The reversal of the word-of-mouth of sister and brother love, starting from the collapse of her "personality"?
Text | Sister Yi (Zhou Guiyi) Xiaoxing
With the hit of "Flowers and Youth Silk Road Season", the name "Electronic Music Dora" has become popular, even people who have not watched the show have probably heard of it.
"Electric Dora", that's right, is our former Queen of White Moonlight, Qin Lan.
The same style as Dora with big eyes and short hair;
The broken voice has never been an obstacle to her expression, and her dumb voice is like being plugged in.
Through this variety show, everyone unexpectedly discovered: The cold and gentle ladies of Jiangnan Water Town are probably our biggest misunderstanding of Qin Lan.
The real her, down-to-earth, can play and make trouble, can talk and be funny.
I love to catch up with the big set, I prepared a set of clothes for myself a day when I participated in the show, and my suitcase was stuffed, and I didn't forget to bring the bag that I had to carry separately to catch the big set.
When others ask for Arabic advice, she only cares about one question: how to talk about bargaining?
The first thing I said about the translation software was: Can this radish be cheaper?
She's not really paying lip service.
Everyone went to the concert and saw that luminous glasses were sold outside, and she immediately applied what she learned and began to bargain, but the boss directly gave them all for free.
She expresses her thoughts, rarely serious, full of easy stalks and jokes.
I couldn't open the box to ask my brother for help, and she was not idle next to her, and kept emphasizing the importance of the box: "This is not just a box, but all my characters." ”
Xin Zhilei praised her for being "wise and foolish", but as a result, Qin Lan said: "I'm just a fool." ”
Xin Zhilei joked: "Which of you is a crow's mouth?"
Qin Lan retorted in a hoarse voice: "Who is a crow, I am a lark!" It amused everyone.
Unexpectedly, Qin Lan's "personality" collapsed, and he changed from a water town in the south of the Yangtze River to a granary in the northeast, and became a source of happiness for many people.
Not only that, the scandalous relationship between Qin Lan and Wei Daxun also caught off guard and ushered in a "word-of-mouth" counterattack.
Since the gossip media released the video of the two holding hands and traveling together in Sanya, later, Qin Lan was asked about her relationship status on the show, and she smiled calmly: "It's just that everyone sees my state, take your time." ”
The sister-brother relationship between 44-year-old Qin Lan and 34-year-old Wei Daxun has been boiling and is not favored.
"What is the magic of Wei Daxun" was once on the hot list by netizens overnight.
Many people thought Qin Lan was not worthy, and at the same time, some people ridiculed Qin Lan for being old.
But now, more and more people are saying: I finally understand why Wei Daxun likes Qin Lan.
Such a change is not without reason, after all, in addition to being funny, Qin Lan in the show is also an important "emotional value" in the team, and has contributed a lot of life sentences.
At the beginning of the show, the hotel that the program team found was much better than the younger brothers Hu Xianxu and Wang Anyu who served as tour guides, and the two younger brothers were very worried.
Qin Lan dissolved it in one sentence - the experience of staying in a good hotel is actually not lacking in everyone, what is lacking is the experience of playing together.
In order to alleviate my brother's anxiety, I also invited everyone to look at the house with my brother.
In the subsequent journey, as long as she saw a little good, she always praised it without hesitation: "Very good" and "Very good", giving her brother confidence and encouragement.
In getting along with everyone, Qin Lan focuses on being considerate and easy-going.
In order not to affect Qin Hailu's rest, she offered to not take a bath, and borrowed the bathroom to repeatedly confirm that she would not disturb the other party.
When there were some situations between the team members because of different opinions, and the atmosphere was a little low, Qin Lan immediately stood up to answer the call, saying that it was a good thing that there were contradictions: "If you don't rub or contradict, how do you know where the bottom line is." ”
The budget for the Croatian station was too tight, and Di Lieba, who was also a tour guide, did not return to the team, Qin Lan adhered to the principle of "saving money" on the first day, and everyone had a little fun.
Qin Hailu bluntly pointed out that Qin Lan was not unhappy or had internal friction, but actively communicated and reflected in a timely manner.
