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My name is Lin Xiao and I am 23 years old. Two years ago, I met Wang Qiang, a boy with integrity, humor and generosity, at a company party. The two of us quickly got along.
Wang Qiang is very handsome, with a height of 178 and a strong physique. He always wears a white shirt and khaki pants and looks very spirited. He goes to the gym every day to work out and is in very good shape. What I like most about his big deep eyes, always full of encouragement and warmth.
We have been dating for almost a year and have a very good relationship. A few days ago, Wang Qiang proposed: "Baby, why don't we go back to my hometown and meet my parents? They keep urging me to take you back to see it." ”
I was a little nervous and said, "Really, isn't it too early?"
Wang Qiang touched my head and said, "Don't worry baby, my parents are very good and will definitely like you!"
I hesitated for a moment and said, "Okay, I just want to meet your parents too." But where do we live, and are we going to cause trouble for your family?"
Wang Qiang smiled and said: "Our family has bought a new house, it is very big, and there are many empty rooms! I will call my mother and say that we will go over tomorrow!"
Wang Qiang ran over happily and said, "Mom and Dad, you are here! This is my girlfriend Lin Xiao, let's meet officially!"
Wang Qiang's mother warmly took my hand and said, "Oh, Xiaolin is so beautiful! It's much better than in the photo! Get in the car and sit down!"
Wang Qiang's father also smiled and said: "Wang Qiang, you have found such a beautiful little girl, you really have eyesight!
I blushed and said shyly, "Hello uncle and aunt, please take care of me when we meet for the first time." ”
Wang Qiang's parents drove us back to their home. I was surprised to find that the family lived in a beautiful villa on the outskirts of the city with a large garden in front of it.
Wang Qiang put his arm around my shoulders and said, "Baby, do you like it here? This is a new house I bought last year!" I nodded and said, "It's beautiful!
As soon as the car stopped, Wang Qiang's mother hurriedly said, "Xiaolin come with me and arrange a room for you!" After saying that, he dragged me to the second floor. Wang Qiang and I looked at each other, he scratched his head and said, "Mom may be a little overzealous, haha." ”
"You and Wang Qiang, of course I arranged for you to live together!" Wang Qiang's mother seems to have planned it a long time ago.
Seeing that the situation was irreparable, I had to smile awkwardly: "Auntie, then I have to thank you." Let's live together. ”
I thought about it for a moment and said, "It's okay, your parents' intentions are good anyway." We've been dating for so long, it's time to deepen our understanding and trust. ”
"Try this crispy chicken gizzard, it's my specialty! Wang Qiang's mother greeted me courteously while picking up vegetables.
"Thank you, Auntie!" I hurriedly tasted it, "Hey, it's really delicious! It's just like Wang Qiang said, Auntie's craftsmanship is so good!"
"That's right, my food is famous in our hometown!" Wang Qiang's mother said proudly, "In the future, when you marry Wang Qiang, there will be delicious food every day!"
I was startled by the word "marry" and blushed like a tomato. Wang Qiang stomped on me under the table and whispered, "Mom, don't talk nonsense!"
After breakfast, Wang Qiang's father asked Wang Qiang to take me out for a walk to get acquainted with the environment. I got into Wang Qiang's battery car and walked around his waist on the country road.
"Baby, what do you think of my hometown?" Wang Qiang turned around and asked me.
"The air is so good, and the scenery is beautiful! Do you go back to your hometown every year for the Chinese New Year?" I asked.
"Yes, I also have two older sisters and one brother, and our family will go back to their hometown for reunion every Spring Festival. Wang Qiang said.
I looked at Wang Qiang in amazement, he actually proposed to me at this time!
"Baby, the time I've spent with you for more than a year has been the happiest day of my life. Now I really, really like you, so I want to marry you and be with you for the rest of my life. Will you marry me?" Wang Qiang looked into my eyes sincerely, opened the velvet box, and there was a golden diamond ring lying inside.
