Middle-aged like Huang Yaoshi, old like Zhou Botong
Text/Liushen Leilei
One
I am often asked: what kind of middle-aged person should I be?
The answer is to be a middle-aged person like Huang Yaoshi.
Huang Yaoshi has a lot of problems, but there is one thing that is very valuable, it is the most scarce quality of middle-aged people nowadays - not used to it. What does it mean to be unaccustomed? Just don't compromise.
Middle-aged people are especially good at compromise, compromising with unspoken rules, compromising with unfairness and unreasonableness, and compromising with all the original spicy, ironic, and heart-piercing scabies.
No matter how unreasonable things are, after a few more years, when they reach middle age, they will be reasonable; I couldn't bear to look at the things directly, but after watching a few more things, when I reached middle age, I became numb; What cannot be forgotten again, after a few more experiences, it is automatically forgotten.
As soon as you reach middle age, the brain is equipped with an automatic clearing mechanism, and you are used to seeing everything and eating everything.
Compromise is not a big mistake, everyone inevitably compromises. But the hateful thing about many middle-aged people is that instead of compromising, they are also complacent, proud of their own adaptation to the unspoken rules, and educate young people at every turn:
"Standing position must have height", what does it mean to have height? It is in line with the perspective of leadership; "We must look at the problem from many aspects", what is called looking at the problem from many aspects, that is, we will be numb when we see trouble, we will be silent when we see injustice, and we will be scoundrels when we encounter our own losses.
Others couldn't help but say: I see that there are worms in this rice, and the middle-aged man put the bowl down: "Young man, why are you so extreme?" ”
Two
Huang Yaoshi is just uncompromising, although he is middle-aged, but his whole body is incompatible with the unspoken rules:
"What I Huang Laoxie despises the most is the etiquette of eating people and not spitting out bones!"
All over the world, the one who expressed the most uncompromising voice against the great threat of etiquette and religion was a middle-aged man on his island.
Guo Jing and Huang Rong, the master of the rivers and lakes, the moral highland, shouted and killed Yang Guo's love, drove and drove away, Huang Yaoshi is not used to it, what happened to Guo Daxia, what happened to the Huang gang leader, Lao Tzu is not used to it: "Hehe, marry and follow the husband, three from the four virtues, great?" ”
Middle-aged people who are accustomed to compromise often regard adapting to rules and regulations as their greatest ability, but Huang Yaoshi is the most disobedient to these and despises all rules and regulations. He doesn't care about the dignity and humility of the adult world, Yang Guo is a junior friend, and the silly aunt is an apprentice who has forgotten his years, and he treats people according to his own preferences.
He understands the sophistication of human feelings, but he doesn't give face that shouldn't be given. Ouyang Feng came to give gifts, and he shot thirty-two virgins, but Huang Yaoshi didn't want it, not only that, but he also gave Ouyang Ke a big coercion in front of Ouyang Feng, and the reason was directly singled out:
"He once teamed up with others to bully my blind apprentice, and then he set up a snake formation to bully her, but I want to see how good he is."
A river and lake, an era, if middle-aged people are not easy to be cynical, then they have a healthy temperament; If middle-aged people are not easy to be bought, then the environment is clear; The higher the tolerance of middle-aged people for unreasonableness, the easier it is for the rivers and lakes to move upward.
Many times the world is not bad for hard work like Guo Jing, nor is it bad for Huang Rong to be dexterous and intelligent, but what is bad is Huang Yaoshi's uncompromising white eyes.
Therefore, middle-aged people should be like Huang Yaoshi.
Three
So who do you want to look like in old age, Zhou Botong.
The charm of Zhou Botong lies in the "pass", which can be put down. What is it that is put down? It's not a sense of justice, but two things: fame and fortune, and gain and loss.
When people reach old age, they are riddled with cause and effect, and it is the most difficult to let go. Let's just say one thing, seeing that the former start-up company Quanzhen Sect is not as good as a day in the hands of the juniors, and the position of the head of the sect has been passed in front of him 800 times, he was stunned that he had no share of his own, and he changed to other old men, but if he can't think about it at all, he is anxious, worried, hating iron is not steel, and it is possible to think about snatching back the official seal overnight.
