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The girl in the room, a position exclusive to women in ancient times, how many secrets and misfortunes it brought to women

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The girl in the room, a position exclusive to women in ancient times, how many secrets and misfortunes it brought to women

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The girl in the room, a position exclusive to women in ancient times, how many secrets and misfortunes it brought to women

Film and television stills, pictures and texts have nothing to do with each other.

The girl in the room, a position exclusive to women in ancient times, how many secrets and misfortunes it brought to women

Film and television stills, pictures and texts have nothing to do with each other.

The girl in the room, a position exclusive to women in ancient times, how many secrets and misfortunes it brought to women

Film and television stills, pictures and texts have nothing to do with each other.

The girl in the room, a position exclusive to women in ancient times, how many secrets and misfortunes it brought to women

Film and television stills, pictures and texts have nothing to do with each other.

The girl in the room, a position exclusive to women in ancient times, how many secrets and misfortunes it brought to women

Film and television stills, pictures and texts have nothing to do with each other.

The girl in the room, a position exclusive to women in ancient times, how many secrets and misfortunes it brought to women

Film and television stills, pictures and texts have nothing to do with each other.

The girl in the room, a position exclusive to women in ancient times, how many secrets and misfortunes it brought to women

Film and television stills, pictures and texts have nothing to do with each other.

The girl in the room, a position exclusive to women in ancient times, how many secrets and misfortunes it brought to women

Film and television stills, pictures and texts have nothing to do with each other.

A "position" unique to the girl in ancient times, it represents the low-end status of women in ancient times, and also expresses the inequality of the ancient feudal system. No matter what level of intercourse girls, their ultimate fate is to be exploited, and their lives are not in their own hands and they will never have their own true love. This is the position of an ancient female tragedy, and life can only be called a "shadow".

What is a room girl, this is actually not just anyone who wants to be an errand who can be an errand boy

It's easy to understand that it literally means a person who can live together in the master's room, but of course it is limited to unmarried women. If understood according to the old theory, the maid in the room is the servant girl who served the man and the hostess in the old days. They cannot marry without feelings of their own, and as long as their master needs them, they have to act according to their master's needs, including their master's biological needs.

In fact, just from the word "through the room", it can be understood that such a maid is the proud person of the owner, and can use the master's bedroom as her own bedroom. Of course only temporarily, when the host needs it. The reason why they are called intercourse girls is the age requirement for the maids in this position: they must be young and know a little about men and women, so that the male and female women can be helped and satisfied when doing the affairs of the boudoir.

Anyone who has read "Dream of Red Mansions" knows that she is a girl, of course, she is called a big girl in the book. But her role is to help Baoyu bathe, change clothes, make beds, and eat, which means that Baoyu's personal eating, drinking, pulling, and sprinkling are all supervised by the attackers. And this is bound to rare Baoyu's personal privacy, which leads Baoyu to use her as a "tool" for "drills" at the beginning of the clouds.

Of course, the girl who has a room will eventually develop into a concubine in ancient times, such as after pregnancy and childbirth, or when she is favored by the male host, the male host can give her a higher status. But that's all there is to it, just like Qingwen said, it's just a life to be an aunt.

In ancient times, being an aunt may have a higher status than a maid. But they are also slaves who serve their masters, and their fate will never change. And together with the children they gave birth to, they also have the fate of being crowned as "concubines" all their lives, and everything must be inferior to the family's main family and the first to be the first to be born. There is one aspect that I still want to say, although the fate of the girl who has sex is not very ideal, it is not something that anyone wants to do. In the old days, the owners had supreme power, and they also liked women who were young, beautiful, and had to be empathetic. Most of these people have grown up with their masters since they were children, and they are still waiting for them because they are familiar with their masters' Xi habits and physical conditions.

It can be seen that growing up together is a very common standard. The so-called long-term love probably means this. And the girl brought by the hostess when she got married, it existed to consolidate the status of the young lady. It is even more important to be able to help the young lady take care of the family affairs and deal with the uncle, which shows that ordinary people can't do this kind of thing.

What is the use of a girl in a room? It can be said that there is no other benefit other than appearance

In fact, in addition to serving the master and facilitating the master's physiological problems, the errand girl also has an important role that balances the master's husband and wife relationship. Wang Xifeng said: Home flowers are not as fragrant as wild flowers. Although the wife is beautiful, she can't stand the aesthetic fatigue, and it is inevitable that the husband will always have small fluctuations in his heart. This is not surprising at all in ancient times, and it was a common problem or elegant thing for men to mess with flowers and grass.

And it's different if there is a girl in the house, Wang Xifeng's close maid Ping'er is also a girl in the room. But how could she have been with Jia Lian openly? It's not that Wang Xifeng is unhappy and doesn't let them be together. This can be said to be jealous or ruthless, but it is right for people to maintain the status and dignity of their wives. But Wang Xifeng also has times when he is sick, and there are times when he can't satisfy Jia Lian. Or conversely, Jia Lian often wants to get close to other women. At this time, instead of letting an unknown woman come on a blind date with her husband, the girl who has sex is a better candidate.

It can be seen that the girl who has sex can not only make the hostess psychologically balanced, but also make the male owner psychologically get the satisfaction of "stealing". In short, whether the husband and wife are harmonious, or whether the main room is magnanimous in ancient times, it depends on whether the girl in the room has the ability to balance the relationship between husband and wife. But don't think that although the girl in the room is valued by the owner and is higher than ordinary subordinates, it does not mean that life is perfect. After being favored by the male host, many girls in the room aroused the dissatisfaction of the hostess and were directly sold or even executed. And because some young ladies don't know what kind of person their future husband is, they will also send the girl over in advance to "experience" life so as to understand the future husband's body, conduct and other issues.

But the problem is that if there is a divorce, then the one who suffers is just a girl. They have paid their bodies and may eventually return to Miss, not even as good as ordinary girls. In addition, there are times when the man does not treat the girl brought by his wife very well. For example, the famous Shi Chong of the Western Jin Dynasty, it is said that his roommate is responsible for wiping PP for him. And Yan Shifan of the Ming Dynasty was even more excessive, and he even spit into the mouth of the girl in the room when he spitted, is this too disrespectful to treat people as people?

Even if the young lady is affectionate, she wants to marry the girl out of the room after marriage and let her find her own happiness. But in that era, everyone was taboo about the reality of having a room, who would want to ask for a girl to be his wife? It can be seen that what a girl who has sex is a physical disability, but also the happiness of her whole life.

This bad Xi of having sex is the sorrow of women in the old society, who depend on their masters to survive to the point where they will die miserably if they leave. What's more, in the eyes of the owner, their status as no one at all is completely personal belongings. Fortunately, this era is gone, and the era of equality between men and women has completely liberated women so that they can have their own lives.

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