I was originally accompanying my husband to take the public examination, but I was careless and became a second-level clerk.
At home, I have always been a virtuous wife, mainly responsible for taking care of my husband's daily life. My husband goes out early and returns late every day, and he is busy with official business, so I silently accompany him and support him.
One day, my husband suddenly told me that he was going to take the civil service exam. At first, I was a little surprised because my husband didn't consult me in advance.
When my husband was preparing for the exam, I took the initiative to take care of the housework and reduce his burden. I prepared the teaching materials and tea for him on time every day, and silently waited for his return.
He always complained that political knowledge was too boring, but he couldn't stop learning, so he could only gnaw hard at books.
Once, when I saw that he was tired, I said to him, "My dear, exams are not the only measure of success, you are already great.
Finally, the day of the exam came, and I accompanied him to the exam room. The morning light of the city shone through the window on his face, and he looked confident.
It didn't take long for her husband to receive an offer of admission. His face showed joy and satisfaction, and he gently told me that he had been admitted.
I am glad for his success, but at the same time, a trace of helplessness wells up in my heart.
Then we were faced with a new question: I am neither a colleague nor his boss, how do we get along in the workplace?
On the first day, I was a little nervous, after all, it was my first time stepping into this unfamiliar environment. But with my husband's encouragement, I mustered up the courage to step into the office.
I didn't know how to greet them or how to get along with them in the workplace.
Luckily, I met a kind colleague named Zhang Lei, who took the initiative to come forward and communicate with me. He said to me kindly: "Hello, I am Zhang Lei, and I am your colleague.
Hearing his greeting, I immediately relaxed. I replied, "Hello, I'm Yang Li, you can call me Lili."
Zhang Lei smiled and said, "Oh, you are the Miss Yang who was admitted to the civil service, I heard that you performed well in the exam."
Later in my work, I found that I got along well with my colleagues. We do all kinds of work together, we eat lunch together, we talk together sometimes.
In the process of getting along with my colleagues, I also deeply felt the competition in the workplace. Everyone is working hard and trying to do a good job.
After a period of exploration, I decided to learn more and improve my professional skills. I signed up for a training course with the company and worked hard to learn the skills on the job.
I study hard every day and work diligently, hoping to make more contributions to the company.
Gradually, I found that my work was recognized by my colleagues. They began to affirm my work ability and professionalism, and gave me more opportunities and challenges.
I was originally accompanying my husband to take the public examination, but I was careless and became a second-level clerk. Looking back on this journey, I can't help but feel emotional.
Although I faced many difficulties and challenges, I never gave up. Now, I have found my place here and realized the value of my life.
I know that there is still a long way to go, and there is still a lot to learn and master. I believe that as long as I persevere and work hard, I will be able to achieve more in the workplace.
In the days that followed, I gradually found my place in the workplace, and my work became more and more handy.
Our lives seem to be on a smooth track, but there is an unexpected conflict in this family.
That day, I came home from work and saw my husband sitting on the couch in a daze. I asked with concern, "What's wrong, why do you look sad?" The husband paused for a moment and said with a wry smile: "Lili, I was adjusted to a position in the unit today, saying that I need to be responsible for other affairs."
I was stunned for a moment, and I couldn't accept this unexpected news. I asked, "Why is this happening?" You've been doing a great job.
Hearing my husband's explanation, I was a little dissatisfied and disappointed. I knew in my heart that even though the workplace was a competitive environment, I still wanted my husband to be treated fairly.
The husband smiled wryly and nodded, he let go of part of his burden, and a hint of determination flashed in his eyes. "Yes, I will try to adapt to my new role and show my worth," he said.
A few days later, the husband started a new job. I also chose to give him as much care and support as possible at home.
However, as time went on, the conflict in the family gradually escalated. My husband started working overtime, and he always came back late to get used to his new position.
One day, I put down what I was doing and walked into my husband's office. I saw him working with his head down, looking tired and tired.
My husband looked up at me with guilt in his eyes. He sighed and said, "I'm sorry, Lili, I know I've been busy with work lately and haven't been able to accompany you.
