This drama is mainly about the work and life of three girls who are about to turn 30 years old. The birthdays of the three women were all in the second half of the year, and the baby-faced Zhong Xiaoqin was the first to celebrate her thirtieth birthday.
Zhong Xiaoqin, an authentic Shanghai native, her parents have a house worth tens of millions, as the only daughter in the family, Zhong Xiaoqin has always grown up under the pampering of her parents, living a carefree life, and living a "silly and sweet" look.
And the husband, who has been married for three years, met on a blind date, and has not experienced strong winds and waves since they were together, and has been living a step-by-step life.
On Zhong Xiaoqin's thirtieth birthday, a huge turning point occurred in her life.
ushered in the 30th birthday full of expectations, her best friend Gu Jia gave her a set of tableware worth 4,000 yuan, and Wang Manni gave her skin care products worth 3,000 yuan, and she also decided to be extravagant.
I went shopping and bought a beautiful dress, a pair of expensive shoes, a hairstyle, and heavy makeup, just to celebrate my birthday alone with my husband at night.
Unexpectedly, for a whole day, her husband didn't answer the phone, didn't reply to WeChat, and didn't come to pick her up after work at night, she went home alone in the rain. Dirty clothes, spent makeup, a whole capital mess. What's even more outrageous is that when she came home in embarrassment, her husband stayed at home, and she instantly broke down.
She felt that in her husband's mind, she was not as good as a fish, and after a big quarrel between the two, they divorced the next day. She may not have thought that on her thirtieth birthday, her husband's birthday gift to her was a divorce certificate worth 9 yuan.
In fact, the divorce of the two is not unexpected, it can be seen at the beginning of the play.
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Many aspects of the two do not match, Zhong Xiaoqin loves to raise cats, and Chen Yu loves to raise fish. Everyone knows that cats and fish are mortal enemies, and fish are the prey of cats, how can the two live in peace, from this aspect it is predicting the subsequent development of the two.
There are also Zhong Xiaoqin who eats Western food in the morning, Chen Yu eats Chinese food, and the diet Xi habits are different. The life of the two together is like accommodating each other.
With this kind of accommodation, there will always be times of fatigue in the future, there will be more contradictions, and there will be quarrels when there are many contradictions, and there will be more quarrels, and no matter how good the feelings are, they will be gone.
And every time the two quarreled, Zhong Xiaoqin yelled at Chen Yu, what did Chen Yu do, hiding in the room or toilet without saying a word, and dealing with it completely cold and violent.
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Chen Yu grew up in a single-parent family, not only to do everything in the family, but also to take care of his young brother, developing his independent and unwilling to trouble others.
Zhong Xiaoqin has been pampered at home since she was a child, carefree, and she has developed the appearance of a child who doesn't grow up, she has no opinions about anything, she doesn't know how to refuse, and when something happens, the first thing she thinks of is to ask her best friend Gu Jia for help.
As for Zhong Xiaoqin's Xi of finding someone to help when something happens, Chen Yu particularly disagrees. As she said, only children who don't grow up can ask for help with everything.
And as long as Chen Yu is on a business trip, Zhong Xiaoqin will go back to her parents' house as soon as possible, just like Chen Yu said to Zhong Xiaoqin, she didn't grow up at all when she got married and started a family, she just left home physically, but her spirit didn't leave her parents at all, she didn't grow up at all.
This is the difference in the concept of the two, Chen Yu is married and leaves home, and Zhong Xiaoqin is married and never leaves home.
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There is also a difference in the working status of the two, Zhong Xiaoqin's work philosophy is to get by, she doesn't want to climb up in the past, she is content with the status quo, she doesn't have much love for her work.
Chen Yu's work status is that he loves his work, he can work hard for his work, he can beg people everywhere, and let his show not open the skylight.
But he is also a person who has the courage to take responsibility, and when the Xi students do not shoot good materials, he is not like others, he does not care about himself, for fear of taking responsibility himself.
For the sake of a piece of news, in the absence of the leader, he dared to publish it privately, faced the accusations of the leader, took the initiative to bear the mistake, and explained that if he did not publish it, he would not raise funds.
Therefore, in many ways, it was expected that the two would come to the point of divorce, and the previous pregnancy of Zhong Xiaoqin was just a foreshadowing of this matter.
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After all, everyone reacts differently to the sudden arrival of a child, but as a mother, the feeling is the greatest, whether it is pregnancy or childbirth, as a mother, there is the most direct feeling.
And women are sensitive people, they are easy to have emotional breakdowns, they can vent loudly, and as men, they rarely vent their emotions, they just do silent sadness.
Obviously Chen Yu was sad in the face of the child's fetal arrest, but he didn't show it, just solved the follow-up problems, and in the face of the rational Chen Yu, Zhong Xiaoqin felt that he didn't care about the child at all.
In fact, in the final analysis, the root cause of the two is the lack of communication, if the two communicate more, maybe the two will not divorce.
After all, the marriage relationship depends on the two people to maintain it together, how to maintain it?