Recently, because the child's education has been very internal, I am afraid that she will not dare to express it in school, worry about whether she will be bullied, etc., and often think, what is the child's sense of security?
A few days ago, a father's answer was praised a lot, and my first thought at that time was, if I were a child, I would be able to listen to it...
As long as I take care of it, if I can't solve it, my parents can help me solve it...
Many netizens said: The most powerful thing about the father in the picture is that he taught his children through two things, distinguish the malice of others, objectively distinguish the right and wrong of their own behavior, don't be coerced by the wrong things, you don't have to do what others do, you can talk to parents about anything if you have a good parent-child relationship, let the child think about the solution independently in advance, right and wrong are not equal to human feelings, there is more than one way to solve the problem, the right way to get angry, how to prove the right way to prove yourself, and scare people elegantly.
Some netizens also think: This article only sees a person who constantly "teaches" the child and outputs it to the child - you are right, how should you "teach/retaliate" to the teacher to make him realize that he is wrong; The best policy should be for parents to communicate with the teacher to understand the whole picture of the incident before thinking about how to guide the child positively.
When dealing with problems, children's ideas are often more simple and direct.
Personally, I think this father's approach is quite desirable, and in the handling of something, the child's ideas may not be mature enough, but they are simple and direct. Affirm him first, then point out that it is the next policy, and then throw out the middle policy and the best policy! The middle policy is a practical and feasible way, and the best policy is a more ideal way! Let the child choose for himself!