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Recently, Xiao S updated his social dynamics and posted a Thanksgiving dinner prepared by her husband Xu Yajun for herself on social platforms.
In the accompanying picture, Xiao S's face is filled with a happy smile.
However, it was this dynamic that sparked heated discussions among netizens, just because some time ago, Xiao S's husband Xu Yajun was also exposed to the news of a young model at the night party.
In this regard, many netizens ridiculed that the big meal prepared by Xiao S's husband for Xiao S was not eaten with the hot girls in the nightclub, and he didn't want to waste it, so he packed it back!
Of course, there are also attentive netizens who found that the dipping dish is a packing box, so some people speculate that this is Xiao S's own takeaway, and he is directing and acting to show his affection.
In the discussion of netizens, Xiao S was quickly pushed to the center of public opinion, and even appeared on the hot search list of online platforms.
So, everyone is curious, what kind of charm does Xu Yajun have, which can make Xiao S, who has always been strong in the show, so humble!
So almost overnight, Xu Yajun was stripped of his "bottoms".
After this careful scrutiny, everyone was disappointed in Xu Yajun, after all, in addition to his appearance and barely being able to handle it, he really couldn't find any obvious advantages on his body, so forget it, he still grabbed a lot of black material on his body!
However, he also used the 18 years he and Xiao S have been married to prove that Xiao S is indeed a woman with an unusual "pattern"!
Originally, everyone thought that Xu Yajun, who could make Xiao S swallow his anger so much, must be a noble son from a top wealthy family.
However, after careful scrutiny, everyone found out that Xu Yajun's family is at most a middle-class family with a bit of social status, and if it has to be said to be a wealthy family, it is just a small wealthy family that does not enter the stream.
It is reported that Xu Yajun's mother, named Huang Xiuzhen, is a lawyer, and because of her strong professional ability, she has helped many Taiwanese magnates and fought lawsuits.
His father's name is Huang Qingxiang, a pediatrician, because he usually likes to play stocks and has a unique vision, therefore, by trading stocks, Huang Qingxiang has accumulated a net worth of billions for himself.
Because of this, Huang Qingxiang was once called "Taiwan's version of Buffett" by many people in Taiwan.
Because of his wealthy family, Xu Yajun has lived a life of stretching out his hands with clothes and opening his mouth with food since he was a child, and he has never made trouble because of money.
At that time, Xu Yajun's brothers and sisters were all scholars, so under the influence of his brothers and sisters, although Xu Yajun loved to play, he did not leave behind his studies.
It is precisely because of this that Xu Yajun was later admitted to the architecture department of the prestigious Columbia University with excellent results.
However, although Xu Yajun is not a noble son of a top wealthy family, his family background is also quite good, and he graduated from a prestigious school.
Xiao S was born in a patriarchal family, and Xiao S's father likes to gamble and linger in the flowers, and is away from home all day.
finally returned home, and often committed domestic violence against his wife and daughter, so the existence of Xiao S's father is not good for the family, only bad.
Later, Xiao S's mother finally couldn't bear it anymore and divorced Xiao S's father.
After that, Xiao S and his two sisters lived with their mother.
This is also the reason why Xiao S was lively and cheerful on the surface, but he was extremely inferior and lacked love in his heart, but this is all for later.
After the divorce of her parents, her mother has been very busy because she has to support the family, and the eldest sister has a more introverted personality, so Xiao S became the follower of her sister Da S.
After that, Xiao S followed Da S all the way to Huagang Art High School, a secondary school, and after graduation, he entered the entertainment industry with Da S.
Back then, not long after Xiao S entered the entertainment industry, she had a cheerful and lively personality, and quickly attracted Huang Zijiao, who was 5 or 6 years older than her.
At that time, Xiao S also admired Huang Zijiao's maturity and stability, so the two quickly walked together.
For a while, the two even broke the news that they were going to get married, and Xiao S also showed his love for Huang Zijiao in front of the media more than once, saying that he hoped to become Mrs. Huang.
It's a pity that Xiao S waited for 4 years, but he couldn't wait for Huang Zijiao's marriage proposal, and that's it, and later Huang Zijiao and Zeng Zhiwei's daughter Zeng Baoyi sparked a spark of love.
As a result, the relationship between Xiao S and Huang Zijiao ended like this.
After that, Xiao S had scandals with Taiwanese professional singer Huang Licheng, Chinese-American Eric, program partner Lin Youwei and others, but these scandals were just short-lived.
It wasn't until under Wu Peici's introduction that Xiao S met Xu Yajun, and Xiao S fell in love at first sight with Xu Yajun, who seemed gentle and elegant at that time.
Coupled with Wu Peici's matchmaking, the two quickly walked together.