I deeply understand my husband's struggles, but I also understand my own needs. I said, "Honey, I know you're working hard, and I'm rooting for you.
We were silent for a while, thinking to each other. Eventually, my husband let go of the documents in his hand, he looked at me and said seriously, "Lili, you're right, I can't ignore our family."
My career has just begun, and I am passionate and enthusiastic about my work. Come to the office early every day and devote yourself to the busy work.
However, despite the recognition of the work by colleagues, in the family, a contradictory thing happens.
He began to complain that I came home too late from work and neglected my family's responsibilities and care.
I tried to communicate with my husband and said that I was working hard for our future. However, his discontent did not dissipate as a result, but only intensified.
In the face of this contradiction, I feel helpless and heartbroken. It never occurred to me that my hard work and enterprising spirit would lead to the breakdown of my family.
Hearing my statement, a smile finally appeared on my husband's face. He took my hand and said affectionately, "I understand your efforts and desires, but we can't ignore the importance of family.
Slowly, our family regained warmth and harmony. My husband's dissatisfaction gradually dissipated, and we rediscovered our common purpose and direction.
We're really a team that supports each other.
Although our family has experienced conflicts and setbacks, we believe that with honesty and hard work, we will be able to overcome everything.
Although I have made some achievements in the workplace, family conflicts and disputes have also begun to quietly surface.
As the days went by, my husband and I spent less and less time at home. He was busy with work and I was busy with housework and my own career development.
One evening, my husband and I finally had a rare opportunity to communicate at the dinner table. I said softly, "You seem tired lately, aren't you trying too hard?" The husband smiled tiredly: "Yes, work is really tiring."
As the conversation deepened, I learned from my husband that he lacked a sense of involvement and support in my family.
This topic made me ponder. I re-examined some of my behaviors and attitudes and seemed to find a contradiction.
From that night on, I began to try to change myself and become more attentive to my husband's feelings and needs in the family.
However, this change has not been without its challenges. At the same time that I began to take the initiative to pay attention to my husband, he also became more critical and demanding.
This sudden contradiction left me a little confused. I tried to explain the importance of my work, but my husband couldn't seem to understand.
Gradually, the conflict between us gradually intensified, and the atmosphere of the family became tense. I began to wonder if I should continue to pursue my career or focus more on my family.
During these troubled days, my relationship with my husband became more and more distant. The quarrels between us became more and more frequent, and almost every night was filled with quarrels and cold wars.
I was in a lot of pain, and I didn't know how to deal with this dilemma. I didn't want to give up my career, but I didn't want to lose my relationship with my husband.
However, as I gradually adapted to the work environment, I did not expect that a new conflict would appear in my family.
My husband is busy with his new job, and the pressure of his work is increasing, often working late and rarely having time to rest even on weekends.
We used to be such a close couple, but now we have less and less time to spend together.
One night, I was at home preparing dinner and waiting for my husband to return. After a long time, he still didn't come home.
The ringtone of the mobile phone rang suddenly, and my heart tightened, so I quickly picked it up.
"Mom, today I came home from school and suddenly felt nauseous and had a stomachache, I called my dad and he said he was working overtime and didn't have time to pick me up.
My mood instantly became complicated. As a mother, I want to be by my child's side, care about her life, and give her warmth and security.
This situation made me feel guilty and anxious.
I comforted Xiaojuan and said, "Mom knows now, you wait for me at home, and I'll go back immediately." After hanging up, I hurriedly turned off the stove and hurried out of the office, feeling guilty.
When I got home, Xiaojuan hugged me and cried. I hugged her gently, and my heart welled up with endless guilt and apology.
The next day, I asked my superiors for an hour off and left time for Xiaojuan. We had breakfast together and chatted about her recent studies and life.
In the days that followed, I tried to find time to spend with my children. We went for a walk, watched a movie, played games, and were as warm and happy as usual.
After a period of adjustment and hard work, I felt that the family was gradually getting back on track. We have a set time every day for family gatherings and quality time together.