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I am an old woman, eighty-two years old, living alone for many years, my daughter-in-law doesn't care, and my son Wang Xiaoqiang is also busy with work and has no time to take care of me. My health is getting worse and worse, I am weak and painful everywhere, and I am really afraid that one day I will have an accident while living alone at home.
Just a few days ago, Xiaoqiang suddenly called and said that he had discussed with his daughter-in-law and wanted to take me to their house to live together and let me support my old age. I was so excited that I couldn't speak, and I couldn't help but cry. I have not had a good relationship with my daughter-in-law over the years, and I didn't expect her to ask me to go to her house.
"Mom, just pack your things, and I'll drive to pick you up in a few days. In the future, you will live in our house, and Xiaoxiao will serve you, and you will no longer have to be alone. Xiaoqiang's voice was full of excitement.
I wiped my tears and smiled: "Good boy, Mom was thinking just now, how could you and Xiaoxiao suddenly be so kind, it turned out that the two of you discussed it." Mom was so happy!"
"It's good if you're happy. Xiaoxiao people are very good, you will definitely spoil you when you go to our house. We all look forward to having you come and live with us. ”
I was so happy that I hurriedly agreed. In the past two days, I have been tidying up my house and getting ready to move. Yesterday, Xiaoqiang drove his ten-year-old car to pick me up, and I looked at the body a little, a little worried about whether it would break down halfway.
"Mom, this car is of good quality, it hasn't broken for so many years, rest assured to sit!" Xiaoqiang comforted me and said.
I could only nod and get into the car. drove out for dozens of kilometers, and sure enough, the car shook a few times and creaked and didn't move. I looked at Xiaoqiang anxiously, and he was also embarrassed.
"Mom, maybe the filter is blocked again, I'll fix it. ”
Xiaoqiang found a car repair master, and the two of them squatted under the car to work. I looked at Xiaoqiang's sweat on his forehead, and I felt that I couldn't go, their family was no longer rich, and the car repair fee would cost a lot.
It took more than an hour for the car to be repaired and we were on the road again. I looked at Xiaoqiang's side face as he drove seriously all the way, and thought to myself that when he picked me up and took me to the hospital for examination, I must give him some money, and I couldn't let him spend any more money on car repairs. Although my savings are not much, 200,000 yuan is enough for me to eat and live for a few years, but I want to buy a new car for my son and repay his family for their kindness to me.
When we arrived at Xiaoqiang's house, his mother-in-law Xiaoxiao had already prepared a steaming dinner and was waiting for us. As soon as she opened the door, she smiled and came over to support me: "Mother-in-law, you have worked hard, come in and rest." ”
I looked at this gentle daughter-in-law, my heart was warm, and I quickly smiled and said: "It's you who work hard, I come to your house with an old woman, and your life will be even more difficult." ”
Xiaoxiao hurriedly said: "Where is it, we are very happy to accompany my mother-in-law." Come, let's eat. ”
I was tossing and turning in my room, thinking about buying a new car. I understand that Xiaoqiang and Xiaoxiao are not well-off, and when an old woman comes to their house, the burden of life will be heavier. Although I am old, I am still strong enough to help with some household chores, so don't drag them down too much.
"Xiaoxiao and I have prepared breakfast, and we will set off after you finish eating. Xiaoqiang said with a smile.
Eating too early, I wiped my tears, said goodbye to Xiaoxiao and went on the road with Xiaoqiang. Sure enough, not long after driving, the car began to shake again. I hurriedly looked at Xiaoqiang, who was also embarrassed, and stopped on the side of the road to check the engine.
"Mom, it seems that there is a problem with the spark plug again, let me find someone to help. Xiaoqiang sighed and sweated profusely to call someone.
"Xiaoqiang, Mom knows that your family is not well-off. This car has been driving for more than ten years, and I think the dead ancestor can take advantage of the fact that the car is no big problem now, and quickly change to a new car!" I plucked up the courage to speak my mind.
Xiaoqiang looked at me with a surprised face: "Mom, it doesn't matter if we drive an old car, we don't need you to spend money to buy a new car." ”
I waved my hand and said, "My old woman won't live for a few years, and it's useless to keep the remaining savings, so it's better to buy a car to repay your family's kindness for the elderly, and my heart will be steady." As soon as I buy the car, it will be convenient for you to take me to the hospital, so I can rest assured. ”
Xiaoqiang refused without saying a word: "Mom, keep your money for yourself, our family doesn't lack that money." I also don't want you to buy us things out of gratitude, it's our wish that you come to our house. ”
I was a little anxious when I heard this: "Child, 200,000 is not a small amount for you." Buying a better car is also safe for you to travel. The car broke down so many times, if something happened, my mother would feel guilty for the rest of her life. ”
Xiaoqiang waved his hand and said in a resolute tone: "Mom, our family is doing well, don't worry about it." You can retire in our home with peace of mind!"