However, at that time, many people felt that the two were not a good match, just because Xu Yajun was a high-achieving student from a prestigious school with a wealthy family at that time, and Xiao S was just a secondary school student with an ordinary family.
Perhaps Xiao S was also aware of this at that time, therefore, because of her original family, she was already very inferior in her heart, and she became more and more inferior, so Xiao S was very insecure about this relationship.
So, after the two fell in love, Xiao S would stick to Xu Yajun whenever he had time, and there were even photos taken by the media that Xiao S often "hung" on Xu Yajun after falling in love with Xu Yajun.
Not only that, in order to make Xu Yajun happy, Xiao S often wears revealing clothes and goes to nightclubs with Xu Yajun.
And because Xiao S's "technique" of chasing backwards is very rough, Xu Yajun's friends basically don't have a good impression of Xiao S.
Of course, Xiao S's efforts in the relationship with Xu Yajun are not only these, in order to be worthy of Xu Yajun, Xiao S is also working harder at work.
In order to be popular, Xiao S began to frequently participate in various variety shows, and in the show, Xiao S became more and more uninhibited, without taboos, and even often told some colored jokes to attract attention.
However, I have to say that Xiao S's approach is really good, and soon Xiao S became the hot host sister in Taiwan, and her career in the entertainment industry is booming.
Finally, those rumors that Xiao S was not worthy of Xu Yajun all disappeared.
And with Xiao S's good career in the entertainment industry, there is also good news from Xiao S's stomach.
In order to marry the pregnant Xiao S home, Xu Yajun also planned a romantic marriage proposal, which moved Xiao S who had lacked love since childhood.
It's just that maybe Xiao S at that time never thought that many years later, when he was asked by actress Rainie Yang, "If you could do it all over again, would you still choose your husband?"
Xiao S will not hesitate to say "no".
In 2005, Xiao S married Xu Yajun with a child as she wished, and at the wedding of the two, her sister Da S, who has always been regarded as an idol by Xiao S, also domineeringly "threatened" Xu Yajun: If it is not good for my sister after marriage, I will definitely find the underworld to break your legs.
However, after marriage, Xu Yajun's lace news began to emerge in endlessly, and Big S did not do what he once said.
In 2007, when Xiao S was pregnant with her second child and was waiting to give birth at home, Xu Yajun did not stop her romance, and was even photographed having a bikini party with 30 bewitching beauties.
As soon as the news came out, everyone waited for Xiao S to fight back, after all, a man cheated on a woman during pregnancy, and most people couldn't bear it, let alone Xiao S, who had never had a good temper on the screen.
In order to eliminate the impact of this incident on Xu Yajun, Xiao S even said that it was his own bikini party that Xu Yajun attended.
Not only that, Xiao S also invited his mother out to help Xu Yajun say good things.
The tolerance of Xiao S's mother and daughter did make Xu Yajun separate for a while.
However, it was only for a short period of time, after Xiao S gave birth to a child successfully, Xu Yajun couldn't hold back that prodigal heart again, and left his wife to go to the nightclub opened by actress Carina Lau in Shanghai to meet hot girls at night.
But this time, Xiao S still chose to stand on Xu Yajun's side unconditionally and unconditionally defend Xu Yajun.
In order to help Xu Yajun exonerate, Xiao S even said that she was aware of her husband's visit to a nightclub, and also warned entertainment reporters not to meddle in matters anymore.
Because of Xiao S's bottomless maintenance, Xu Yajun's prodigal behavior became more and more bold, and the scandal of the night party beauty was exposed at two ends in three days.
As for the brother-in-law who has repeatedly been rumored to have scandals, he threatened that if his brother-in-law treats his sister badly, he will find the underworld to break his brother-in-law's legs.
In 2013, Xu Yajun was involved in the "Sanya Haitian Feast" incident, however, as a good wife, Xiao S directly said that he didn't know what other people were doing at the banquet, but his husband Xu Yajun just attended an event, and I believed him.
It is also Xiao S's bottomless maintenance of Xu Yajun that makes Xu Yajun like a child who will never grow up, only knowing how to eat, drink and have fun all day long.
So much so that after marrying Xiao S, Xu Yajun, who was once known as a returnee elite and a young talent, has almost no achievements in his career.
Although at the beginning, Xiao S kept saying that her husband Xu Yajun was an investor, but he couldn't find out Xu Yajun's achievements in investment, and only found out that Xu Yajun had an entrepreneurial experience.
In 2013, Xu Yajun and his father Xu Qingxiang invested in "Fat Daren Bread" together.
However, the bakery was soon involved in the "fraud case", and in the end, Xiao S took everything and bowed to the public to apologize.
However, this turmoil also seriously affected Xiao S's reputation as a character, and his career was hit hard.