So, Qin Lan proposed to let everyone go to the mountaintop restaurant that exceeded the budget and have a good meal.
When you come to the restaurant, you see all kinds of hesitation about the amount on the menu.
She stood up again and encouraged everyone all the time.
Let's just say, who doesn't love such a light, transparent, peaceful and stable, humorous and cute sister?!
This also makes everyone curious, how is "Electric Dora" made?
In 2018, she became the most popular existence in "Yanxi Raiders" with Fucha Rongyin, who did not have many scenes. In addition to the fact that the queen is the clear stream in the palace fighting drama, to a large extent, it is also because many people think that Qin Lan has played Rong Yin, and it seems that she herself is Rong Yin's own sound.
Gentle and generous, kind and self-controlled, not fighting or grabbing.
Yes, but not exactly.
The current Qin Lan is like warm water, clear and relaxed.
As a female star, there is not even age anxiety.
A few years ago, a colleague around her reminded her: "Don't always tell others, you are in your thirties." ”
She didn't care: "So what's the matter? I'm in my thirties, and everybody has to go through this stage, and I don't think it's a problem. ”
But in fact, Qin Lan when she was young was not relaxed.
In order to prove herself, she desperately took the script, and at that time, she liked characters with distinct personalities like Zhihua and Luping, and it was easy to attract attention.
At that time, she was also very lucky, she won the favor of Qiong Yao as soon as she entered the industry, and won "Huanzhu Gege 3" and "See a Dream Again", Qiong Yao praised her: "Qin Lan A tear, a star in the sky." ”
And behind this luck, she also did her best.
kept picking up the script, had to switch between the two crews, and could only squeeze in time to eat and sleep.
When she was busiest, she had to trot to go to the toilet, at most, she filmed more than 150 episodes a year, and when she was most tired, she had severe allergies, her face was full of acne, and her acne was rotten, and her face couldn't face the camera for a while.
Once because the work was too full and the intensity was too great, Qin Lan had no life of her own at all.
It wasn't until she woke up that she chose to stop.
And this "wake-up" is that one day she suddenly found that her daily memory was only "makeup and makeup remover", and nothing else.
As a result, Qin Lan began to put forward restrictions on her work, hoping that she could slow down.
The price of this choice is that fewer and fewer people come to her for filming. There is no way, there are gains and losses in life.
Slowly, she couldn't receive the heroine's play, so she could only play the second and third women.
Everyone is constantly making trade-offs and constantly finding a comfortable position in the ups and downs of the years.
Qin Lan said very bluntly that if she met Fucha Rongyin in her twenties, she might have given up directly, just like the reaction of the staff around her when she received the script of "Yanxi Raiders".
Because this role is too flat, there is no relaxation, and there is too little room to play.
However, in the eyes of Qin Lan, who is in her thirties, she thinks it is very good.
"I think it's quite difficult to express the queen's dignity well, and it is a challenge for me to be able to play a dull role with brilliance in performance.
Queen Fucha She has always been peaceful, and all expressions seek a stable word. ”
Rongyin made her popular again.
She was pleasantly surprised, she didn't expect that her middle-aged self would suddenly be liked by so many people, but at the same time, she was also very calm.
Because the "red" rivers have been read, there can be "red" light boats that have passed.
It is a relief that comes slowly after walking step by step.
has been depressed in filming, and has filmed more than 50 scenes, but has been denied, and finally even she began to question herself.
Red, blackened, fell to the bottom, and became popular again, after experiencing ups and downs, she found her own rhythm, and she was the one who could make the electronic music Dora.
This is especially true of love.
44-year-old unmarried and single, she doesn't care, she will take the stars in her eyes, and generously say: "Love is always the thing I look forward to the most." ”
In front of the camera, he can also confidently say: "I have the ability to love and be loved." ”
It doesn't mean that she was born so relaxed, such a Qin Lan was also desperate for her feelings, and even posted it upside down.
Back then, Qin Lan signed a contract with a brokerage company: no love was allowed during the signing period.
However, in 2004, Huang Xiaoming had a car accident, and Qin Lan, as his girlfriend, ignored the persuasion of her agent after learning about the incident, immediately put down her job, rushed to her boyfriend's side to take care of her day and night, and was willing to pay 10 million liquidated damages.
