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Now there is a problem that plagues the country very much, that is, the population growth rate of the mainland is too slow, the population has entered the stage of aging, from the beginning of the population of the country, now there is a negative growth situation, in order to change this phenomenon, the country has launched a series of policies to encourage childbirth, but still has not changed.
The mainland's population is already experiencing negative growth, how can the country break this situation, and what are the reasons why young people are reluctant to have children?
"Life is so stressful now, I don't blush when anyone has children"
"I can't even support myself, where can I have the time and funds to have children"
In the 60s and 70s, the word "cut off children and grandchildren" was the last thing everyone wanted to hear, it was simply a very vicious curse, and the family at that time felt that having more children and grandchildren was a blessing, but now we have experienced changes in population policy, from the beginning of family planning to the current three-child policy.
Implementation of family planning
In the past, the feudal idea of inheritance has always been very stubborn, thinking that there must be a boy in every family, and marriage is also for inheritance, the more manpower in the family, the better life will be, but the changes of the modern era, everyone does not think so.
Today's young people get married more to pursue their ideal life, if the other half can not meet their own requirements, then they are not willing to enter marriage soon, whether it is real life, or their own hearts, young people now know more about what they want.
The family planning policy was implemented in the 70s of the 20th century, when China's population was growing and the pressure on society was too great, at that time, almost every family had five or six children, and after the restrictions on family planning, in the 80s, it gradually reverted to two-child families.
Family planning has also controlled the growth rate of the Chinese population to a certain extent, but China has also become the most populous country in the world, and the demand for the resources used is also very large.
The imbalance between men and women and the aging of the population, in the 7080s, if the first child in the general family was a girl, then the second child was allowed, but if the first child was a boy, it was not allowed to have another child, resulting in many post-90s people now looking for a marriage partner, the ratio of men and women is seriously imbalanced.
There are many boys in this situation, and there are many who can't find a marriage partner, and the country has also discovered this phenomenon, but there is no good way to deal with this situation.
Reasons for reluctance to have children
The mainland has also seriously entered the stage of population aging, the elderly occupy a lot of resources, the birth of new lives is greatly reduced, and the labor force in society is gradually becoming less and less; if this development continues, the country will soon enter the stage of paralysis.
If the country wants to deal with this problem, it must realize that the main reason for the "loss of children and grandchildren" is that the current life is too stressful, and many people are unable to achieve a work-life balance, which makes their lives difficult.
Especially now that society has too many requirements and restrictions on women, if women choose to have children after marriage, most women will give up their jobs and return to the family and take care of their children.
Nowadays, most women are reluctant to sacrifice themselves like this, feeling that when they are young, they devote their time to their careers, and if they have children, they will delay their pursuit of careers, which is also one aspect of not wanting to have children.
Coupled with the increasing financial burden and cost of living, it is very difficult to raise a child, a child from birth, food, clothing, housing and transportation, when he graduates from college, even spend millions, for today's young people, it is simply not affordable.
Raising a child is not easy, it may be easier to satisfy when you are young, you just need to eat and dress warmly, but when the child has a sense of autonomy, the child will need more and more things.
For raising children now, it is not only about raising him, the focus is on how to raise children and be responsible for children, which is also a change in the concept of raising children before, children not only have to go to school after birth, but also make up classes, and in order to be able to obtain good teaching resources, they also have to buy a school district house.
These are what modern parents have to think about and consider, so it will also lead to very high financial pressure on parents, raising a child is not difficult for the family, but how to raise an excellent child is particularly difficult.
If you want your child to bloom better flowers, parents have to spend energy and money to cultivate, and in the process of children's education and upbringing, there will be some conflicts in the family, affecting the feelings between family members.
Every parent wants to raise their children by themselves, but in order to live, there is no way to hand over their children to the elderly, to make money during the day, to take care of the children at home at night, and the money earned every month is only enough for the basic living expenses of the children.
The price of life is very high now, but it is not easy for workers in every industry to earn money, and even during the epidemic, many large factories have also laid off employees, and they dare not stop for a month in the face of housing loans and car loans.
Now life makes us feel very stressed, if there is no way to raise an excellent child, I feel that the child will start all over again like us, so this is also the reason why many parents are reluctant to have children.
In fact, for the current 80s and 90s, most of them are influenced by the ideas of their parents' generation, and the ideological resistance to marriage and children is not very large, although they cannot respond to the call of the country for three children, but most of them have married and had children.
For the post-00s, the main force of modern society, it is because they have seen the hard work of their parents' generation, and they feel that they have been busy all their lives, and they have never thought about what they want to wear or eat, and this kind of life is not what they want, so they are also very resistant to getting married and having children.
In fact, if the country wants to solve this problem, it should start according to the actual problem, and the policy of providing three children is not enough, if the pressure of childbirth and life is subsidized and improved, it will also correspondingly increase everyone's hope for childbirth.
How to improve negative population growth
The biggest problem of contemporary parents is the education of their children, if the country vigorously invests in education and improves the level of children's education, then it will also make the new generation of parents more willing to do so.
The state should give postpartum mothers benefits and treatment, give allowances or provide certain job opportunities when they are unable to work, because most of the production is determined by women, and women's happiness will be greatly strengthened if they are improved.
To sum up, in the face of the adjustment of the population policy, we should think from multiple angles, the country needs to formulate a reasonable population policy, pay attention to the real situation of modern society and its impact on future development, not only solve the current problems, but also think about the long-term development of the country.
It is hoped that when the state implements family planning, it should bring a series of measures to solve these problems, including investment in public services, coverage of medical education, etc., as well as the phenomenon of women's employment, starting from the actual life.
From the previous restriction on population fertility to the present, encouraging everyone to have three children, our country has fallen into a situation of demographic difficulties, not only for each of our families, but also for the requirements of all aspects of society, such as economy and culture.
It is more necessary for the government and society to participate in more effective solutions to achieve balanced population development.
I hope that the country can bring you a social environment conducive to childbirth, which is not so hard for raising children, so as to change the current phenomenon of population shortage and achieve harmonious development of society.
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