Zhou Botong is not, young people love to toss and toss, it's about my, what's wrong with the startup, what about the top 500, the old yellow calendar should be turned over, there is no need to talk about it every day. It's useless to chatter, those bull noses don't listen to you, if the qualifications are useful, what do you need an official seal for?
Look at the open point, figure it out, what Xuanmen is authentic, what rivers and lakes are ranked, it is better to raise a few more jade peaks with a sad face, usually rely on square dancing to recuperate, at the critical moment, the Xiangyang War, Zhou Botong is as powerful as he is. Do you know how King Jinlun died? was held and crushed to death by Zhou Botong.
Huang Yaoshi admired Zhou Botong very much, and said that I regard fame and fortune very lightly, and Master Yideng regards fame and fortune as vain, which is not as good as you regard fame and fortune as nothing. is so suddenly accessible, who is Shezhou Botong.
Four
Zhou Botong's "pass" in old age is also particularly valuable, that is, curiosity.
The older a person gets, the less curious he is, and the stronger his conservatism. There is a saying: What I had before I was born is a matter of course; Something that I only had as an adult was very suspicious; Something that I only have until I'm old, it must be a strange force.
Zhou Botong does not have this problem. Gerontology beekeeping, full of interest, never tired; Seeing that the junior Yang Guo created the "Gloomy Ecstasy Palm", he did not have the slightest jealousy, picking, or finding faults, but was happy and very respectful, and said when he saw people: The most interesting martial arts in these years is the new palm technique of Yang Guo's doll.
The status is extremely high, the resume is extremely thick, and the skills are extremely strong, but these past glories have never been a burden on this old man, and he has always been light and light, and everything is not in his mind.
Quanzhen Qizi has a poem "Go out and smile without hindrance, the clouds are in the West Lake and the moon is in the sky", this sentence is actually the most suitable person is their uncle Zhou Botong.
In the novel, Zhou Botong is nearly 100 years old, but half of his hair and beard have turned black, and he is rejuvenated, where can he be reasonable? In fact, Jin Yong This is a symbolic meaning, that is, "through", let go, and feel at ease.
Five
When it comes to the physical and mental health of middle-aged and elderly people, many problems and diseases are caused by "incomprehensible". For example, the focus of today's talk is the number one threat to the health of middle-aged and elderly people - cardiovascular disease.
Last time I recommended "Glucosamine Strength", the feedback was very good, many friends asked if there are any cardiovascular health products that you are familiar with, and the discount is good?
Of course. Cardiovascular disease has caused a lot of pain to my own loved ones and family. So in recent years, they have paid more attention.
The one promoted this time is a well-known cardiovascular health product - MegaRed Krill Oil.
It is the product of the same company as the last "Glucosamine Force", and it is also the athlete preparation guarantee product designated by the General Administration of Sports of the People's Republic of China.
The Double 11 discount is very good, it is still the old rule, the discount is on first, and familiar readers can place orders directly.
Krill oil 750mg80 capsules, activity price: 414 yuan, 50 off when you place an order with a coupon, which is equivalent to 364 yuan per bottle;
Buy two stacked coupons and get 120 off, which is equivalent to 354 yuan/bottle, and 3 pieces will be reduced by 210 coupons, which is equivalent to 344 yuan/bottle;
In addition, there are MegaRed Coenzyme Q10 soft capsules, which is a good helper for heart maintenance, 90 capsules, the activity price is 264 yuan, and the order is 50 yuan off when you receive a coupon, which is equivalent to 214 yuan / bottle;
Buy two stacked coupons and get 120 off, which is equivalent to 204 yuan/bottle, and 3 pieces will get 195 off the stacked coupons, which is equivalent to 199 yuan/bottle.
They are all from the veteran nutrition giant Schiff, with a history of more than 80 years, the products have obtained a number of international certifications, and the sales of heart care health products have been at the top of the list all year round.
