The Chinese New Year is originally a festival of reunion and harmony, why do many families quarrel as soon as the Chinese New Year arrives?
The first is because family members spend more time together. In normal times, everyone is busy, although there are contradictions, but there is no time to break out, and during the New Year, people who are running around come back for reunion, and some things will be mentioned and magnified, resulting in a lot of contradictions.
The second most important reason is the problem of comparison. Everyone goes to relatives during the New Year's holidays, and it is inevitable to compare each other when they have dinners. And during the Chinese New Year, seeing that everyone was better off than themselves, I felt very uncomfortable, and I had no way to vent to outsiders, so I was psychologically unbalanced and involuntarily quarreled with my family.
The third is that the New Year's expenses are much larger than usual, to buy New Year's goods, to give gifts, to pay New Year's greetings, to prepare New Year's money, which takes a lot of energy and money, and to do business or owe foreign debts, the end of the year is the busiest time of the year, people are easy to lose control of their emotions in the busy.
In fact, when I became an adult, I found that only when I was a child eating, drinking, and having fun during the New Year was a happy day, and the New Year was both expensive and tiring for adults, and it was easy to lose my mentality.
