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My mom taught me one thing: what it means to be in person, behind your back, and in your heart

author:Malava

Personal life experience

Today, the mother-in-law is here!

In the morning, my mother came to me with a big bag and a small bag. In just an hour's green drive, she actually got a fleeing costume, and I was curious about why she had a green headscarf on her head.

It's so conspicuous! The color can't bear to look at it directly!

With a green hat on his head, he is in his prime.

Even if I have a temper with my stepfather, it won't be like this, an elderly couple, just because of money, as for dressing up so wild?

I also muttered to my husband: It's over, it's over, my mother can't figure it out, don't have any mental problems because of a quarrel with my wife.

My heart started pounding, I was nervous, and I was worried about my mom.

My husband and I were standing at the exit of the station, and I saw the green hat coming out of the gate, so I quickly called her, and I wanted to tell her to stand still and not move, and I would pick it up.

As a result, she slowly took out her mobile phone from her down jacket, squinted at the screen, and hung it up for me.

Then she went in the opposite direction.

My mom taught me one thing: what it means to be in person, behind your back, and in your heart

I chased after her, and in the crowd, I shouted and shouted slowly, but she still didn't hear.

I could only run, and I stepped forward to stop her, and grabbed her by both arms to prevent her from leaving.

Although the person who stopped her, I was dumbfounded, I recognized the wrong person!

She pulled down her mask, and I almost didn't scream.

The cuckold aunt reached a 90% match with my mother's figure and appearance, and I quickly apologized to others, and then called my mother again.

Aunt Cuckold gave me a bear meal and said I almost scared her to death!

No wonder my 600-degree myopia is stubbornly carried without measuring my vision, I estimate that it has risen to 800 degrees now.

I immediately called my mother, she had been picked up by my husband, I was embarrassed to tell her that I recognized the wrong mother, so I quickly said that I had just gone to the toilet and suddenly had a little stomachache.

Luckily, my mom didn't wear a hat of any color on her head.

I asked her: I called you just now, why didn't you answer?

My mom said she saw my husband, so she hung up, which would save me two cents.

I asked her, "Didn't you see me?"

My mother looked up and down and said, "I can't recognize you when you're so fat like a bear."

Give me a dismount as soon as we meet, which is too much in line with her usual style.

My mom taught me one thing: what it means to be in person, behind your back, and in your heart

After picking her up, in the car, I began to ask her about my stepfather and why they had a conflict.

My mom started rambling and trying to take my topic to other things. I thought she didn't hear clearly, and I kept asking.

I sat in the passenger seat, with my mom in the back, poked me hard and motioned for me to shut up.

Then she immediately started chatting with my husband, but she didn't match my tone.

After returning home, just after washing my hands, my in-laws came, and after a while of greetings with my mother, I strongly invited my mother to gather in the restaurant at noon.

From my father-in-law's gout, to my mother-in-law's stomach disease, and then from my mother-in-law's clothes, to my father-in-law's electric tricycle, trying not to let the atmosphere of the scene be cold.

My mother-in-law also thought twice and asked my mother: You and Lao Zheng (my stepfather) ...... It's going well.

My mother hurriedly hahaha, and said: It's very good, old in-law, thank you for still thinking about me.

Then again diverted the subject.

At lunchtime, because my son was present, all the topics revolved around whether the child was fat or thin, and there was a lot of talk.

It seemed to be calm and happy, and I couldn't see anything unusual on my mother's face.

My mom taught me one thing: what it means to be in person, behind your back, and in your heart

After everything was over, there were only two people left in the guest room, my mother and me, and while packing her clothes and luggage, she told me: Don't tell your in-laws about me and your Uncle Zheng, and don't talk too much to Da Niu (my husband).

I said why?

My mother said: This is my business, not your business, you married into the Da Niu family, you are the daughter-in-law of the Da Niu family, my these things are not a good thing, you say too much, I am afraid that people will have opinions about you, and have opinions about your mother.

I said to my mom: That's because you think too much!

My mother sighed and said a little unhappily: I only hope that you can live well, so how is it good, how can you come! If you always tell your in-laws about me and your Uncle Zheng, how will your in-laws think of you in the future? People will only think that our mother and daughter have too many things to do, and they are too annoying.

I'm still not convinced, so I told my mother clearly: My in-laws don't have as many eyes as you!

My mother immediately replied to me: You should hurry up and go to the moat next to you, wash your face, and sober up. I can't hold back anything, I can't hold back anything, I can't hold my breath when I talk about it all the time, I can't hold my breath when I am a child.

I obviously cared about her, but I ended up being a licking dog.

My mother immediately taught me: If you talk about this kind of thing once or twice, others can still give some sympathy, and if you keep talking about this kind of thing, after a long time, others will get bored. People are like this, so if you want to get along well with others, try to say as many good things as possible! If I meet your in-laws once and scold you Uncle Zheng once, will your in-laws not see me in the future?

My mom is my mom after all!

After she scolded me three stupid people in a row, she pushed the door out, changed her face instantly, smiled and said to my husband: You are busy with you, I will make dumplings for you to eat at night, I know that you like to eat dumplings, I will make you sauerkraut filling.

When my husband heard that he wanted to eat dumplings, the toad's mouth almost grinned to the root of his ears.

I also want to comfort my mother for an afternoon, talk to her heart, who knows that as soon as she lies on the bed, as soon as the mobile phone is turned on, she began to start a 60-second voice chat with the good sisters in her group who are "rich and rich", "beautiful life", and "meeting is fate", and have been praising her in-laws, and invited her to have a meal at noon today.

It was a lot of fun!

I was dumbfounded, I thought my mother was at my house, and she was going to hammer the bed, the table, the cabinet, and the ceiling, and give my stepfather a scolding.

As a result, she should still do what she should do! and even happy!

But I know that she must have grievances in her heart, but at the moment, she is still enjoying life and will not wear herself into Xianglin's sister-in-law.

My mother's approach can make me grow up quickly, and in marriage, I can withstand the pressure, swallow the grievances, and withstand the turmoil, which can allow me to support my own pattern.

It is concluded from this: a family is stable and harmonious, and the family is stable and united, all depends on one mouth!