In the city, love can happen at any time.
When I went to college, I fell in love with my teacher at first sight, and when I went to the hospital to see a doctor, I could regard the doctor as my destiny.
Some people say: Isn't this the hopeless sexual brain?
There are also people who retort: I don't want everyone either, you see I've never been good with the boss.
Indeed, falling in love with a boss in the workplace is understandable, and falling in love with a colleague is commonplace.
But fall in love with the boss...... This thing always sounds a bit like a forbidden love in a TV series.
"Boss", just looking at these two words is extremely sexually constrictive.
I'm also very curious about who the hell wants to be with them.
How can someone who makes you murderous at work want to kiss each other after work?
So I found three friends today and asked them to talk about what it's like to be in love with your boss.
My boss said he "noticed" me in the office on my first day on the job.
But a month after we got acquainted, I happened to be transferred to his jurisdiction.
I had a little bit of a general idea of him before that, and he had the best "reputation" among the three partners.
Every time we do event planning, he happily approves money, and the holiday benefit is directly given to red tickets.
The other two are red flags at home, and the colorful flags are fluttering outside, only he is divorced and single.
There are no bad reviews at work, and my private life is clean.
I'm ordinary in every way, and I never dreamed that one day I would be favored by a big guy.
When he expressed his affection for me, I subconsciously thought to the bad side: how can a person who seems to be quite serious do this?
I thought the two of us were not suitable, and I fell in love to get married. Rejected him for the reason.
Later, I went on two blind dates, and met a buckle man and a neurotic.
There is no harm in no comparison, and I suddenly feel that my boss is okay.
It's quite strange for people, especially after he behaved frankly and didn't trouble me later, but I think he is quite sincere.
So when he confessed to me again, I said yes, saying I could try.
We talked about his past and our future, and it was also clear that he and I were really going to get married.
I've been in relationships with people my age before, and after dating people who are more than a decade older than me, many of my experiences have increased exponentially.
He pays for our meals, and when I lose my temper, he apologizes first, and he can help me open my mind with a word when I think it's a difficult job.
Seeing a big boss help me line up to buy stinky tofu that he didn't eat, my vanity was very satisfying.
Although it sounds like our love is not bitter, only sweet.
But no one even knew we were in a relationship.
Every time I commute to work, I have to pretend to be distracted from him, and I don't even dare to post the gifts he gives me.
"It would be nice if I could marry Mr. XX (my boyfriend), the big guy is really generous!" is a joke we like to make after the funds come down.
Now when I hear it, I think someone else is insinuating me.
Once we took the elevator upstairs together, and we happened to meet another boss, and I don't know how he could tell at a glance that there was something between us.
He tapped him on the shoulder and didn't say anything, but I knew in my heart that he should be similar to what I had thought: hehe, you're starting to do this too!"
Later, I tried to avoid the other two bosses in the company, and my little heart couldn't help but be looked at.
I'm obviously a real girlfriend, but I'm conscientious like a junior every day.
I am a typical "soft rice man", I am responsible for eating, drinking and Lazar at home, and my wife makes money for me to spend.
I used to be a teacher at a training institution, and my wife was my big boss, the kind that I was only lucky enough to meet a few times at the annual meeting and commendation meeting.
Before we fell in love, I scolded her a lot, deducted my performance, deducted my bonus, and forced me to work overtime.
Even though she's okay-looking, we all call her a dominatrix in private.
I knew her because the principal of our campus was dismissed for corruption, and she chose to take command in person in order to rectify the atmosphere.
At first, we all thought that we would be embarrassed by her, but then we found that she was okay, although she would deduct my bonus, but at least it was fair and just, and she didn't engage in corruption in the queue.
Occasionally, when her car number is limited, I will take the initiative to drive her home, and my idea is simply to pat the leader's ass.
One time when we were talking about work, she received a phone call from her friend who asked her for a recipe, and she answered it fluently.
Later, when I remembered that image, I thought she was capable and soft.
We both like to play badminton, and occasionally we will call each other in the game, and the relationship will become more and more ambiguous.
We confirmed our relationship after her birthday party, and her friend whispered to me that her birthday wish after the age of 30 was to marry herself this year.
Half a year later, I proposed to her, and I knelt on the ground for a long time and listened to her talk about the instructions for marrying her.
