Growing up, my son has always been a quiet child, and compared to his peers, he prefers to read at home alone rather than go out to play.
Every time I see his lover, I can't help but worry about him.
My son's first girlfriend was named Wang Yan, a girl in the mountains. She was burly and strong, and she didn't talk much, and she always looked fierce.
When I first met her, I wondered: Will such a girl eat her son? But she was so kind to my son that I had to re-examine her.
I watched the two of them laugh and play, and suddenly a thought came to me: Am I wrong?
However, the first idea quietly disappeared before it could be heard. Later, Wang Yan even went to work in other places, and she came back very few times a year.
According to him, their relationship is still very good, but I am always a little nervous.
Li Li's family environment is very good, although her parents are not rich, they treat her very spoiledly. She told me with watery eyes that she would try to lose weight and try to make her son more proud.
Perhaps, love in the world is like this.
However, the departed Li Li did not take away all the contradictions. My son was confused for a moment. He told me that he didn't know why he always liked chubby girls.
However, in the bottom of my heart, the helplessness of his emotions became more and more intense.
It wasn't until he fell in love for the third time that I really understood what was going on in his heart. His third girlfriend is named Zhang Xia, who is my son's college classmate.
The first time I met her, I realized that she was indeed very fat. Zhang Xia's body is plump and plump, and she is so fat that she has exceeded the range.
One day, I heard my son crying loudly in his room, and I hurried to see what was going on. When I entered the room, I saw that my son was crying.
Why do I always attract such girls, am I too weird? ”。
My heart shook violently, and I looked at my son quietly, holding back tears: "Silly child, you don't have to blame yourself.
As long as you truly love each other and don't care about the eyes of others.
My son looked up with encouragement and gratitude in his eyes: "Mom, you're so nice. I learned that love is not about looking outside, but about looking inside.
It was an ordinary evening, and we sat around the table as a family. Zhang Xia helped me prepare a sumptuous dinner, and I said to her gratefully, "Xiaxia, you are really considerate."
My heart tightened, and a sense of foreboding came over me. I took a deep breath and tried to stay calm: "What the hell happened to you?" Tell me the truth.
I felt a tingling in my heart, and my son's words reminded me of the pain of the past. I angrily asked, "Do you still have a nostalgia for her?" ”。
The son's eyes darkened, and he replied in a low voice, "No, Mom." I have no feelings for her for a long time, but she has been pestering me.
Hearing this, I was even angrier. I got up and left the table, found Liu Fang's phone number, and decided to find her in person.
Do you think your son really loves your fat pig-like women? He's just using them to satisfy his own filthy desires.
I was so angry that I couldn't even speak. How could such a woman be so vexatious and slander her son and his girlfriends out of nothing? Liu Fang's words pierced my heart like a needle, and I felt endless anger and disappointment.
I put down the phone, tears rolling in my eyes. My son had come to me at some point. He hugged me tightly and said bitterly: "Mom, I really love Zhang Xia, please believe me."
I immediately understood that no matter what happened, no matter how slandered by the outside world, the love in my son's heart was real. I gently patted him on the back and comforted, "Silly boy, mom believes in you."
Our mother and son silently hugged each other, tears moistening my cheeks. This contradiction is only temporary, and we will be able to overcome it.
When Liu Meili appeared at my door, I couldn't help but be stunned. She was tall and powerful, dressed in sporty attire, as if with an irresistible force.
However, unlike her previous girlfriend, quarrels began to arise between Liu Meili and her son. They often quarrel over small things, and I became a mediator between them.
"Mom, you don't understand, she always jokes about my figure, saying that I don't have physical strength and is not satisfied with me." The son said in frustration.
Liu Meili responded indignantly: "He always likes to say that I am strong, so can't he care more about me and learn about the sports I like?" ”
I had a headache and didn't know how to fix it. The conflict between the son and Liu Meili seems to be about the figure, but in fact it is a lack of understanding and communication.
"You two are my most precious children, I hope you can understand and tolerate each other." I tried to say it in a conciliatory tone.
"Mom, I see." A flash of pain flashed across my son's face, "I realized that I hadn't really understood her hard work and love all along.
Watching the two of them communicate from the heart, I felt a sense of relief. Their contradictions are normal, but the key lies in how to deal with and solve them.
And just when I thought that the family dispute was finally resolved, a new conflict crept in.
My son suspected that this was just a stranger with ulterior motives, but I persuaded him to meet Su Fang, who claimed to be his own sister.
Despite some uneasiness, my son agreed to my suggestion. So, he made an appointment with a time and place, hoping to unravel the mystery.
A few days later, on a sunny morning, my son and I went to the agreed café. We waited for a while when a tall woman walked in.
When she sat down, my son's first words surprised me: "What is your purpose?" Why did you suddenly appear in my life, I don't believe you are my own sister at all.
Su Fang's face showed a look of loss and sadness. She choked up and said, "Actually, I never wanted to meddle in your life, but when I learned that you are my brother, I really can't ignore this fact.
I looked at this Su Fang, who firmly believed in blood relations, and couldn't help but ask, "How do you know about our family?" Our family has always known nothing about you.
My son's face was full of confusion and helplessness. He listened to Su Fang's words and was silent for a while, and suddenly his eyes became firm: "Since you think that we are brothers and sisters, there are some issues that we need to figure out."
Su Fang nodded, she understood her son's concerns, family affection needs to be verified by time.
The three of us embarked on a long and arduous journey to find our roots. In the process, we gradually unravel the secrets of the family.
My son's father was surprised to learn that he had an abandoned daughter, but for various reasons, he didn't take the initiative to look for it.
However, family entanglements began from there. Su Fang's appearance made my son gradually ignore his current family and emotional relationships, and he became alienated and indifferent.
Our family gradually got used to our son's love life, and there were fewer and fewer strange eyes. However, what I didn't expect was that the new contradictions and strife would come from my sister Hu Rong.
Hu Rong has always been prejudiced against my son, and she firmly believes that his relationship choice is problematic. Once, my sister came to my house as a guest, and when she saw that my son's girlfriend was a plump girl, she said angrily, "Why does your son like fat people so much?" Why don't you give the? ”。
I tried my best to reassure her, saying, "Being fat or thin is not a criterion for judging a person, what matters is the relationship between my sons and them."
However, my sister was still not satisfied. She repeatedly complained about my son's love choices and tried to introduce him to suitable girls, but he was politely refused.
At a dinner party, my sister attacked again, and she asked my son: "You have graduated from college, why can't you find a suitable girl?" Why do you prefer fat so much? If you continue to study like before, I'm afraid you won't even find a wife.
My son's expression was gloomy, but he didn't answer. I couldn't stand it anymore, so I stood up and reasoned with my sister: "Hu Rong, the more you interfere with his feelings, the more he resists."
As parents, we should support his choice, not complain.
My sister finally listened to me, and after a moment of silence, she whispered, "Maybe I'm interfering too much." ”
Since then, my sister has become more understanding and accommodating. She tries not to ask about her son's love life anymore, but communicates and chats with him more and cares about his work and life.
Conflicts and disputes in the family are always unavoidable. And my son's love experience also made me more aware that love cannot be measured by appearance and weight.