Lao Dong's wife, Alain, ran away. This is not the first time she has run away from home, and she has been found every time.
But this time is different, Alan has been missing for two whole months, and Lao Dong is as anxious as an ant on a hot pot. But he didn't call the police, he knew that his wife must be hiding somewhere, just wouldn't let him find out.
After several searches, he locked down his wife's hiding place, which was at her sister's house.
Lao Dong
Lao Dong came to ask for someone, but Alain's sister ignored it; He squatted day and night at the door, and he never saw his wife come out of his sister's house.
couldn't see Alain, Lao Dong was even more anxious, he asked the program team for help to find his wife.
So, why did Lao Dong's wife run away from home? What kind of unknown things did they have between their husband and wife? Let's look down together.
Looking for a runaway wife
The mediators in the program group are all busy, either helping the uncle and aunt find their children to ask for alimony, or they are busy resolving conflicts between husband and wife, and they are very busy for some short things in the parents. Now, the mediator dragged Lao Dong around and began to help him find a wife.
The group came to Alain's sister's house and knocked on the door for a long time but no one responded. The mediator struggled to get in touch with each other by phone, only to learn that Alain was working as a female worker in a garment factory.
After learning of his wife's whereabouts, Lao Dong went to the flower shop to buy 11 roses, and stood in front of the factory gate with joy, waiting for Alain to appear.
In the evening, the long-awaited Lao Dong finally saw Alain, and he rushed up excitedly, shouting for warmth, and sending flowers to be courteous.
But Alain looked indifferent, broke free from her husband's entanglement several times, and wanted to escape.
Seeing that his wife didn't want to pay attention to himself, Lao Dong tried his best, first sending a flying kiss, and then kneeling down to beg. But no matter what he did, Alain didn't respond. Not only that, but she also warned Lao Dong that if she didn't let go, she would call the police!
The mediator was afraid that things would be deadlocked, so he stepped forward to persuade Lao Dong to let go.
In addition, the factory gate is full of people, it is dark again, and it is very uncivilized to pull and pull on the street, which will inevitably attract unnecessary trouble.
In desperation, Lao Dong reluctantly let Alan go.
In the early morning of the next day, Lao Dong appeared at the gate of the factory early, and waited for a long time without seeing Alain. He broke straight into the workshop and shouted his wife's name inside.
This was repaid, breaking into the factory workshop and disrupting the production order, and immediately there were guards and security guards who came to stop Lao Dong's behavior, and there was a fierce conflict between the two sides.
The security guard asked Lao Dong to leave, and Lao Dong asked the factory to help him find someone. He asked loudly, what is the crime of finding a wife by himself? If he is disrespectful to him again, he will force him to look good at the factory with his death.
Lao Dong's rhetoric was fierce and aggressive, and the factory didn't want to argue with him, so several people blasted him out.
The wife complains about her husband's atrocities
Lao Dong, who was kicked out, did not give up, and rushed to the downstairs of the girl's dormitory in the factory to raise his head and shout, asking Alan to go home with him.
He said that he misses his wife very much, loves her very much, and hopes that his wife will give him another chance to change his past mistakes.
It can be seen that Lao Dong was sorry for his wife before, otherwise he would not have asked Alan for forgiveness.
In order to find out the truth of the matter, the mediator tried every means to communicate with Alain. She eventually agreed to meet her husband, and the two parties made an appointment at a time and place.
His wife's willingness to meet made Lao Dong feel particularly happy, and he repeatedly told the mediator in the car that he was 43 years old, had lived with his wife for nearly 20 years, and that he loved his wife very much, and that in the two months she left, his spirit was about to collapse. This time, he has to seize the opportunity no matter what, save the couple's relationship, and let Alain return to him.
For this reason, Lao Dong bought another bouquet of flowers and went to the predetermined teahouse with the mediator.
Facing the mediator, Alain's sister spoke first.
She said that her brother-in-law, Lao Dong, was violent and often beat her sister, and the two lived for more than ten years, and her sister was beaten to the hospital many times.
Just two months ago, Lao Dong actually injured his sister's stump leg, which is simply heartbreaking!
It turned out that Alain had a disability in one leg and was relatively thin, but she was not cared for by her husband at all. In order to live, she has to work hard, not only to raise her children, but also to support her husband. And her husband is idle and idle, reaching out to ask her for no money, and taking out his anger on her if it doesn't go his way.
Before, Alan ran out more than a dozen times after being beaten, but each time he went home in Lao Dong's kneeling and begging. It's not that she has deep feelings for her husband, but that she thinks about her children, so she chooses to forgive again and again.
To corroborate Alain's sister's claims, the mediator wanted to hear Alain's own explanation. Who knew that her words were even more shocking.
The husband pleaded in every possible way, but the wife was determined
Alan told the mediator that her husband, Lao Dong, has a strong desire to control, and behaves perversely and violently, and likes to drill the horns of the bull in everything, and the two of them beat her when they are angry. Her husband also often threatens her to kill her whole family if she dares to divorce! This is one of the reasons why Alain endured violence.
What makes Alan even more sad is that her husband keeps saying that he loves her, but when he has no money at home, he actually forces her to sell blood! If she didn't comply, she would be beaten badly.
Speaking of sadness, Alain didn't want to keep talking about them. She resolutely stated that she would not go home with her husband and was ready to sue for divorce.
Hearing his wife say this, the old Dong on the side repeated the old trick, he "pounced" and fell to the ground, begging his wife for forgiveness with tears in his eyes, and promised not to beat her again.
The mediator also persuaded Alan to give her husband another chance. But her attitude was resolute and unmoved.
Alain's brother-in-law also told the mediator that Lao Dong was mentally unstable, good and bad, and his character was extremely poor, and there was no reason to beat and scold his sister. Such a marriage should have ended a long time ago, and it dragged on for so long, all for the sake of the children. Now that the children have grown up, there is no need to maintain such a marriage.
Alain's mother's family was unanimous, accusing Lao Dong of domestic violence and supporting her divorce.
Seeing this scene, Lao Dong's expression changed instantly, from the previous soft grinding and hard bubbles, to annoyed and angry. He smashed the bouquet in his hand with great anger, and his anger was vented on Alain's brother-in-law in an instant!
The two men pushed each other, and the scene was tense.
The mediator stepped forward to persuade him, hoping that Lao Dong would realize his mistake and not make things more and more stiff.
Perhaps in order to save face, Lao Dong suddenly changed his words and agreed to Alain's divorce request. His decision came as a surprise to everyone present, wondering if he would change his mind after waking up from a night's sleep.
epilogue
Some people are like dog skin plasters, once they are stained, it is difficult to tear off, and if they want to tear it clean, they are destined to be stripped off a layer of skin and hurt their body completely.
Lao Dong belongs to this kind of person, he has a paranoid personality and only cares about his own feelings. When he was happy, he would give his wife a piece of candy; When he was upset, he picked up a big stick at his wife.
He ran away from his wife and searched for her all over the world, not because of his conscience, let alone because of how much he loved his wife, but because he loved himself more.
Because of his wife's departure, he has no money to spend, no food, and the family lacks a free nanny. Therefore, in order for himself to live, he begged his wife to come home in vain.
This kind of extremely selfish man, whoever encounters it is a disaster!
The essence of marriage is cooperation, but also value exchange, one party is willing to give, while the other party blindly takes, even if they love again, they will turn their heads and leave.
Marriage is a woman's second life, may you polish your eyes before marriage and meet the person who can shelter you from the wind and rain, not the person who brings you wind and rain. Marriage is not easy, do it and cherish it!