The middle-aged mother who is afraid of death is talking about me

Registering for the college entrance examination at the end of October and early November is naturally the work of the old mother.

First, listen to the registration lecture to figure out the process, how to fill in the form, and what are the easy mistakes.

When the time comes, the parent group also conducts "homework exchanges", such as replacing the candidate's contact mobile phone with the parent's, after all, the child is in school most of the time, and he does not bring his mobile phone or does not turn on the phone if he does.

I've also added a process:

Type out the registration form, hand it to Peanut for the bottom, and tell the account name and password. The mobile phone number was filled in not only mine, but also his.

Where are the important documents at home, as well as the password of the passbook, and they are also clearly explained to the children.

Although I wrote a will a few years ago, because of two things this year, I am afraid that I will fall without explaining things clearly:

1. A middle school classmate sitting at my front desk died suddenly;

2. After the yang, the body has not completely returned to the past, and I have been coughing for most of the year, sometimes feeling chest tightness and heart discomfort.

When I was a child, I went to the paddy fields with my neighbors to catch snakes, climbed the mountain with my classmates in the middle of the night, and went to the United States on a business trip after work to live in a hotel in the slums of San Francisco (the picture is cheap and convenient in the city center): the walls are full of graffiti, there is the smell of urine in the corners, and suspected drug dealers are dangling on the streets.

But since becoming a mother, she has become a thief, and she even crosses the road very carefully, for fear of sudden death, and the child has no mother.

Just during the time of registration for the college entrance examination, my cough worsened, and I was still flustered, my chest was tight, and I felt weak.

I remembered the oximeter I grabbed at the end of last year, and I found it and measured it, 93 ??? wouldn't it?!

I continued to take the asthma medicine prescribed by the hospital, took a multivitamin every day, and said to myself:

Hold on, don't drop the chain at the critical moment of the child!

I hesitated to go to the hospital for a follow-up, and I heard that the respiratory department was full of people, so I didn't find out what was going on but I got the virus.

I received a message in the entanglement, and the time for the physical examination is accurate-

In previous years, the physical examination could be done in October, but this year, the first row was lined up in mid-November, and the money was added to upgrade to iKang Zhuoyue (VIP), which was only a few days earlier.

I didn't expect the iKang VIP floor to be full, I arrived at 8:20 in the morning, and I was called at 9 o'clock.

Have you noticed that everyone has become extremely concerned about health this year?

In previous years, the elderly who refused to have physical examinations were on the agenda; the post-90s junior sister frequently pushed me health tips; my sister Pudding's mother had not had a physical examination for two years, and when she heard that a friend was suffering from cancer, she hurriedly called me: Is it not enough to have a basic physical examination B ultrasound? Is it a mammography or an MRI?

I said, do a B-ultrasound first, and see if there is any need to add more items.

In the past, I reminded readers and friends not to forget the annual physical examination, but in the past two months, my friends have urged me in turn: why don't you open a group examination card this year?

I'm sorry to everyone here, it's because there are too many people for the physical examination, so it's a little later than in previous years. However, the physical examination must be available, and it will be the same as the previous two years, and three selected iKang medical examination packages can be booked within one year, and the group will start on November 22 - this Wednesday.

Friends must remember to come, anything can be delayed, but don't delay the physical examination, this is a big deal.

Although my physical examination was a month later than in previous years, fortunately, it was still timely and found 4 new problems, which will be more troublesome if it is delayed:

❏ One tooth decay is serious, and several hidden ones have been detected - last year's epidemic and this year's cough, I have been dragging it out and not filling it, and I can't keep this tooth if I drag it again.

❏ Ground-glass nodules seem to be 1mm larger? What is even more dizzy is a new nodule, which dries directly to 6mm, and the inflammation may be - when has you been infected with pneumonia??? no wonder you always cough.

❏ Excess cholesterol.

❏ The T wave on ECG is flat, indicating myocardial ischemia.

I consoled myself that it was better to know the bad news earlier than to cover it up, and to be able to respond in time, after all, it was only an "anomaly" and not an "important anomaly" at the moment.

And there's good news:

❏ Thyroid nodules have shrunk a little bit.

❏ The breast nodule is gone.

❏ Except for cholesterol, all other blood items are qualified.

Now that the problem has been discovered, there must be no further delay. Just do what you say, and strangle the bad signs in the cradle.

As soon as the check-up was over, I started the filling at iKang Dental, where my teeth were checked. There is a big problem, I have to keep the nerve a little hard, and then I am on anesthetic, and it costs thousands more to make an inlay. I've seen it twice in the past two weeks and have to go again.

The heart was added with color ultrasound, and no problem was found. The doctor said to pay attention to observation and recheck every once in a while.

The cholesterol is a little bit over, and I think that my health is not good this year, and I have less exercise, so I have to pay attention to eating less and moving more, and I can still adjust it back.

The most troublesome thing is the lung nodule, and I found the director of the respiratory department of a tertiary hospital. The doctor said that it is not too big at present, and it is recommended to recheck it in 3 months to see if there are any changes. The CT done in my own hospital can be diagnosed more carefully by looking directly at the electronic image.

Don't look at my always advise my family and friends to have a physical examination on time: "The sooner you get checked, the better, don't let a small problem develop into a big problem, spending more money is secondary, the key is that the effect is not good." "Actually, I'm quite afraid of medical check-ups myself.

What is even more terrifying than seeing the child's big exam results is seeing the red "abnormal physical examination" item, like a cross on the paper. And as you get older, this fork will only increase and it will be difficult to reduce... 

However, the more scared you are, the more you have to do it in time. I don't know it, I feel fine, there are too many lessons around me. 

Just like my mother, she has always been in good health, she has not had a cold and fever for more than ten years, and she went to the hospital for the first time between the ages of 40 and 50, and it was found out that it was mid-stage breast cancer. In the last few years, the cancer metastasized all over the body, and the lungs, lymphatic, bones, and brains were in abnormal pain, which also cast a huge shadow on my and Pudding's mother's minds.

In the past few years, I have been shocked to hear that several relatives and friends have suffered from cancer and passed away, all of whom are still quite young. Now the thought of going to the hospital, to the funeral, my heart shrinks into a ball. Died young, the loss of loved ones is too great, especially the children, the youngest is only 3 years old, too pitiful.

Of course, I'm afraid of death, but what I'm most afraid of is that the child will lose his mother before he grows up. My pudding mother and I have lost our mother in our 30s, and we have been sad for so long, and I still sigh when I mention my mother...

I remember sharing my experience of physical examination before, and a friend's words hit me hard and made me teary-eyed:

After becoming a mother, we are timid, and death is not terrible, but we have concerns in our hearts!

The child's report card is 7 points by hard work, and 3 points are destined, while the physical examination report of middle-aged people is 3 points by hard work (maintenance) and 7 points are destined - in the destined, the only thing that can be worked hard is early examination, early detection and early treatment. 

Whether you are busy, afraid, or because of the epidemic in the past two years, if you have not had a physical examination for more than a year, you must pay close attention to the physical examination to prevent the slightest.

What can prove the strength of middle-aged people more than wallets is a physical examination report that does not ask for 100 but asks for 80+. 

I used to think that the strength of a middle-aged mother was reflected in Wu Neng's ability to accompany her children in sports and Wen Neng's tutoring in her children's homework. Only now do I realize that the ultimate measure is actually -

For children, it is a day to be able to accompany them a little more, and it is a little less troublesome.

Because of this, I also cherish my current life immensely, not for material things, but for me and my relatives and friends, including my dear readers and friends, all of whom are healthy, safe and long-term together.