married woman to the world. However, the good times did not last long, and when the photo of the two walking hand in hand on the red carpet was still viral in the circle of friends, the shadow of marriage had begun to shroud.
In fact, from a long time ago, this pair of golden boys and girls has buried hidden dangers. The picture of Zhang Liangying wishful thinking proposing to Feng Ke but being rejected by him still makes many netizens talk about it today.
Although he was later forced by the pressure of public opinion to take the initiative to hold a marriage proposal ceremony for Zhang Liangying, that perfunctory and indifferent mentality has already explained the seriousness of the problem.
The unsustainability of married life does not only come from the difficulty of matching personalities. As time passed, those hidden problems in Feng Ke were also revealed one by one. For example, he deceived Zhang Liangying in his early years and pursued it when his relationship was not broken; Another example is that when the company's operation failed, he embezzled the income of female stars privately; For another example, after the immigration procedures are completed, he is ready to take the property that the two have worked hard for many years as his own.
Perhaps, my mother had already seen the true face of this man. She persuaded her daughter to stay away from Feng Ke more than once, but Zhang Liangying turned a deaf ear. Now that I think about it, my mother's advice is a proverb.
In the end, she had to choose to divorce Feng Ke and end this seemingly romantic but sloppy marriage. After all, feelings are free, and marriage should also be free.
Reflections on the mother-daughter relationship
Looking back at the 16-year history of Zhang Liangying's relationship with Feng Ke, her mother has prevented almost every major progress in this relationship. For example, opposing the relationship between the two, such as disagreeing with their marriage and having children, and then exposing Feng Ke's various concealments and deceptions.
However, every time, Zhang Liangying chooses to trust her boyfriend instead of her biological mother. She would rather accept the lies and deception from Feng Ke than believe her mother's advice.
Over and over again, the relationship between mother and daughter has broken to the extreme.
It wasn't until the marriage change and divorce in 2016 that Zhang Liangying suddenly woke up. It turned out that every point that his mother opposed at the beginning has now become the real reason for the breakup of the two.
Only then did she understand that a daughter should not trust her mother. All the advice she does is only for the good of her daughter.
There are too many choices on the road of life, and confusion will come one by one. When we choose to go against our hearts for the sake of freedom, regret will ensue. We will eventually understand that motherly love is the most selfless love in the world.
And once a person grows up, the most important thing to do is to learn to be grateful and cherish.
The road of life with joys and sorrows
If fame is the brightest light in Zhang Liangying's life, then her feelings are undoubtedly the most ups and downs she has experienced.
A girl's entry into the showbiz is a risky decision. What's more, the lover Feng Ke next to her is not only 19 years older than her, but also has two precipice-like marriages, which can be said to be a typical scumbag setting.
However, Zhang Liangying still followed him without hesitation and began a 16-year love affair of joys and sorrows.
At first, Feng Ke regarded Zhang Liangying as a lover and also as a money shaker. He's more about the pages and material benefits she can bring. And Zhang Liangying also attaches more importance to the ability to build network resources and packaging.
With the accumulation of fame and wealth, Zhang Liangying gradually understood that she didn't love Feng Ke, she just longed for a stable married life. So at the peak of her glory, she resolutely proposed to her lover.
However, the result was chilling for her.
Life after marriage is more like hell. Feng Ke's original form was revealed, which accelerated Zhang Liangying's divorce. Her mother's advice was still in her mind, and she realized the value of true love.
The most affectionate feelings in life may only lie in the hearts of those who selflessly care about us.