The experts said: control your temper, start with me! Don't be that angry snake!
In a peaceful carpentry shop, a snake strays into it and tries to find food. When it passed through the saw on the ground, its body was cut by the saw, and it turned around angrily and bit the saw, only to hurt itself instead of hurting the saw. The story, in the form of an allegory, reveals a common pitfall in life – losing control of one's temper. Let's learn from the story and let's explore how to control your temper.
1. If you're right, there's no need for you to lose your temper
In life, we often encounter some things that don't go our way. Sometimes, these things may not be entirely caused by us, but we can be angry because of our position and opinion. However, such an emotional response often only makes things worse. Instead, we should try to understand someone else's position and try to see things from their point of view. In this way, we can not only control our temper, but also build better relationships.
2. If you're wrong, you're not entitled to lose your temper
We all make mistakes at times, and it's part of life. When we find ourselves making mistakes, we should learn to admit and correct them. Instead of blindly losing our temper, such behavior will only make us more isolated. We should learn to listen to the opinions and suggestions of others, draw wisdom from them, and grow better.
3. If someone else is right, you have no reason to lose your temper
In life, we will inevitably encounter situations where we disagree with others. In this case, we should learn to respect the views of others and not lose our temper easily. If we find out that we are wrong, we should be honest and admit and apologize. Such behavior will not only earn the respect of others, but also win us more friends and opportunities.
Fourth, if someone else is wrong, your tantrum will only make things worse
If we find out that someone else has made a mistake, we should not lose our temper. Instead, we should communicate with them in a peaceful, sensible way. We can try to explain our views and ideas to them, or invite them to find a better solution together. If our emotions are out of control, we should learn to leave the scene and calm down before communicating. This behavior not only helps us control our temper, but also builds better relationships.
In conclusion, temper control is an important skill that each of us should learn. Through this story, we understand the following:
1. If you feel like you're right, then you don't need to lose your temper;
2. If you find out that you are wrong, then you should learn to apologize and correct it;
3. If you find that someone else is right, then you should respect their point of view;
4. If you find that someone else is wrong, then you should communicate with them in a peaceful and rational way.
Let's start with me and control our temper. In this way, we will not only be able to build better interpersonal relationships, but also create a more harmonious and beautiful living environment for ourselves and others. Let's work together!
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