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Editor|Panda Science Popularization Officer
It's all my fault, the children are sorry for you for your father.
He is a well-known director who gave birth to four children, three of whom are disabled, and he is very confused about this, but even so, he still does not give up hope in life and takes good care of the children. But he didn't expect that all this was caused by him, and he regretted that he was guilty all his life, but he had achieved brilliant achievements in his career.
So what exactly did the well-known director do to make his children suffer from disability?
He had four children with his lover, three of whom were disabled
Xie Jin is an excellent director, and his achievements in the entertainment industry are extraordinary, but he has experienced four profound adversities in his life. The arrival of these four children, whether healthy or sick, has turned his life upside down, but it is these four children who have shaped Xie Jin's tenacious and rock-like fatherly love.
Xie Jin and his wife Xu Dawen eventually got together despite their family's opposition, and it didn't take long for the two of them to get married. After their marriage, they gave birth to four children, but the birth activities were unsatisfactory, and three of these four children were disabled. Because of the eldest daughter's intellectual defects, his wife has been unable to accept this fact, and falls into grief every day and cannot extricate herself, Xie Jin realizes that he must be the support of his wife, he often comforts his wife, he hopes that his wife can cheer up quickly.
Not long after, Xu Dawen became pregnant again, and they happily welcomed their second child, a healthy and intelligent child. This brought them hope and joy, and also proved that the eldest daughter's mental retardation was an accidental result. Xie Jin and his wife did not give up hope, and they gave birth to a third child, probably because the second one they gave birth to was healthy, and they firmly believed that the disability of their eldest daughter was completely accidental. But I didn't expect that the third child born to the couple was still a disabled person.
And the situation of their third child is much worse than that of the first child, in the face of such an unfortunate thing, Xu Dawen once wondered if she had some reason to cause the child to be unhealthy, and the self-blame in her heart made her unable to forgive herself. Xie Jin felt his wife's pain, and Xie Jin decided to pour all his love and care into the third child, not only to compensate, but also out of fatherly love and sense of responsibility for the child.
Immediately after that, the birth of the fourth child brought a new round of challenges, and he suffered from hepatitis, epilepsy and other diseases, which plunged the whole family into deep pain. But Xie Jin still did not give up hope in life, and he chose to continue to fight for his career.
Xie Jin's redemption explores the balance between love and art
In the Chinese film industry, Xie Jin has a brilliant career, but he is under heavy family pressure, he never imagined that it is because of his bad habit of drinking that it will bring so much harm to his children, three of Xie Jin's four children are disabled, which also caused a huge blow to his wife.
Xie Jin's addiction to drinking has also ruined his personal health, he often enjoys the ease of work and social situations with a smile on his face, but he can't see the pain of his family, his young son Xie Jianqing should have shined, but the new crown epidemic has taken his young life. Xie Jin fell into self-reflection and remorse, realizing the damage caused to him and his family by years of alcoholism, he repented and could not forgive his addiction, and his wife Xu Dawen also felt guilty for her tolerance of Xie Jin's drinking.
Xie Jin did not get depressed because of this, he decided to give all his love and responsibility, for the three surviving disabled children in his life, he greatly reduced all kinds of social interactions, more time for his family, in the daily time, he carefully accompanied the children in various training, teaching them speech, walking and basic skills in daily life.
Despite these four major adversities, Xie Jin has always adhered to his responsibilities as a father. He not only took care of his children wholeheartedly, but also achieved brilliant achievements in the film industry. He used the film to express his identification with his family's love and pain, showing a strong and selfless father's love, which brought deep touch and thought to the audience.
Wake up and do your best to redeem it
It wasn't until the end that Xie Jin realized that it was his own cause that caused the children's disability, and although he and his wife were obviously normal, something unfortunate had happened to their children, a fact that they could not change. But he did not give up because of this, but regarded this accident as a test of his life and family, and only with more love and care can children bravely face the challenges of life. Xie Jin's family life was also accompanied by setbacks in his career.
Although he became a director and achieved some success, his work "Stage Sisters" also suffered from the dissatisfaction of many audiences, who could not understand the social issues he discussed, and his parents were criticized and blamed for his films.
Xie Jin has always paid attention to care and care for the children in the process of growth, and he has personally participated in the rehabilitation training and education of two children with intellectual disabilities. He takes them to various rehabilitation facilities for evaluation and to find the treatment and education that works best for them, he understands exactly what their abilities and needs are, and nurtures their children's potential and ability to live independently.
Xie Jin not only pays attention to the physical and intellectual development of the children, but also often chats with the children to encourage his children, and he also spends a lot of time and effort teaching the children how to deal with these challenges and telling them to be a strong person. Xie Jin's son died of a sudden cerebral hemorrhage, which was a huge blow to him, and he was very sad and depressed to lose his son of three children, who had been accepted by society and expected to inherit the film career. But life still has to go on, and Xie Jin knows that he has another son who needs his love and attention.
Xie Jin's son needs special care due to his intellectual disability, and Xie Jin never gives up his expectations of him, he gives his younger son more care and patience, and finds more Xi and training opportunities for him that suit his abilities and interests.
Xie Jin does not give up hope in life
Xie Jin does his best to fight for better living conditions for children, he actively participates in the rehabilitation of children with intellectual disabilities and social organizations, and advocates for the creation of more opportunities and support for this special group. Xie Jin actively participates in social welfare activities, provides educational support for children in poor mountainous areas, and arouses the society's attention and reflection on these issues through his film works, his efforts and dedication are not only reflected in family affection, but also integrated into the responsibility and care for the society.
Xie Jin uses the power of film to convey his thoughts and touches on life and human nature, and his film works are deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, reflecting the true feelings and fate of many ordinary people in real life. He uses his creations to alleviate the pain and sorrow in his heart, and at the same time inspire the audience to think deeply about and cherish life and human nature.
Whether Xie Jin is shooting movies or winning awards abroad, he will devote himself to taking care of the children, and no longer pursue external glamour and fame. In 1989, Xie Jin had previously published a missing person notice in the newspaper, and he boldly called on the whole society to help him find his lost son, which was the determination and persistence of father's love, although his son was finally found, but this experience was undoubtedly a deep torment.
Under the double pressure of career and family, Xie Jin's body has also undergone subtle changes, his health is not very good, and the constant mental tension has made his body more fragile. In 2008, when he was diagnosed with lung cancer, he was facing the brink of dying, leaving all his inheritance to his parents, expressing his deep nostalgia and love for his family.