In this world, reality and cruelty often go hand in hand, and this is an inescapable fact. Many parents are well aware of this and are therefore concerned about the difficulties their children may face at school. They are worried about whether their children will become weaker among their peers and be bullied and do not dare to resist or ask for help.
This reminds me of Wei Yingluo in the TV series "Yanxi Raiders", she is a character full of courage and wisdom. Wei Yingluo is indomitable, she is not the kind of person who will easily succumb to the bullying of others. In the play, there are two very compelling plots to her story.
First of all, Wei Yingluo once rescued a palace maid Jixiang, but was bullied by other palace maids. Once, the palace maid Jinxiu even deliberately spilled tea on her quilt. In the face of this provocation, Wei Yingluo did not attack on the spot, but left silently. However, she then splashed a bucket of water on Jinxiu and retaliated with a tooth for a tooth, thus earning the respect of the other palace maids.
Secondly, as a little palace maid, Wei Yingluo entered the palace to investigate the truth about her sister's murder. After a series of ingenious investigations, she discovers the real culprit - a prince. In the face of such a powerful opponent, Wei Yingluo did not choose to retreat, but tried every means to make the prince receive the punishment he deserved. She skillfully made the prince break the taboo during an important state sacrifice event, which eventually led to the prince being severely punished.
Winnie Wei's story inspires us to think about an important real-life issue: how to develop children's ability to cope with bullying. There are some parents who believe that girls should be gentle and sensible, but this view does not always apply. Just like a recent incident, a girl named Yang Yang became a target in the school because of her family's superior conditions. Once, several senior students asked her for money, and she gave in. But when she refused to take off her branded sneakers, she was subjected to violence. Eventually, the girl had to undergo psychotherapy to gradually get out of this shadow.
These stories make us reflect on some of the mistakes parents can make in parenting. For example, some parents are too strict, they expect ridiculously high from their children, and if their children fail to meet the standards, they are severely punished. This type of parenting may cause children to become overly submissive and only choose to be patient when faced with bullying.
In addition, some parents put too much emphasis on blows and denials, which can weaken children's self-confidence and self-worth. The child may feel lost and helpless and end up being the target of bullying.
Finally, many parents ignore the importance of "revolt" education. They don't teach their children how to protect themselves when they are hurt, and they don't develop the courage and skills to face injustice and bullying.
Therefore, parents should take a more rational and balanced approach when educating their children. They need to respect the child's personality and encourage the child to express his thoughts and feelings. At the same time, children should be taught how to protect themselves when necessary and how to stand up bravely in the face of challenges and injustices.
Overall, parents should be aware that it is very important to develop their children's self-esteem, self-confidence, and ability to cope with challenges. Children should not only be seen as objects to be protected, they should also learn how to protect themselves. Only in this way can they grow healthily in a complex and ever-changing society.