According to the China Cardiovascular Health and Disease Report 2021, the incidence and mortality rate of cardiovascular diseases in China ranks first, with nearly 330 million patients suffering from cardiovascular diseases in the country, far exceeding all types of cancer.
Cardiovascular disease is easy to cause myocardial infarction, cerebral infarction, three highs, etc., and it is difficult to find the blockage of key blood vessels.
Therefore, the best way is to prevent and maintain in advance, and keep the blood vessels cleaned up daily. Omega-3 supplementation, its full name is polyunsaturated fatty acids, which has the effect of regulating blood lipids, cleaning blood vessels, and promoting cardiovascular health.
However, the human body cannot synthesize it on its own, and can only rely on external food supplements, such as seals, deep-sea fish, seaweed and other animals and plants.
So today, I would like to introduce you to a best-selling cardiovascular health care expert in the United States - MegaRed Krill Oil.
In the past, people supplemented Omega3 mostly from deep-sea fish oil, but on the one hand, fish contains a lot of cholesterol, which is not very friendly to diabetics and hypertension patients, and fish is also a common allergen, and fish oil has a fishy smell, so now krill oil has become a more ideal source of Omega3 intake, and there is no peculiar smell.
The raw material of Maituo krill oil is Antarctic deep-sea krill, which is pure and pollution-free, and its unique phospholipid Omega3 absorption rate and lipid-lowering effect are unique, which can be described as the strongest blood lipid cleaning expert.
This is an oil dissolving experiment under the strong emulsification of phospholipids, and compared with ordinary fish oil, krill oil has a visible oil dissolving effect.
In addition, Maituo krill oil is also rich in astaxanthin, which can maintain the stability of Omega3, and the absorption ratio is also higher, strengthening lipid reduction, and its absorption rate of Omega3 is 60% higher than that of ordinary fish oil, which can be said to be a super cleaner of blood vessels.
In fact, not only middle-aged and elderly people, but now the age of onset of cardiovascular disease is declining, young people are busy at work, less exercise, heavy diet of oil and salt, plus smoking, alcohol, staying up late, etc. are all triggers, these people can try krill oil.
Now the price of Double 11 is especially suitable for starting, krill oil 750mg80 capsules, activity price: 414 yuan, 50 off when you place an order with a coupon, which is equivalent to 364 yuan / bottle;
Buy two stacked coupons and reduce 120, which is equivalent to 354/bottle, and 3 pieces will reduce 210 stacked coupons, which is equivalent to 344 yuan/bottle;
This time, in addition to recommending MegaRed krill oil, there is also an auxiliary product, which is also his family, MegaRed Coenzyme Q10 soft capsules.
If krill oil cleans blood vessels from the delivery end and ensures cardiovascular health, then Coenzyme Q10 softgels are directly from the source to care for the heart, and the combination of the two can better stay away from all kinds of cardiovascular diseases.
Coenzyme Q10 can be simply understood as the source of energy for various organs in the body, for example, if the heart wants to beat, where does the power come from? It is powered by coenzyme Q10, so it also has a nickname - the heart engine.
However, after the age of 20, the body's synthetic coenzyme Q10 will gradually decline, which is also the reason why many athletes, overtime workers, and late-night parties often feel panicked, chest tightness, irregular heart rate, and heart exhaustion, so the key to caring for the heart is to supplement coenzyme Q10 in time.
MegaRed's softgel is rich in a high concentration of CoQ10, plus extra calcium, using capsule instant technology, the formula is pure, 0 oil, 0 sugar, can be good for the heart.
90 capsules, the activity price is 264 yuan, and the order of the coupon is 50 off, which is equivalent to 214 yuan / bottle;
Buy two stacked coupons and get 120 off, which is equivalent to 204 yuan/bottle, and 3 pieces will get 195 off the stacked coupons, which is equivalent to 199 yuan/bottle.
Finally, we would like to remind you that both Pulse Krill Oil and Coenzyme Q10 Softgels are health care products that can be taken for a long time, but if it is a definite disease, you need to seek medical attention in time. Pregnant women and other special groups should follow the doctor's instructions to purchase on demand.