Later, the relationship with Lu Chuan was the same, pouring out his heart and lungs, and almost giving everything he had.
During the filming of "Nanjing!Nanjing!", the capital chain broke halfway, and Qin Lan used her savings to support her boyfriend Lu Chuan. participated in his movie with "zero salary", and because of schedule problems, she paid hundreds of thousands of liquidated damages to another crew out of her own pocket.
remembers that in "Very Quiet Distance", Qin Lan mentioned a relationship with Lu Chuan.
On Valentine's Day, Lu Chuan bought flowers for Qin Lan and asked the driver to hand them over. A week later, the driver quietly came to Qin Lan again, "Director Hua'er hasn't given me any money yet." ”
So, she paid the driver for the money.
When the two of them were together, Qin Lan was basically in charge of their lives, taking care of Lu Chuan.
For Qin Lan's dedication, Lu Chuan publicly expressed his emotion and gratitude.
And then what?
During the relationship between the two, Lu Chuan reported lace news more than once.
At that time, Qin Lan was silent until she broke up, and only said: There is no third party, and feelings are a matter of two people.
Many years later, talking about her predecessor, Qin Lan said that she had met a scumbag.
"I relented easily and thought about giving up many times. But what he has repeatedly done, trying to redeem himself, he feels that it is over. ”
This is Qin Lan in the past, who once paid stupidly in his relationship, and spent one after another four years, but after all, he paid wrongly.
It is in this pain again and again that Qin Lan has transformed little by little, and the self-consistency and relaxation in her body are the acceptance of reality and the acceptance of herself at the moment.
In the relationship, she no longer pursues a result, nor is she as difficult for herself as she used to be, but respects her feelings more.
More than one person once proposed to her, but Qin Lan refused.
"Not prepared, didn't want to get married for the sake of getting married. ”
Honest with herself, no longer desperate for desire, she is more and more stretched and natural.
When she was in her 30s, she once went on New Year's Eve with a colleague.
A colleague said that Sister Lan didn't seem to have changed.
She said while picking up vegetables: "Why hasn't it changed, I just haven't matured yet, but I'm old." ”
What I understand as "immature mind" is not naïve, but knowing the world but not being sophisticated, sticking to innocence, leaving it to oneself and nourishing oneself.
In "Flowers and Boys", Qin Lan heard that the things in the refrigerator were free, and immediately smiled excitedly and stomped her feet, "Can we show off our cooking skills?"
Xin Zhilei asked: What will you do?
She grinned: Nothing.
When she learned that she would be the next tour guide, and her partner Reba was not there, she immediately panicked, perfectly interpreting what it means to be an emoji in three seconds.
shouted: "But what's the matter, will you still help me? You have to help me, and I will help you in the future, can you help me?" ”
Qin Lan's vocal cords were damaged and could not be recovered. In the show, she said that she was actually quite depressed and sad.
One second was still in the mood, and the next second the electronic voice Dora continued to go online: "I'm here, don't speak, you just look at me with big eyes and small eyes, I have to communicate, I have to participate." ”
No matter what the outside world says, she still has the ability to "treat herself as a child".
As for love, if there are no children to raise together, it is supposed to wait for the flowers to bloom, and also enjoy the flowers, different scenery, and everything.
Qin Lan wanted those moments, just the innocence that the young man gave.
is also a sister-brother relationship, Jin Sha and her 19-year-old boyfriend feel a little more uncomfortable, because in this relationship, what she wants is never love, but a kind of control, "Love is the one that smart people play with a little silly."
Qin Lan and Wei Daxun promoted the TV series "All About Dr. Tang", and the two sat together talking and laughing, which was very comfortable and natural.
She may just want a piece of scenery, because she knows very well that the age of the result has passed, and now is the season to admire.
A reader once left a message at the end of my article, and there were some things I liked very much.
It is used to conclude this article.
Destiny is to play the right role at the right time and finally fulfill yourself. So on the road of "me", in fact, there is no detour, and it is not me who is one step less.
So, don't worry, don't worry, because we will end up being the most appropriate "me".