Wang Qiang was a little disappointed, but still said gently: "It's okay baby, I understand that you need time." But I really, really like you, so I couldn't help but propose to you. You think about it slowly, you don't have to give me an answer. ”
I looked at his sparkling eyes, and I couldn't help but soften: "Wang Qiang, you are really good, and I like you very much." I think it's okay for us to get married, but it's too rushed. Why don't you put it on for me first, and then we'll go home and talk to your parents?"
"Okay!" Wang Qiang was very happy, and without saying a word, he put the diamond ring on me, and then hugged me tightly.
I went to bed at night and was still horrified by this unexpected proposal. Sharing a bed with Wang Qiang made my heart beat faster. After the lights went out, Wang Qiang gently leaned over and wanted to kiss me, but I hurriedly stopped: "Wang Qiang, what are you doing! Your parents are in the next room!"
Wang Qiang laughed twice, telling me not to be nervous. He promised to just give me a little bit of water and nothing else. I thought about it and agreed to let him kiss it, after all, she is now a "fiancée".
Wang Qiang said with a hippie smile: "Baby, they are all engaged, isn't this normal?" I glared at him solemnly, "I haven't officially promised you yet! Not yet!" Wang Qiang was honest at this time.
Wang Qiang and I both blushed. Wang Qiang awkwardly explained that we were just engaged. His parents were very happy, and thought that we were too good to match, and they didn't agree with the idea of us developing slowly.
"If there is anything to develop slowly, young people should actively strive for the life they want!" Wang Qiang's mother said solemnly. She insisted that we should strike while the iron was hot and go through the marriage formalities as soon as possible!
Wang Qiang and I looked at each other. Our future seems to be completely dominated by Wang Qiang's parents, and we have lost the right to choose.
That night, Wang Qiang cautiously asked me, "Baby, do you really want to marry me?" I'm afraid that my parents' enthusiasm will scare you. ”
Wang Qiang was a little sad. He listened quietly to me, and then said, "It's okay baby, I understand how you feel." We're not in a hurry, okay?"
I nodded and said, "Thank you Wang Qiang, in fact, I still like you a lot." It's just that I want to live a normal love process. Wang Qiang smiled and hugged me, saying that he would make me happy in the future. In the next few days, Wang Qiang and his family and I spent some quality time in our hometown. During the day, we would go around and I made a few friends of Wang Qiang. In the evenings, we would sit in the courtyard as a family and chat, and Wang Qiang's parents would talk about his troubles when he was a child, which made me giggle and laugh.
However, just last night, Wang Qiang once again did something to me in the room. He climbed into my bed in the middle of the night and hugged me in his arms to make love. I woke up and pushed him away in annoyance: "Wang Qiang! You come again! I'll tell you not to do this!"
Wang Qiang was a little puzzled: "Baby, we are all engaged, isn't this a normal demand of mine?"
I sat up and said to him very solemnly, "Just because you are engaged, can you do whatever you want? If you pestered me like this again, then we can only break up!"
My words seemed to shock Wang Qiang, and he sat on the edge of the bed in a daze, at a loss. After a while, he said aggrievedly, "Baby, are you saying it's true that you broke up? What about our engagement? I'll correct it, really!"
Seeing that he looked like he was about to cry, I felt very uncomfortable. I've really liked him these days, and I've been angry for a while. So I said softly: "Wang Qiang, I didn't say that I really broke up. I hope you'll respect me, let's take our time, don't be impatient, okay?"
Wang Qiang nodded hurriedly and promised me that he would never be reckless next time. I saw that he seemed to be very frightened, so I stepped forward and hugged him and comforted him. Wang Qiang hugged me tightly as relieved, grateful that I didn't give up on him.
At noon that day, Xiao Li, a friend of Wang Qiang, invited us to his home. Xiao Li's family was warmly entertained and let us drink a lot of liquor. I was slightly drunk and a little unsteady on my feet, so Wang Qiang helped me upstairs to rest.
Wang Qiang told me to lie on the bed and then pour the water myself. Unexpectedly, he took the opportunity to lock the door and then took me into his arms!
I exclaimed, "What are you doing! Wang Qiang hugged me tightly, and deliberately kissed my neck and collarbone!
