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Coco Li just left, and Zhou Haimei also left, what is behind this sadness?

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Coco Li just left, and Zhou Haimei also left, what is behind this sadness?

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Beijing female artist Zhou Haimei unfortunately passed away on the evening of December 12.

Just the morning before, the assistant came to the residence to look for Zhou Haimei, and unexpectedly found Zhou Haimei fainting on the ground.

So she was urgently sent to the hospital for rescue, but she didn't expect it to be late, and Zhou Haimei was already unconscious at that time.

No matter how good the medical skills are, they can't return to heaven.

Family, showbiz friends, fans and others all wish her a good journey. Her ex-husband Lu Liangwei posted a message of condolences and affectionately called her seafood.

Zhou Haimei's life can be described as frustrated in love and successful in her career.

01, Zhou's father refused to marry, and he was happy with his daughter Zhou Haimei

If Zhou Haimei's father obeyed the family arrangement and married a Manchu girl, there would be no later Zhou Haimei.

Zhou's father was originally from Guangdong and was a Manchu.

At that time, the family set a family affair for Zhou's father, but when he saw the woman's appearance, there was a big gap in his heart and he secretly ran away from home.

Later, when they came to Hong Kong, they met Zhou Haimei's mother, got married, and only in 1966 did they have their second daughter Zhou Haimei.

Because her parents were busy and her mother was pregnant with her third child, Zhou Haimei was sent to her grandparents' house since she was a child.

My grandfather's family lived on an island and lived in a stone-built house.

When it rains, the rainwater flows down the eaves to form a water column, as if a water curtain is hung on the house, but Zhou Haimei when she was a child was playing under the water column.

Zhou Haimei went out with a group of boys every day, such as picking up sea mussels, running and chasing like crazy, and even playing football.

Sometimes other children's parents would go to Zhou Haimei's grandparents to complain, saying that Zhou Haimei had beaten someone.

Coco Li just left, and Zhou Haimei also left, what is behind this sadness?

Zhou Haimei in her childhood was carefree, mischievous, and free-spirited.

So Zhou Haimei thinks that she can grow to 170 cm because she grew up by the sea when she was a child, and she can often eat seafood, fish and shrimp.

Later, when she was old enough to go to school, Zhou Haimei was taken to her parents.

Zhou's father loves to read, and he is also very strict with Zhou Haimei's education, requiring her grades to be among the best and going home within the specified time at night.

Zhou Haimei's diet quietly changed, and she slowly began to like pasta, which is a proper northerner.

Although Zhou Haimei looks beautiful and feminine on the outside, she is like a boy, likes to play basketball, and jumps around all day long.

When she was 18 years old, in order to let Zhou Haimei learn to be a lady, Zhou's father signed her up for the Miss Hong Kong beauty pageant.

And Zhou Haimei just took it as a joke and didn't take it seriously, but she was unexpectedly shortlisted, and she also deliberately permed a curly hair, which looked more mature.

However, Zhou Haimei was still reluctant to participate in the finals, so she simply sang the opposite, and finally stopped at 15th.

02, Zhou Haimei didn't cook breakfast, which led to the breakdown of the marriage

Zhou Haimei didn't expect that she would be admitted to the art cultivation class.

Don't look at her usual popularity, when she came to the art training class, when she was filming "Yang Jiajiang" with big stars Chow Yun-fat, Andy Lau and others, she was a little restrained, didn't dare to speak, and sat next to her and pretended to read.

At first, Zhou Haimei acted by feeling, but after a long time, she found that she felt unreliable, and began to consciously ask her seniors for teaching and Xi, watching how others performed, and even frantically chasing movies in the cinema, and watching it was a whole day.

Maybe it's because the kung fu is in place, about a year later, Zhou Haimei began to play the female number one. For example, Zhou Zhiruo in "Heaven and Dragon Slayer".

She met Lu Liangwei, who was ten years older than her, because of the filming of "Island Fengyun". As soon as the two met, they were heart-pounding, and soon they were together.

Two years later, Zhou Haimei and Lu Liangwei went to Las Vegas in the United States to play, and heard from the locals that as long as they spent $35, they could quickly register for marriage. So Lu Liangwei knelt down on one knee in front of everyone and proposed to Zhou Haimei.

Originally, Zhou Haimei intended to marry him, so she agreed without even thinking about it.