However, even so, the store is still at risk of going out of business.
In order to divert the public's attention and save the company, Xiao S also found his sister Big S to help.
As a result, Da S broke the principle of not disclosing the news of pregnancy in the first three months of pregnancy, and exposed the news of his pregnancy in advance.
However, the turmoil of "Fat Daren Bread" has just been settled by Xiao S, and Xu Yajun's father, that is, Xiao S's father-in-law Xu Qingxiang, has been pushed to the forefront because of suspected insider trading in the stock market.
As a result, the Xu family not only did not reflect on their behavior, but blamed the reason on Xiao S, who had been helping the Xu family "wipe their butts".
refers to the fact that Xiao S's daughter-in-law, as a public figure, has attracted too much attention, which has caused the Xu family to be involved in public opinion disputes.
Maybe it's because the Xu family is already dissatisfied with Xiao S, and no matter what Xu Yajun does wrong, Xiao S will choose to forgive unconditionally, so later, Xu Yajun became more and more excessive, and even punched and kicked Xiao S at every turn.
In 2015, Xiao S was found by the media to have red and swollen eyes, and even if he wore thick makeup, he couldn't hide the injuries to his eyes.
However, Xiao S is still infinitely tolerant of Xu Yajun's domestic violence.
It wasn't until later when Xiao S was live broadcast that her daughter accidentally entered the camera and asked Xiao S, "Does it hurt here?"
Everyone knows that Xiao S was subjected to domestic violence.
Of course, when Xiao S participated in the show later, he also admitted this matter calmly.
However, later, entertainment reporters also exposed the reasons why Xu Yajun would treat Xiao S like this.
According to the entertainment reporter, Xiao S took advantage of Xu Yajun's drunkenness to conceive a child, and after she became pregnant, Xiao S has been using the child in her belly to force Xu Yajun to marry, and finally Xu Yajun had no choice but to have that marriage proposal and marry Xiao S who was pregnant with her own child back home.
After marriage, all of Xu Yajun's dissolute forms were because of his dissatisfaction with his marriage, and Xiao S also knew that he was at a loss because of his original design, so he connived at Xu Yajun without a bottom line.
Of course, regardless of whether the entertainment reporter's revelations are true or not, since Xu Yajun chose to become a legal husband and wife with Xiao S, he should not cheat and commit domestic violence.
Although Xu Yajun's unscrupulous derailment and domestic violence are inseparable from Xiao S's repeated connivance.
And the marriage of the two also had a deep impact on their daughters.
Back then, Xiao S was in the live broadcast room, live broadcast the scene of the birthday celebration of his eldest daughter Elly, in the picture, Xiao S asked Elly: What is your future wish?
Elly said without hesitation: I hope that my two sisters and I will never get married.
It's just that even Xiao S's young daughter can see that Xiao S's marriage has brought her a lot of pain, but although Xiao S is still on the screen, telling everyone that she is very happy.
Because life is too bad, Xiao S will inevitably have times when he can't stop his emotions from leaking.
So, when Rainie Yang asked Xiao S on the show if she could do it all over again, she would still choose to marry Xu Yajun, and Xiao S said categorically: No!
It's just that after a short period of wakefulness, Xiao S will return to his own weaving Xu Yajun's dream of loving him very much.
And try to find candy in his marriage full of glass slag.
As Wang Zhongwei said, Xiao S is a "vulgar" person, who has no guts and does not dare to divorce.
No, on Thanksgiving, Xiao S, who didn't dare to divorce, found a piece of honey in his torn marriage.
Just because her husband Xu Yajun prepared a Thanksgiving dinner for Xiao S, Xiao S was so happy that she shared the good news with everyone in her circle of friends, proving to everyone that Xu Yajun loves herself very much and her marriage is very happy.
Even if this meal was just leftovers from Xu Yajun's eating in the restaurant and packed back, Xiao S was also happy.
In this regard, many fans began to hate Xiao S, and those feminists were even more anxious about Xiao S, a "wronged woman".
However, life is Xiao S's own, and what kind of life he wants to live is Xiao S's right.
In real life, there are countless reasons for the breakdown of a marriage, but only one reason is needed to keep the marriage going.
In today's era when divorce is highly regarded, Xiao S's "pattern" in his marriage to Xu Yajun in the past 18 years seems somewhat out of place.
But we can only respect, after all, for Xiao S, even if he is rotten in this bad marriage, it is estimated that he is as happy as he is.
However, I really have to sigh that the power of true love and the pattern of Xiao S, after all, if it is an ordinary woman, there is really no way to be so forbearant and tolerant.
Now I only hope that Xu Yajun can realize the goodness of Xiao S as soon as possible, so that Xiao S can go through the wind and rain as soon as possible and have a happy marriage.