"We will stay in Dalian in the future. "We don't interfere with each other's work. "When she has a baby, she has the final say. ”
I said yes to them all.
I'm a southerner and an only child, and in the eyes of my family, it's no different from an upside-down door, so my parents didn't approve of us being together, so I went back to my hometown for a simple family meeting.
The simple content of the meeting was how beneficial it was for our family for me to marry her:
First of all, I don't have to save money to buy a house, and secondly, their pension is also guaranteed.
Don't scold me yet, when I get home, I sign a prenuptial agreement with my wife, such as I cheated on me and left the house or something.
The reason for the complete return to the family is that our campus has been downsized, and I can't say anything about not being laid off based on work experience and ability.
We have been married for two years now, and I have heard others ridicule me countless times about eating soft rice.
I haven't refuted it, it's true that she is rich, and it's also true that I have a plan.
But I can also be sure that our love is definitely higher than profit.
I myself am very strong, and my boss has always been my choice of mate.
My former boss is considered to be the top level in China, although I am not in the first echelon, I can be regarded as an alternative.
But my former boss was very slow to be promoted, and there were many people and few meat, so when he poached me, I decided to change jobs.
I know very well that I came to him to be his descendant.
I started working very hard as his subordinate, pulling a lot of clients for him and making him a lot of money.
At first, he was not my first choice, I was more optimistic about our customer Q, a good looking rich N generation.
Occasionally I would ask him about Q, and Q in his mouth was a super scumbag with a very chaotic private life.
I was disheartened and didn't have the energy to go to work, he asked me what was wrong, and I said that I wanted to talk to a boss when spring came.
He said that you don't just look at other people's bosses, you can look at your own bosses.
He's actually not as good as Q, but he's taller than Q, and we all like money when the most important thing is.
The old house can be on fire when it catches fire, and the relationship between the two of us running a company is flying, and we have to stick together after work.
There is no one who takes the initiative, within a few months we began to live together, all the housework in our family is done by him, I praise him every day 24 filial piety good boss, big warm man.
Not long after, he told me that his family wanted to see me, and joked that he wanted him to wash my dishes every day.
I said that I don't need you to wash the dishes every day, I want to be the project leader of the branch.
It's not that I'm greedy, with my resume, it's more than enough to sit in his place.
At first, he agreed, but when it came time to decide, he was replaced by another person, who held a higher position than me.
The reason he gave me was that the other party had made a significant contribution to the company and could not make the old employees feel cold.
I can accept this reason, after the two of us were together, I had almost no reservations about him, and I also invested a lot of resources and contacts in his company.
There was a gathering of entrepreneurs on our side, and we both received invitations.
After eating and drinking, a friend of mine jokingly asked him if he wanted to go to the "big health care".
He said in passing: People have said that a man's downhill road starts with betraying the family, and he is persuaded to be honest.
The other boss didn't know about our relationship and said some like "it's going downhill, it's because my wife got too many rights".
He looked at me with a somewhat complicated expression.
He defended me. I've known about this for a long time, and I just thought that if we joined forces, maybe we could really do something.
Disappointments are all accumulated little by little, and many things are not clear, but I understand it in my heart.
Of course we love each other, but we both love ourselves more.
Although it is not too late to recover the "loss", after all, we have made money on each other.
If there is really a day of breakup, I will not bear to tear my face with him too much.
It is not difficult to see that some people regard falling in love with their boss as a kind of positive upward management.
There are also people who naively think that there is just a kind of love that happens in the office.
This is the first time I have seen the added value of power, status and wealth so clearly in a relationship.
In the end, I couldn't figure out what proportion of love was in their relationship.
@栗子虽然嘴上说会分手体面, but also studying how to use the other party as a final springboard.
@得劲儿的软饭吃的也没大家想象的那么舒坦, his wife loves to eat Sichuan cuisine these days, and he holds the recipe every day to study.
@晓晓楠正在攒钱给老板准备圣诞礼物, for fear that the gift would be too shabby and make others think she was a fishing girl.
It turns out that falling in love with the boss also has to complete the KPI.
In fact, if you think about it, love is no different from going to work, and there are only three endings to love in the end.
Either you leave your job, you will be fired, or you will survive until you retire, and everyone will be happy.