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"You can go with confidence, I will help you realize the things you are worried about. ”
Nine years ago, her husband Xu Qingdong died, Wang Qian said such a sentence and worked hard for it for seven years.
Marrying a twenty-three-year-old person at the most beautiful age will also bear the pain of losing her husband in middle age.
Did she regret it? How is she doing now as a widow with her daughter?
suddenly suffered a catastrophe and gave up the college entrance examination to take care of his family
"My dream is to be a glorious people's teacher like my parents. ”
Unlike other actors, Wang Qian did not love art and acting as a child.
Both parents are ordinary teachers, and although their salaries are not high, they can barely meet the basic living expenses.
She and her brother lived very contently, but bad luck did not spare the ordinary family.
It was at the critical period when Wang Qian was about to take the university entrance examination.
The mother, who was originally strong, fell ill and had to lie in bed to recuperate.
It has brought a heavy financial burden and living burden to the families who are not wealthy.
On the one hand, the upcoming college entrance examination, and on the other hand, the mother who gave birth to herself, Wang Qian chose the latter without hesitation.
Every morning, she had to wake up early to prepare meals for her mother.
Then he rushed to the hospital and patiently took care of his mother's daily life and diet.
At the same time, he also had to find time to go home and take care of his younger brother to ease the burden on his father.
Despite the hardships of life, Wang Qian still insisted on Xi her homework.
Hope for your future.
"Sissi, go back to school, I don't have any problems here. ”
The mother couldn't bear to delay the major events of her daughter's life, and persuaded her to go to class several times.
The sensible younger brother also came to the hospital after school to take care of his mother.
Although my father is not good at words, he can't hide the concern on his face.
Wang Qian came to the school to Xi a few months before the college entrance examination, but no matter how hard she tried, the gap could not be filled.
Although I successfully took the college entrance examination, my final score was much lower than that of other students.
You can only go to a general college.
In order to reduce the financial burden on her family, she entered the factory early after the college entrance examination to do odd jobs to make money.
Although it is not a prestigious school, she still puts in 100% effort to Xi.
Classes are held during the day and part-time work in the school library at night.
I wanted to have a little extra income, but I never thought that this job would directly change the trajectory of her life.
"Hello classmates, we are performing downstairs, but there is a temporary lack of actors, can you please go to the rescue." ”
At that time, she was busy sorting out her books, and a teacher came in a hurry.
But she didn't have any acting experience at all, but looking at the teacher's anxious appearance, she still took the script head-on.
The result was unexpected, the performance ended successfully, and she also won the third prize trophy as a supporting role.
The amazing experience instantly opened the door to a new world.
The teacher watching from the audience did not hesitate to praise her:
"It's really unusual to be able to act like this for the first time on stage, why don't you learn to act?"
In this way, Wang Qian, who graduated from junior college, was admitted to Nortel with a green light all the way with talent and hard work.
In her sophomore year, she participated in the movie "Working Girls in the Special Zone", and invitations to TV series also followed.
At that time, she was just a college student who had not yet graduated.
With such experiences and achievements, the future must be a smooth road, but Wang Qian doesn't think so.
After graduating from Nortel, she entered the Beijing Broadcasting Institute, where she studied directing instead of acting.
It's a pity that she didn't continue her previous luck with a dream of directing, and she has been doing nothing for five or six years after graduation.
It wasn't until 2001 that "Six Groups of Serious Cases" was broadcast, and Wang Qian quickly became popular with the role of "the most beautiful police flower" Ji Jie.
She expressed her gratitude for the play more than once: "Thank you for finding me a good husband for this drama." ”
She was re-elected as the heroine, and she still had this relationship.
Married to a director, twenty-three years older is nothing
"If you have to marry this old man, don't enter this house in the future. ”
Looking at the man in front of him who was older than himself, Wang Qian's father was angry.
It's a pity that it's too late, the two have already secretly obtained a marriage certificate and become a legal husband and wife.
For a while, relatives and friends accused her of being too impulsive, but only she knew the importance of Xu Qingdong.
Not only a lover, but also a good partner in the career.
At that time, Wang Qian was only 29 years old, and after many years of silence, she finally made her mark in the movie "Anti-Drug Hero".
