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Her appearance was so beautiful that she stopped developing, and her weak muscles made her a "top-heavy monster". At the age of 24, despite the opposition of his family, he resolutely married a 46-year-old local bachelor as his wife.
Not only that, this woman who can only rely on "crawling" willingly risked her life to give birth to a second daughter for her husband.
The age difference between the teens and teenagers makes men no longer as strong as they used to be. In the face of her husband's old age, how should the "crawling mother" support this disaster-ridden small family?
1. High fever
Dong Mingying was born in Shandong in 1985, and when she was a child, she was as lively and lovely as all girls.
She is obedient and sensible, and she is also deeply loved by her parents.
But God has not been taking care of this small family, and a sudden high fever has completely changed everything. It was after this high fever that the girl's lower body gradually lost strength and her balance became worse and worse.
Although they have been examined by many hospitals, they have not been able to give a clear diagnosis. It can only be concluded that the high fever caused damage to her brain, and in the case of some nerve functions, it eventually led to the weakness of her lower body.
Despite her poor family, Dong Mingying's parents did not give up on her treatment. They traveled far and wide in search of a famous doctor, hoping to find a cure for their daughter.
But the high cost of treatment made matters worse for the family, who eventually had to return to the village with their daughter. Faced with their daughter's condition, the parents felt deeply guilty. But they did not get depressed, but did their best to give their daughter love and support.
Her mother would carry her to school every morning, take her home for dinner at noon, and so on.
And as their sister and younger brother grew up, they also joined the ranks of taking care of Dong Mingying. Her sister carried her to school, while her brother pushed her to school on his bicycle.
In this loving and supportive family environment, Dong Mingying has become stronger and more optimistic, she does not have too many complaints about life, but cherishes everyone around her more.
In addition to her family, she also met a lot of warm-hearted classmates at school. They helped her as much as they could and made her feel warm.
Although sometimes, Dong Mingying also feels inferior because of her disability, she does not back down because of this. Instead, with a pair of shoes, she began her unique life journey.
She began to learn to crawl, using her hands to support her body. It was a bit difficult at first, and the imbalance between the top and bottom also made the girl fall repeatedly.
But fortunately, through her continuous efforts, she gradually adapted to the life of crawling in two pairs of shoes.
In fact, Dong Mingying originally thought that this would be the end of his life. Unexpectedly, the other party not only had his own good career in the future, but also had a husband who loved him and successfully had two daughters.
Second, the era of e-commerce that changes fate
Although her physical inconvenience made her life quite difficult, she never felt sorry for herself, but actively looked for various ways to subsidize her family with the help of relevant departments.
Even in the face of repetitive work day after day, Dong Mingying has never had any complaints.
It was this experience that laid the foundation for her future e-commerce career. With the popularization of the Internet, live streaming has become a bridge between businesses and consumers.
At that time, her daily routine almost revolved around the cycle of helping people sell, pack, and send goods.
Until an unexpected shooting brought this "peculiar" woman into the public eye, her optimistic attitude and love for life touched countless netizens.
In the face of more and more dead hearts, Dong Mingying also quickly seized this opportunity. And created his own account, named "Big Beauty in Two Pairs of Shoes".
The name not only highlights her uniqueness, but also conveys her dedication to beauty.
At first, there were only a few people in the live broadcast room, but she still sang and shared her life with enthusiasm. As time passed, more and more people began to understand the existence of this "crawling mother".
However, the online world is not all beautiful, and with the explosion, all kinds of negative comments have also swept in, and even the optimistic her has self-doubt.
Luckily, those warm comments and support helped her regain her self-confidence. Slowly, the other party began to tell his story, showing his true face without reservation, and only the sincerity of the person can move people!
As time went by, Dong Mingying's number of fans continued to climb, reaching about 130,000 at its peak. With her extensive experience in entrepreneurship for people with disabilities, she began to join volunteer organizations, dedicated to sharing her knowledge and experience to help more people who have similar experiences to her.
In the days that followed, Dong Mingying also began to do her best to get involved in the field of public welfare, promoting the agricultural products of her hometown through her own live broadcast platform and helping local economic development.
What's even more proud is that the products that often appear in her live broadcast room are often of high quality and reasonable prices. Among them, there are handicrafts made by the disabled, as well as local agricultural and sideline products.
Now Dong Mingying has become an influential e-commerce anchor, and she has infected countless people with her firm beliefs and unyielding spirit.
Whether it is every sharing in the live broadcast room, or helping and supporting others in real life, she has shown tenacious vitality and endless positive energy.
But more attention is paid to her heartfelt love story with her husband than to her success......
3. Crawling mothers
When Dong Mingying was 24 years old, she made a decision that shocked everyone. That is, despite the opposition of her family, she resolutely married an old bachelor Feng Zhiyu who was 22 years older than her.
The man, Feng Zhiyu, was a hard-working and simple farmer, and his family's poverty prevented him from marrying a wife and starting a family. By chance, the two successfully came together.
But Dong Mingying's parents resolutely opposed this marriage because of the age gap, after all, their daughter is a disabled person and the other party is so much older.
In case a man has three longs and two shorts, what should his daughter do!
Despite this, the girl still insisted on her opinion, and in the end, they couldn't resist their own children, and they still agreed to this "extremely unmatched" marriage.
In fact, since the two got married, although their lives are not very rich, the two support each other and live a warm and happy life.
But fate always seems to play tricks on this pair of hard-working mandarin ducks, and soon after, a little life quietly descended on this family. However, due to the peculiarities of her physical condition, doctors did not advise her to risk having a child.
But she finally got pregnant, how could she give up her child?
After careful consideration, Dong Mingying still decided to bravely welcome the arrival of a new life. Although the whole production process can be regarded as "nine deaths and one life", fortunately, the other party successfully gave birth to a healthy baby girl.
The mother and daughter were safe, which also made the whole family happy, and Feng Zhiyu was even more excited to tears.
A few years later, Dong Mingying became pregnant again and gave birth to a second daughter, despite the increasing financial pressure on the family, Feng Zhiyu always took on the responsibility of supporting the family without regrets.
The two supported each other and supported each other, and successfully supported the child in a world.
The author thinks
Dong Mingying's story once again proves that no matter how great the difficulties and challenges we face, as long as we have faith in our hearts and move forward bravely, we will be able to overcome everything.
And she has made brilliant achievements on the road of live broadcasting, not only solving the problem of living expenses, but also opening up sales channels for agricultural products in her hometown, which is even more admirable.
Perhaps a person's strength is not determined by the body, but by the "soul".