It was a golden age of music, and countless singers were rushing to emerge, but there were very few voices that could truly shake people's hearts. Until the 1986 CCTV Young Singer Grand Prix, a 23-year-old girl Zhang Juxia from Inner Mongolia rushed to the stage, her affectionate and unique singing voice resonated with the heartstrings of the judges and the audience in the audience, she became a blockbuster, won the second place, and under the recommendation of the teacher, she officially debuted with the stage name "Wei Wei".
Wei Wei's singing contains the simplicity and enthusiasm of the vast grassland, as well as the longing and dreams of a girl yearning for a distant place. She has been fond of music since she was a child, and she devotes herself to it like she has found a soulmate, and her innate singing voice has been honed by her, and she has become more and more perfect.
She kept running around performing and working continuously, but she never complained, because this was her mission, her biggest dream in this life, and in order to achieve all this, she forgot to eat.
In 1989, Wei Wei finally got his wish on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala. She clasped her hands, her eyes were firm and gentle, and her singing revealed her deep love for this country and this nation.
The whole of China was moved, and since then, the song "Dedication of Love" has made countless people remember her name - Wei Wei. One year later, the "Asian Heroes" sung with Liu Huan pushed her to the whole country.
Today's Wei Wei is a hot mainland singer, and her radiance has deeply influenced the music path of a generation.
Under the aura of the queen of songs, Wei only hides the expectations of ordinary girls for love. Under Li Gu's door, she met her first love, Fu Disheng. The two had feelings for each other, and they were still young and frivolous.
Fu Disheng took care of Wei Wei meticulously and accompanied her through the exhaustion of many performances and rehearsals. It's a pity that the good times didn't last long, and the gap in status between them eventually led to the breakdown of the relationship.
This is the first time Wei Wei has tasted the frustration of love, she chooses to face it alone and focus more on her career. Until the appearance of Hou Yaowen, a cross talk actor at the Conservatory of Music, Wei Wei was once again moved by the thoughtfulness and gentleness of the man.
Hou Yaowen is 15 years older than her, he understands the girl's mind, and swept her heart with romantic confessions and sweet words. But in the end, because the other party has not yet finished married, this relationship is not understood by outsiders, and the two are deeply condemned by public opinion.
What was lost was not only love, but also Wei Wei's reputation in the music industry.
The breakdown of the two relationships left Wei Wei, who was still in his youth, scarred. She silently endured these hurts and misunderstandings alone, and warned herself again and again to be strong.
She is like a rose dormant by wind, rain and hail, which grows vigorously but does not dare to bloom again. Looking back many years later, she burst into tears: "The biggest mistake I made was to choose to believe in love.
In 1992, 29-year-old Wei Wei fell in love at first sight with Swedish musician Michael on stage. Michael is 25 years older than her and is an internationally renowned pianist.
He has a soft spot for oriental women, and soon launched his pursuit of Wei Wei. Wei Wei, who had experienced two failed relationships, was wary at first, but Michael's romantic pursuit eventually touched her tired heart.
In 1994, Wei Wei, who was in the best years of his life, married Sweden. She gave birth to their first child with a sweet and happy heart. On the surface, this is the happy marriage that every ordinary woman dreams of.
However, what she didn't expect was that this man with a personable appearance often made trouble unreasonably in private, beating and scolding him at every turn. Bridal seems to have become the object of venting for this family.
For the sake of this family, for the sake of his precious son, Wei Wei swallowed his anger. She compromised and forgave again and again, hoping to save the marriage. But her tolerance was exchanged for increasing domestic violence.
In 4 years, she gave birth to three sons alone in a foreign country, but she still couldn't escape her husband's brutality. During this period, she also found out that her husband was cheating on her and was unfaithful to her.
She was tormented by repeated insults and betrayals, and she wanted to put an end to it, but she couldn't bear to burden the helpless children.
Years of domestic violence have taken Wei Wei physically and mentally, but what makes her even more unbearable is that the children often witness this heinous scene. She couldn't bear to let her children live in constant fear, and she didn't want them to think that this was the norm.
In 2003, she summoned all her courage and resolved to divorce Michael and protect her children.
But it's not easy. Michael clings to the benefits of the relationship. He threatened Wei Wei and used all means to prevent her from leaving Sweden.
In the end, Wei Wei found a lawyer and formally applied to the court for divorce. In this two-year divorce battle, she turned into a lioness and fought alone, facing obstacles and threats from Michael again and again.
In order not to let her children be involved in disputes, she took on the difficult road of litigation alone. She traveled around looking for a team of lawyers she could trust. During the day, she sat firmly in the courtroom to debate, but at night she could not hide the weakness and exhaustion in her heart.
She reminds herself all the time that it is all for the sake of the children and for them to have a warm home.
Finally, in 2005, she got her wish and officially obtained custody of her third son through legal procedures. She hugged the children with relief and cried, and the marathon, which lasted for 2 years, finally came to an end.
She chose to leave everything behind, take the child away from this nightmare, and start a new life.
After a lot of hardships, Wei Wei, who finally regained his freedom and his children, chose to return to China for development. After the divorce, she also had some financial influence, but in order to let her children have their original life, she resolutely returned to her old career - returned to the stage of singers.
She hasn't sung for many years, but she still relies on her extraordinary talent and quickly regained her form. The audience applauded her one after another, as if the years had not left a trace on her.
Her eyes were full of sadness, but she still sang loudly, infecting everyone who grew up listening to her singing.
It was also in this year that her physical condition deteriorated due to years of domestic violence. For the sake of these three little lives, she had to reduce her workload and devote more time and energy to her children.
She took on their 18-year parenting journey on her own and never complained. Now that the children have come of age safely and have achieved remarkable results, she looks at them with relief and sincerely thanks to life for keeping her alive until now.
In 2023, she will post her ex-husband's obituary on the Internet, remembering the aging musician with mourning words. The obituary reveals her relief from the past, she no longer has any hatred, the only thing she is happy about is that this man finally gave her three lovely children.
They were the most regretless decisions of her life.