The director was none other than Xu Qingdong, who was 52 years old at the time and was an experienced producer and director.
When they met for the first time, the two had a great resonance, and he clearly knew the depression that Wang Qianhuai had never encountered.
On the set, they would get together from time to time to discuss the script, relieve their inner depression and anxiety, and be a teacher and friend.
During this time, Xu Qingdong, as a director, has been silently helping Wang Qian improve her acting skills and mood.
As a friend, she is silently accompanied by her and can always give valuable opinions and suggestions at critical moments.
Later, "Six Groups of Serious Cases" began to be filmed, and Xu Qingdong occupied the heroine first when selecting the role.
Wang Qian, who is resolute and strong, and heroic, is very suitable to play the role of Ji Jie.
It turned out that he was very discerning, and Wang Qian was also very capable, and he became famous with this role.
Outside the play, as the years go by, the relationship between the two has become increasingly close.
Although the outside world has quite disagreed with the 23-year-old lovers, Wang Qian and Xu Qingdong have not been disturbed in any way.
On the contrary, the relationship became more and more firm, and I firmly believed that each other was the partner in life.
Although the relationship was not blessed by their parents, they still got married and became a family.
Soon after, they also welcomed a new member of the family: a well-behaved and lovely daughter.
Although Wang Qian and her work are very busy, it does not delay them from becoming qualified parents.
Especially Xu Qingdong, who is old and has a daughter, he loves his daughter very much.
Breastfeeding, diaper changing, etc., are all done by themselves, and they are even picked up and dropped off from school.
The family of three is exceptionally happy, which makes friends envious, and Wang Qian's parents have also changed their opinion of this old son-in-law.
But just when everything was improving, Xu Qingdong fell on the way to pick up his daughter from school.
It took seven years to finally fulfill her husband's last wish
"There is no hope for the patient anymore, so let the family go in and take one last look. ”
The doctor's words froze Wang Qian in place, obviously he rushed with him to pick up his daughter from school an hour ago.
Why was he lying on the hospital bed dying in a blink of an eye.
It turned out that Xu Qingdong had suffered from severe asthma for a long time, but he didn't relapse for a long time, and the family forgot about it.
I never thought that I would suddenly fall to the ground on the way to pick up my daughter from school.
Thanks to the well-wishers, he was sent to the hospital by calling the police, but the result was still to no avail, and the rescue was ineffective and he died.
Faced with the sudden blow, Wang Qian fell into deep self-blame, why didn't she notice it earlier.
At the funeral, she cried bitterly, but no matter how she shouted, the honest man would not wipe her tears for her.
After sending her husband away in person, she couldn't sleep all night, and her mental torment and emotional collapse made her unbearable.
"Mom, don't be like this, you still have me. ”
Looking at her daughter in her arms, Wang Qian realized that she couldn't fall down and had to get back up.
Time can dilute sadness, and busyness can forget the past.
She remembered the promise she had made with her husband:
"In addition to doctors and police officers in this world, there are also great teachers who teach and educate people, so we might as well shoot a film for them. ”
The movie "Ah Cradle" is just such a movie, and the director is Xie Jin, who can adapt it into a TV series.
It's a pity that Xu Qingdong passed away at the beginning of the prototype, and the matter was put on hold.
Wang Qian, who was in a good mood, reopened the script, and she was determined to complete this work that carried her husband's last wishes.
In order to shoot this work well, Wang Qian picked up pen and paper, adapted the script herself, and completed her husband's job.
Seven years later, "Ah Cradle" was broadcast, and it achieved an excellent response in the industry.
Wang Qian, who is behind the scenes, hides her fame and fame and withdraws from the audience's field of vision.
Continue to fulfill her husband's other wish and accompany her daughter to grow up step by step.
Today, Wang Qian is 55 years old, although she has rarely appeared in public in recent years.
But it is not difficult to see from the dynamics shared on her social platform that she has been living a good life.
Although Xu Qingdong has been dead for nine years, Wang Qian is still alone, and perhaps in her heart, he is still alive.
This is her adherence to love and commitment, and I wish her peace and happiness for the rest of her life.
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