It is an indisputable fact that there are more men than women, according to statistics, there are 32.5 million more women than men, which means that a large number of young men of school age cannot find a partner and have to be passively single, and many men in their thirties and forties are singles.
In this case, many women are full of superiority and put forward various conditions to men, such as asking men to have houses, cars and savings, asking men to earn an annual salary of two or three hundred thousand yuan to provide her with a superior life, and also asking men to give her 3,000 yuan of pocket money to be a full-time wife with peace of mind.
There is another issue that has to be mentioned, and that is the bride price. The bride price is a topic that cannot be avoided when talking about marriage, women often ask for two or three hundred thousand or even three or four hundred thousand bride price, and men with poor family conditions cannot meet it, which invisibly raises the threshold for marriage, and there are more and more older leftover men.
Some men are forced to remain single, some men marry women who are married for the second time or have poor conditions, and some men go abroad to find a daughter-in-law, similar things abound.
Mr. Cao was born in a rural area in Henan, his family conditions are very poor, his parents are honest farmers, Mr. Cao also has two younger brothers, and the family sometimes has no last meal, and life is very poor.
After graduating from junior high school, Mr. Cao went out to work, and he used the money he earned to supplement his family, and he would rather suffer a little more to let his family live a good life. Mr. Cao can endure hardships and work hard, he is a hard-working and filial person, but he is quiet and honest, and his reputation with women is very poor, he can't make women happy, and he doesn't know how to please women, and no one wants to fall in love with him.
When he was in his 30s, Mr. Cao fell in love with a divorced woman, Mr. Cao did not dislike her for being old and did not dislike her for being divorced and bringing a baby, and was willing to give a bride price and support her, but the other party disliked Mr. Cao's lack of ability to make money, Mr. Cao was hit hard, and a marriage was missed.
Mr. Cao was disheartened and planned to be single for the rest of his life, in order to earn more money, he went to Iraq to work, but he did not expect to meet true love by chance.
When he has nothing to do, Mr. Cao likes to chat online, he knows a Laotian girl Ah Xin, Ah Xin is 21 years old, lively and cheerful, enthusiastic and generous, loves to talk and laugh, and took the initiative to ask for a video, and Mr. Cao was thrilled at the first sight of Ah Xin.
They are 19 years apart, there are many differences in growth experience, cultural background, life Xi, etc., Mr. Cao does not care, he is deeply attracted to Ah Xin, they met offline for more than a month, and established a relationship.
There are 11 brothers and sisters in Afghanistan, living in rural Laos, lacking clothes and living in poverty, and local girls marry relatively early and basically live a life of poverty and fatigue. Ah Xin is unwilling to repeat the mistakes of the past, and marrying a Chinese is her greatest wish.
Ah Xin cherished this hard-won relationship, she expressed her willingness to get married, and promised that she was willing to take care of Mr. Cao and give birth to Mr. Cao's child.
Ah Xin didn't want a bride price or a wedding room, Mr. Cao symbolically set up a table of banquets, and married Ah Xin almost nothing. Mr. Cao brought Ah Xin back to his hometown, and the people in the village came to see the excitement, saying that Mr. Cao was blessed to marry a young and beautiful foreign daughter-in-law, and some bachelors asked Ah Xin to help introduce his daughter-in-law, and Ah Xin was both happy and funny.
Mr. Cao and Ah Xin have experienced the hardships of life, tasted the hardships of life, and experienced the hardships of life, they cherish each other and love each other deeply, defend love with practical actions, strive to enhance their relationship and manage their marriage, and live better and better with their joint efforts.
Ah Xin posted their daily life on the Internet, they are 19 years apart, and they are a transnational couple, which attracted the attention of many netizens, and they accidentally became Internet celebrities. Ah Xin can not only pass the boring time by shooting videos, but also make a lot of money, which she never tires of.
Some people envy Mr. Cao for marrying a young, beautiful, simple and kind foreign daughter-in-law, some people send blessings hoping that they will have a noble son as soon as possible, and some people are not optimistic about this marriage, after all, the gap between them is too big, and various problems will inevitably arise in the process of getting along, and the slightest carelessness in the marriage will face a crisis.
Mr. Cao is still 40 years old and still can't find a suitable marriage partner, he has no choice but to find a foreign daughter-in-law, Mr. Cao did not pay a bride price or hold a grand wedding ceremony, and easily married a foreign woman, compared to the cost of marrying a Chinese daughter-in-law Mr. Cao.
However, there is a problem that has to be considered, Mr. Cao and Ah Xin are very different in age, and there are differences in ideology, life Xi, culture, Xi and customs, they should face up to these problems, communicate more, negotiate more, and find reasons from themselves when conflicts occur, and not lose their temper with anger, so that their families can be happy and their marriages stable.
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