The two of them fantasize about a sweet future in the future, but the imagination is beautiful, and the reality is very fragmentary.

Coco Li just left, and Zhou Haimei also left, what is behind this sadness?

Life after marriage is no longer a two-person world. Both are too busy with work to take care of their families.

Later, Lu Liangwei's father fell ill, and Lu Liangwei hoped that Zhou Haimei could return to the family to take care of his father. However, Zhou Haimei's career is on the rise, and she is unwilling to give up like that.

The two communicated many times for this and had a conflict. However, at Zhou Haimei's insistence, Lu Liangwei and his father slowly understood and accepted her decision.

That's it.

Perhaps here in Zhou Haimei, married life is the end of love.

Soon, the two quarreled again because of making breakfast, and Lu Liangwei thought that women should take care of their families and take care of the whole family to eat. But Zhou Haimei is unwilling to be bound by such a life.

In the end, the two parted ways and chose to divorce.

However, Lu Liangwei talked about the divorce of the two people in the talk show because a third party intervened, and finally broke up unhappily.

And that third person is Dawn.

Later, Zhou Haimei was also rumored to have experienced several relationships many times, and finally broke up, because she didn't want to get married and have children, and was bound by her family.

After experiencing the ups and downs of love and marriage, Zhou Haimei slowly got used to being Xi a person, and she focused on work and life.

Coco Li just left, and Zhou Haimei also left, what is behind this sadness?

03, Zhou Haimei was busy with work, and her boyfriend in Beijing left quietly

In 2002, Zhou Haimei met a boy who was seven years younger than herself, so she decided to leave Hong Kong and go to Beijing to live with her boyfriend.

Zhou Haimei's family did not agree that Zhou Haimei was alone outside, worried that she would have no one to take care of her if she was sick.

But Zhou Haimei has made up her mind, no matter how her family persuades, she came to Beijing without hesitation.

In order to live a better life, Zhou Haimei bought a house, which can raise flowers and vegetables in her spare time, and she also raised a few cute dogs, usually taking the dog for a walk, such a comfortable and relaxing life.

thought that this time Zhou Haimei finally found the other half of her life and was able to get married and have children, but she didn't expect it to be another ending.

Coco Li just left, and Zhou Haimei also left, what is behind this sadness?

Her boyfriend is an architect, and the two met in a bar through a friend's introduction, and because of a warm gesture from her boyfriend, she decided to stay with him.

At that time, Zhou Haimei was so crowded that she couldn't stand still, and her boyfriend subconsciously supported her.

In fact, my boyfriend's appearance is not outstanding, but he is still very good.

My boyfriend's home is simply furnished, there is no TV series, and he never cooks. Zhou Haimei put her heart into making their lives enjoyable, Zhou Haimei often snuggled in her boyfriend's arms, listened to the same song together, discussed what dinner to eat together, and so on.

In the depths of love, her boyfriend proposed to Zhou Haimei, and she postponed her marriage for the first time with work.

Coco Li just left, and Zhou Haimei also left, what is behind this sadness?

The boyfriend was also patient, waited for her, and later proposed to her many times, she couldn't use her work anymore to play sloppy, and finally told the truth, she thought she couldn't be a housewife.

When her boyfriend heard this, all kinds of beautiful pictures of the past came to mind, but 13 years of companionship couldn't touch her heart at all, he didn't say anything anymore, left sadly, and never came back.

In this way, Zhou Haimei's last relationship ended.

However, Zhou Haimei was not too sad, she felt that the two of them must have a marriage certificate to prove that they are together.

It is said that Zhou Haimei was able to detect low platelets in her body earlier, and once she broke the skin, it was easy to bleed.

Even so, Zhou Haimei is still optimistic about life and often shares pictures of herself cooking food.

Moreover, not long ago, she celebrated her 57th birthday, and her face was still sunny, but she really didn't expect that the world was impermanent, and she finally died because of platelets.

Coco Li just left, and Zhou Haimei also left, what is behind this sadness?

Zhou Haimei had ups and downs in her life, and she had constant setbacks, but she finally became herself.

Every life has its own unique way of being, and the best thing Zhou Haimei can do is to love herself.

Zhou Haimei went round and round in her life, and she continued to fall in love, but in the end, she grew old alone.

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