Recently, as soon as CCTV's promotional video of the "three-child policy" was broadcast, it was like throwing a big stone into the lake, and the sound of "bang" stirred up a thousand waves, and there was a lot of discussion on the Internet and offline, which was as lively as the New Year.
After watching this promotional video, I felt that it was a mixed taste, as if I had eaten strange beans. "Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read", we, the working class, after watching this promotional video, I feel that this promotional video is to turn out the difficult scripture in everyone's hearts, so that we can start to think carefully about giving birth to a baby.
This promotional video was shot very carefully, and the delicate picture shows that our country is now facing more and more elderly people, and the pressure on social security is increasing.
It pays special attention to families whose lives are not easy, especially in places where economic conditions are not very good, the cost of having children is frighteningly high, and the burden on the shoulders of young parents is too heavy.
Look at this expectant mother, the little baby in her belly has not yet seen the world, she is already busy, like a spinning top, and she can't stop for a moment. The "big guys" in the house, one by one, looked like they were all right, sitting there staring at the TV screen, or burying their heads in their mobile phones, as if the fumes in the kitchen had nothing to do with them.
This scene really makes people sweat for the expectant mother, and at the same time, people can't help but think, should someone stand up and redistribute the work at home? After all, home belongs to everyone, and responsibility should also be borne by everyone. Shouldn't expectant mothers be given more time to rest and get ready for the arrival of a new baby?
This scene is really heart-wrenching. Isn't life like this in the homes of our little people? As soon as the daughter-in-law was pregnant with the baby, she immediately turned into a superman, and she was busy like something. What about the rest of the family? One by one, like the audience, watching their daughter-in-law busy and busy, but they were leisurely beside them, as if the affairs of the family had nothing to do with them.
To be honest, this promotional video originally wanted to convey the care for pregnant women, but why is it so awkward to watch? Because it is too real, it exposes all the small embarrassments and contradictions in our lives. We, the hard-working working-class people, rush around every day for a living, and have to face this kind of "family division of labor" when we get home, which is really infuriating and funny.
Today's young people, it's not that they don't want to have a baby, it's the cost and pressure of having a baby, which can simply overwhelm people!
First of all, let's say that the cost of living is like a rocket, swishing upward. If you raise a baby, you have to be careful in your calculations, and if you have one or two more, the economic pressure is not a joke. Milk powder, diapers, tuition, medical expenses...... This money is spent like running water, and it makes people head to think about it.
Again, the question of time has to be mentioned. Young people are as busy as spinning tops during the day, and they have to continue to spin when they go home at night, how can they have the spare time to take care of the three little ancestors?
Also, the competition in the workplace is so fierce, having a third child may mean that the job will be ruined, or the salary will be reduced, who dares to take this risk easily?
At the end of the day, society's demands on young people are too high. On the one hand, I hope that you can make some achievements in your career, and on the other hand, I hope that your family and beauty will be harmonious. Just raising a baby, those educational concepts are enough of a headache, and if there are two more, it can drive people crazy!
Therefore, it is not that young people are unwilling to give birth, but that the actual conditions are too harsh and make them have to think twice.
As soon as this promotional video came out, the complaints of netizens could simply build a building, one by one, like a machine gun, with full firepower!
The original intention of this promotional video is very beautiful, I want to help our country alleviate the problem of aging, but the reality is that the matter of having a baby is not as simple as having more pairs of chopsticks, and there are more things to consider behind it.
In our generation, the pressure of life is greater than the sky, housing loans, car loans, and children's education expenses, which is not a mountain on the shoulders. Especially in education, today's children have to have all kinds of interest classes and cram schools since kindergarten.
Today's young people have also updated their ideological concepts, no longer pursuing "more children and more blessings", but paying more attention to the quality of life and being more willing to enjoy the world of two. So as soon as this promotional video was broadcast, everyone's reaction was reasonable.
When the government is promoting policies, it should also listen to the voices of our people, proceed from our actual conditions, and introduce some policies that can really reduce our burden. For example, can we reduce taxes for our young families, or provide some childcare subsidies and so on?
The broadcast of this promotional video really made everyone feel the difficulty of having a baby, and at the same time sounded the alarm for young people, so that they have to think about it. We have to understand that before encouraging young people to have three children, we must first make them willing to get married and start a family. Now the marriage rate is pitifully low, and even on a sweet day like 520, it is difficult to find a few couples. If you are not married, where will the baby come from?
Therefore, our focus should be on how to make young people more willing to enter the palace of marriage and be more willing to have babies. We have to create a good environment for them to feel that getting married and having a baby is a happy thing, not a burden. We have to proceed from reality, listen to the voices of young people, give them more support and help, so that they can achieve something in their careers and lives, so that they will have more confidence to face marriage and family.
We can't just shout slogans, we have to take some concrete actions. For example, can we provide some preferential policies for young people to get married and have children to reduce their pressure? Can you improve the child-rearing environment so that young people feel that having and raising a baby is not a scary thing? That's what we should be considering.
In short, our goal should be to make young people more willing to get married and have babies, rather than simply pushing for three children. We have to start from many aspects to truly solve the worries of young people, so that they are willing to give birth and dare to live. In this way, our society can be more harmonious and young people's lives can be happier.
Looking at the present, there are really a lot of so-called "leftover men and women" in our society, many people are still single in their thirties and forties, and the age of marriage is also delayed again and again, many people only consider entering the palace of marriage after the age of 25, or even 30 years old. The difficulty of getting married, the low marriage rate, and the widespread phenomenon of late marriage are really not trivial matters, and we must pay attention to them.
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In short, the original intention of this policy is good, and it wants to help our country alleviate aging, but the reality is complicated, and there are many considerations behind the birth of a baby. We have to start from many aspects to truly solve the worries of young people, so that they are willing to give birth and dare to give birth, so as to fundamentally solve the problem. We have to work together so that young people having babies is no longer a problem, but a happy choice!