I struggled hard while solemnly warning Wang Qiang: "You must let me go immediately!
I left Xiao Li's house in a rage, and Wang Qiang chased after me and wanted to apologize to me. I ignored him and called a taxi back to his house. Wang Qiang's mother looked at me with an ugly face and asked me several times with concern if I had quarreled with Wang Qiang. I didn't explain, I went straight to my room to rest.
An hour later, Wang Qiang also returned home. He stood at the bedroom door and looked at me, saying sorry incessantly. I glared at him coldly and ordered him to go to the guest room and sleep in the room. Wang Qiang hung his head like a puppy who had done something wrong, hugged the pillow and left.
"I thought that Wang Qiang was a careful and considerate person, but my actions in the past few days made me realize that our personalities may not be very compatible. So I don't want to force it, and the marriage is stopped. "I calmly expressed my attitude.
Wang Qiang's parents were dumbfounded. His mother was busy trying to persuade us to start a family. I resolutely said that I had thought about it clearly and was going to break up with Wang Qiang and return to the market. Wang Qiang burst into tears as he listened, and kept begging me to forgive him, but my heart was like water.
That evening, I walked around town alone. Suddenly, a van slowly followed behind me, and several delinquent teenagers got out of the car and surrounded me and started to heckle. I was terrified, and at this time, Wang Qiang appeared in front of me to block those people and drove them away violently.
I looked at Wang Qiang's back, and I had mixed feelings in my heart. I knew he really cared about me, but I still couldn't forgive him for his repeated offenses. We're destined to end here.
In the middle of the night, I was suddenly woken up by a loud noise. When I walked to the door, it turned out that Wang Qiang drove the car into his garden after getting drunk, causing several trees to be broken by him. His parents were worried about finding someone to fix the garden.
I called a car to the station, and Wang Qiang chased after him and wanted to keep him. In desperation, I had to sternly warn him to call the police if he didn't let go. Only then did Wang Qiang let go of me with tears streaming down his face. I took one last look at him, turned and got in the car and left. When I got back to the city, I tried to immerse myself in my work and try to forget about it. But I find that I always inadvertently think of Wang Qiang, as well as the bits and pieces of our hometown. It seems that this relationship has had a great impact on me, and it is really not easy to forget.
And so another month passed, and one day after the company party, I walked slowly and leisurely on the hazy streets at night. Under the dim street lamp on the side of the street, I saw a man sitting alone on a bench, still playing with a lighter in his hand. Take a closer look, it's actually Wang Qiang!
I can't bear to look at him like this. Maybe we should give him a chance to start over? So I sat down next to Wang Qiang and asked him with concern how the month had been.
My heart softened and I nodded. Wang Qiang was very happy, took my hand and said that he would treat me well and respect me in the future. He said he had already bought a house in the city and was going to chase me to move in with him.
I thought about it, but I still agreed to try again with Wang Qiang. After all, no one is a saint or a sage, and I am not a perfect girlfriend. Since Wang Qiang is truly repentant, I will give him a chance generously.
So at Wang Qiang's request, I agreed to live with him. The first days of living together were a bit awkward, and we were all trying to readjust. Wang Qiang obviously suffers from gains and losses, for fear of making me angry again. He does all the housework, spoils and lets me go, and I am generously held in the palm of his hand.
As the days went by, Wang Qiang slowly let go. He would tease me, and sometimes he would deliberately coquettish and beg for kisses and hugs. I saw that he had regained his former liveliness and cheerfulness, so I let him go. Gradually, he regained his former self-confidence.
Just a few days ago, Wang Qiang drank too much and tried to do something to me. I hurried to stop him and warned him that he was not allowed to come around while drunk. Wang Qiang was honest at this time, took my hand and repeatedly promised that he would control himself in the future.
I felt a faint sense of unease in my heart. Our short cohabitation has proved that perhaps Wang Qiang's old problems are difficult to correct. Once he gets drunk, he loses his mind and control. This makes me suspect that this relationship is not destined to last.