Only then did I realize that the family's concern for me was not because of material things, but from the heart. When I saw Xiaoqiang so firmly rejecting my kindness, my heart became more steady. Maybe I can give them all of the 200,000 as a little bit of my heart. I believe that Xiaoqiang and Xiaoxiao will definitely use it for the future life of our three generations, instead of squandering it themselves.
At this time, the repairman finally repaired the car. Xiaoqiang checked and confirmed that there was no problem, and we went to the hospital again. I looked out the window, and my heart was full of one thought: I would give all my savings to their family, because the children's pension is not for money, but for this heart. I don't have to worry about anything anymore, and with them, I will definitely live a happy and peaceful old age.
We arrived at the hospital smoothly, I checked around the various departments, and in general, except for the backache that is common in old age, my physical condition is okay. Xiaoqiang stayed with me all day until the inspection reports came out, and when he got in the car and went home, he said to me excitedly: "Mom, you are in such good health, you can live for many years!"
I smiled and nodded, thinking to myself that I had so many years left, and I would be relieved to give them all my savings as soon as possible.
When I got home, Xiaoxiao had already prepared dinner and made some supplements for me. After dinner, she sat in the courtyard with me basking in the moonlight. I looked at this gentle and virtuous daughter-in-law, and I couldn't bear it, so I mentioned the idea of giving her money to buy a car.
"Auntie, don't mention it. We don't lack that money, Xiaoqiang's old car can be used for a few years. Xiaoxiao hurriedly persuaded me.
I waved my hand and said, "My old bones don't have a few years to live, and the rest of my savings are also kept, so it's better to give them to you and your husband to plan for the future." My son and daughter-in-law are able to let me live in the house, I am already grateful, and now I just want to repay you for your kindness. ”
Xiaoxiao looked at me, her eyes were a little red: "Auntie, it is our wish that you move in, and we don't need you to feel that there is anything to repay." We will always be good to you, so you can live your life with peace of mind. ”
I couldn't help but wet my eyes, held Xiaoxiao's hand and said, "Good boy, you and Xiaoqiang are really my good sons and daughters." Mom is so old, the happiest thing is that you make me feel at home. You must accept this little bit of my heart. ”
Xiaoxiao looked at me and couldn't help but burst into tears. She hugged me and whispered, "Auntie, we won't disappoint you." You can live in our home with peace of mind, and we will always be good to you. ”
I also hugged my daughter-in-law and wept, thinking that I had finally found a place to live out my old age. I can dedicate the rest of my life to this pair of filial sons and daughters, helping them solve their problems.
I looked at my son's moist eyes, and my heart was full of relief and emotion. I know that he will definitely use this money for the future life of the three of us, and will keep our mother and son together forever. I don't have to worry about anything anymore, and for the rest of the time, I will do my best for this family and spend the evening with them until the last moment of my life.
After transferring the money to my son, I felt a lot more relaxed. I began to help Xiaoxiao take care of the house, cook some simple meals, and teach her some secret recipes for health preservation. Xiaoxiao was very careful, she wrote down everything I taught, and kept asking me for all kinds of cooking tips. I saw that she was so attentive, so I passed on all the cooking secrets I had accumulated to her, and she listened to them with relish.
I will also help Xiaoxiao take care of their child Xiaoyu. Xiaoyu is 5 years old this year, and she is very well-behaved and cute. When I talked to her, she called me "grandma" coquettishly, and I was so flattered. Sometimes Xiaoxiao has to go out to run errands, so I stay at home to help take care of Xiaoyu. Xiaoyu was very sticky to me, I played with her toys and told stories, she was fascinated by listening, and kept asking me for food. I made some snacks for her, and she ate them with relish, and I was happy to watch.
One day, Xiaoqiang suddenly said that he would take the whole family out to travel and relax for a few days. I know that they seem to have been doing better recently, and I think the money I gave has played a role. I was busy saying that you young people should go out to play, so you don't have to take me with you. When Xiaoqiang and Xiaoxiao heard this, they both insisted that I go with them.
"Mom, this is our family vacation, you are part of our family, you must be with us!" Xiaoqiang said.
I saw that the husband and wife were very interested, and it was not easy to refuse, so I agreed with a smile.
And just like that, our family drove out for a week. I had a great time on this week's trip. Xiaoyu was more sticky to me when she arrived in the new environment, and I accompanied her to play in the sand by the sea, and she was so happy. In the evening, our family feasted around the table, and we talked late after dinner. After returning to the hotel, Xiaoyu insisted on sleeping with me, so I had to hold her to sleep. For many days, our family leaned together and laughed, and I felt very happy.
This trip brought our family closer together. When I got home, I became even more involved in the life of the family. I will tell classical stories to Xiaoyu in the yard, help Xiaoxiao take care of the housework, and make some delicacies for Xiaoqiang. The days passed calmly and comfortably.
I know that I left my savings to them was the right decision for my life. This made my old age full of fun for my grandchildren and children. I will work hard to repay them for their retirement and dedicate the rest of my time to this family. At the end of my life, I will also die contentedly without regrets.
