A talented and intelligent singing star
In 1963, Wei Wei was born in an ordinary Zhuang family in Inner Mongolia. The father was an old Red Army, and the mother was an ordinary rural woman. In the boring life, the little Wei Wei showed great enthusiasm and talent for music.
She has a heart-pounding singing voice and often sings beautiful melodies.
At the age of 14, Xiao Weiwei left his hometown and was admitted to the Beijing Railway Art Troupe. At first, life in the unfamiliar capital was not satisfactory, and Wei Wei fell into confusion from time to time. However, she did not give up her pursuit of music and worked hard to study her singing skills. Three years later, he stood out in the 1986 National Singer TV Grand Prix and became a popular new star in one fell swoop.
Under the careful guidance of the division commander and experts, Wei Wei's strength was further enhanced. In 1988, she represented China at the Yugoslav International Music Festival and won the gold medal for her superb singing.
The following year, he teamed up with the "King of Singers" Liu Huan to conquer the stage of the Spring Festival Gala and pushed his career to the peak. The music industry and the film and television circles have thrown olive branches to Wei Wei, and she has become a well-deserved diva for a while.
An unexpected romantic love
In 1992, 29-year-old Wei Wei was on the rise in his career, but he repeatedly hit a wall on the emotional road. By chance, she met Michael, an American musician who was 54 years old, and the two developed a crush.
Michael is a well-known composer with a particular fascination with Oriental culture. He admired Wei Wei's unique voice and temperament, and took the initiative to compose a number of English songs for her.
In frequent work exchanges, the two hearts gradually get closer. After going back and forth, Michael proposed to Wei Wei and expressed his desire to get married.
At first, Wei Wei's family strongly opposed the transnational marriage. Michael is not only much older, but he is also in a foreign country. However, the seeds of love have germinated and are difficult to suppress.
In 1994, they held a grand wedding in the United States and officially embarked on the life journey of marriage.
After marriage, Michael treated Wei Wei like his first love. They bought a property in the United States and made a decent living. 3 lovely children were born one after another, and this marriage was once sweet and happy.
Marriage comes to an end, and life falls into a low point
After 10 years of romantic married life, Wei Wei began to feel the change in her husband Michael. He gradually entered old age, his temper became irritable, and he often got angry with Wei Wei for no reason.
At the same time, Wei Wei's career in the United States collapsed, and life gradually felt pressure. In 2003, she filed for divorce from Michael, but was strongly opposed.
Michael was reluctant to let go, and he even resorted to violent means to keep Wei Wei. With the help of the law, Wei Wei finally got rid of this painful marriage.
But what followed was a low point in life. She had to take care of her three young children on her own, and her life suddenly became difficult. Under the exhaustion, Wei Wei's body also had problems.
Fortunately, Wei Wei's parents came over to help take care of the grandchildren. The growth of the children has also become her motivation to reinvigorate. Although the days were difficult, Wei Wei did not give up hope and continued to live strongly. She gradually realized how important the choice of marriage was.
Reflecting on life experience, marriage choices are extremely important
After experiencing the fruits of marriage, Wei Wei couldn't help but think deeply about life. She twice chose a man who was much older than her as her partner, but both ended in failure, and she inevitably regretted it.
There is not only a gap in age and cultural background between these men, but also a difference in lifestyle and ideology. Wei Wei longs for a free and romantic life, and they are either conservative or tyrannical.
Time will not bridge the gap created by this. Furthermore, love needs common topics and interests as a fusion agent. Wei Wei and her husband lack this compatibility, and it is inevitable that they will be alienated for a long time. This was also a key reason for the breakdown of her marriage.
To sum up, Wei Wei's life experience warns us that marriage determines the harmony and happiness of a family. When choosing the other half, love is important, but it is more important to pay attention to the matching of many factors such as age, family background, personality, and hobbies.
Otherwise, it is not surprising that the small family turns into hell.