#Record my life#After the age of 60, I finally understood that life is like a journey to spend time and love yourself, and the experience of growing up has made me gradually understand that before loving others, you must first love yourself...... The body is not as safe as the heart, the house is not as wide as the heart, everything is an inch wider, and the life is longer than one year!
60 years old, retired, the road of life has gone for most of the road, although the first half of the life has not seen the wind and waves, but also experienced ups and downs, and finally found out: ordinary is true, before loving others, please love yourself first!
There is an old saying: "Everyone sweeps the snow in front of the door, and does not care about the frost on the tiles of others", many times this sentence is often understood as selfishness for the individual, and now I have lived over 60 years old to understand: be a man to be less nosy, do your own thing! Because you do your own things well, it may also affect others to Xi learn from you, so that you have followers, that is to say, the power of example is infinite, so that everyone may be able to get better and progress, if you take care of others, others are not convinced of your management, the two sides will continue to fight, and things cannot be completed well, not to mention that you can manage 1, can you manage more people?
Especially when you are 60 years old and retired, you must understand: "People don't fail to be old when they are old, and they can't accept old age when they are old", don't cause trouble to others, calm down and live their own lives, you can "watch the flowers bloom and fall, and watch the clouds roll up". Don't point fingers at others at will, be less nosy, worry less about idleness, always think about your own faults, and don't talk about others.
After the age of 60, love yourself first, if you have more love, then love others, and never make the mistake of "there is a kind of cold, it is the cold that Dad said", the best courtesy to your family and others is not to meddle.
There is also an old saying: "A good word is warm in three winters, and a bad word is hurtful and cold in June." "At the age of 60, when you are retired, you must know how to speak well, not only to please yourself, but also to warm others. In this way, you are accumulating blessings for yourself. Therefore, raise a loving mouth, do not expose others' shortcomings, do not speak wild words, naturally be virtuous, and accumulate virtues and blessings. In life, the safety of the body is not as good as the peace of mind, and the width of the house is not as wide as the heart. If you relax your heart in everything, you will open up the sea and the sky in life, and if you relax your heart in everything, you will live a hundred years old. Raise a sentient mouth, do not expose others' shortcomings, do not speak wild words, naturally be virtuous, and accumulate virtues and blessings
The ancients said: Misfortune comes from the mouth, and if you say too much, you will lose. Interacting with people and always treating them with a normal heart is the best way for you to come to live with me. With some people who don't agree with the three views, watching them build high-rise buildings, in order to maintain their own people, pretend to be blind on the major rights and wrongs, and quietly watch the changes without leaving bad words, I can't say whether others are right or wrong, time is silent, but give all the answers, just record it!
When everyone is young, they will be young and vigorous, like to be sharp, and often ignore people's arrogance. At the age of 60, I have experienced a lot of life events, and I have eaten more salt and rice, and I have gradually understood: a truly mature person must be virtuous when he speaks, and he must leave room for doing things.
As the saying goes, "Be a person and do things, don't go too far." The valley is always bent over, and the wise are always gentle. Walking in the world, it is always right to be low-key. This is like what some people often say: three points of hunger is also to leave a little leeway, the beautiful scenery is not appreciated, the food is not tired, curiosity is not satisfied, and desires are not fulfilled. If you eat too much, there is often only a full burp left, and the aftertaste is gone.
At the age of 60 and retired, we must keep these five places on our bodies——01, mouth: speak with a ruler, do not expose others' shortcomings, and do not speak crazy words. 02. Eye: Have a pair of discerning eyes, the vision should be tolerant of others, do not force others to change, and respect different people and things. 03. Ear: Know how to listen to others, and after listening silently, think twice before acting. 04. Heart: Cultivate a forgiving heart, don't always think from your own perspective in everything, and know how to empathize. 05. Behavior: Conduct yourself in the world, do not take your own needs for granted, and do not take other people's efforts for granted.
60 years old, retired, back to the family, life is a lot simpler, for every ordinary day, every day of monotonous life, everything is about not forced, not deliberate, will not seek troubles, you can be at peace with the situation, go with the flow!
You must be a kind and blessed person, I wish you a lot of money and good luck for the rest of your life!】