I have lived with my son's family for a while, and I see that their lives are much more comfortable. Xiaoqiang has a new car, and Xiaoxiao will also buy some new household appliances. I am relieved to know that these changes are the fruit of my money.
I've lived with them for a long time, and I've become a part of this family. Xiaoxiao and Xiaoyu both affectionately called me grandma, and I told them stories, cooked, and taught them experiences like real grandmothers. Xiaoqiang and Xiaoxiao also respect my opinion and will discuss with me about Xiaoyu's education. I see that this family is becoming more and more united and harmonious, and I have nothing but gratitude in my heart.
In order to repay their family for their kindness, I also participated in household chores as much as I could. I took care of Xiaoyu, taught her to read and write, and told her to be sensible and obedient, and to be filial to her parents in the future. I also often share the task of cooking for Xiaoxiao and teach me all kinds of secret recipes I have accumulated. Xiaoxiao compiled every dish I taught into a recipe and said that she would pass it on to Xiaoyu in the future.
One day, Xiaoxiao and Xiaoqiang said that they would take me to the capital for a few days. I was excited, and although I spent most of my time at home, it was my greatest wish in my later years to go out and see the world. After arriving in the capital, they took me to visit the Forbidden City, visit the parks, and taste authentic food. Everywhere I went, I was fascinated and couldn't help but sigh at how beautiful the world was.
When I got home, I told my children and grandchildren about what I had seen and heard on the trip, and they listened with great interest. I felt like an elder in the family, sharing my life experiences with them, and they listened to me. I know that the purpose of my life is to accompany this family and let them feel the wisdom I have accumulated in life.
I am glad for the choice I made in my old age. I gave everything I had to these filial sons and daughters, and they gave me the utmost care. I will use the last moment of my life to love this home and be grateful for the happiness that God has blessed me with in my old age. I believe that I have become an irreplaceable family member in their hearts.
Walking into Xiaoxiao's home these days, I was touched by the filial piety of my son and daughter-in-law. In addition to taking me to eat, drink, and be merry, I could tell that they kept the best of the house for me.
Xiaoxiao carefully prepares my favorite dishes at every meal, and always says that they are made according to the method I teach, and asks me to taste the effect. I ate it not only tastes good, but also especially nourishes the body. Xiaoxiao also often helps me pinch my waist and legs to relieve my old age pain.
Every week, Xiaoqiang would take time to chat with me, tell me interesting things about his work, and ask me about my physical condition. He also learned to repair electrical appliances and said that he wanted to make my stay more comfortable. I watched my son's hurried but careful appearance, and my heart warmed.
What makes me even happier is Xiaoyu, she calls me grandma affectionately, sticks to me every day to talk and beg for food. I told her classical stories, taught her to read and write, and told her to be sensible and obedient. The way she listened with relish made my old age life colorful.
As the days went by, I was fully integrated into the family and became an integral part of their lives. I also tried my best to repay them, teach everything to Xiaoxiao, care about Xiaoqiang's work, and teach Xiaoyu to grow. Day after day, I feel as happy as if I am in heaven.
Until one day, I suddenly felt that it was difficult to breathe, Xiaoxiao was frightened and hurriedly took me to the hospital. The doctor said that my old problem had recurred and that I needed to be hospitalized. I was lying on the hospital bed, Xiaoqiang and Xiaoxiao took turns guarding me, their eyes full of worry.
I comforted them: "It's time for me to go, old bones, just do your best, don't blame yourself." Mom only hopes that my money and energy can make your mother and son live a better life. ”
"Mom, you'll be fine, we'll cure you!" Xiaoqiang squeezed my hand and said.
When I saw the sad faces of my children, I felt very uncomfortable. Although I am grateful to have lived to be with them for the rest of my life, I don't want to leave my family in fear of death in this way.
When I got home, I asked Xiaoxiao to bring my old photo album and notes. These are memories of half my life, and I want to look back at them slowly, which is important for the continuation of my life.
Looking at the photos of my youth and my wife, I feel as if I have returned to the days when I was newly married. Turning to the picture of the children and babies, I saw their innocent smiles. These images are so imprinted in my mind that I can't leave them.
I also record my feelings in my notebook and tell my stories and life experiences. I want to leave this notebook to my children so that they can understand the journey of a mother. This notebook will become a bond between our hearts and minds, connecting each other forever.
After spending some time like this, I found myself much more energetic. I started to have a desire to eat, and I had some strength in my body. Xiaoqiang and Xiaoxiao were so happy that they couldn't stop talking when they saw that I was showing signs of improvement.
I knew I had to pull myself together because this home still needed me. I want to personally watch Xiaoyu grow up, and I want to guide Xiaoxiao to become a good wife and mother. I still have to wait for Xiaoqiang's career to succeed and be a great parent. I can't just give up halfway, I have to walk the rest of my life with my family.
In the future, I will tell them more of my story and impart more life insights. My body will get better day by day, and then we will go out again to enjoy the mountains and rivers and laugh. At that time, my heart will be calmer and more content than ever. Because I chose to accompany my family through the path of my life, it is a decision I have no regrets.