Why did the 40-year-old Jinsha find a post-00s boyfriend? The actress prefers her younger brother, but the ending is all BE

Someone said: I never dreamed that the 40-year-old Jinsha would show her affection on the show with her boyfriend who was 19 years younger than herself.

Not only that, but she also caused controversy because she bluntly said on the show that "good men don't circulate in the market".

This sentence not only broke her helplessness after "reading a thousand sails", but also told her desire for marriage.

It's just that finding a "younger brother" can really be a suitable marriage partner as she expected?

In fact, Jin Sha can refer to all the older actresses who chose their younger brother to fall in love before, and what kind of ending did they end.

1. There is a story about Jinsha female classmates

Before staging "mother-son love" with her "amateur" brother Sun Chengxiao, Jin Sha was still the "white moonlight" of many male audiences.

She has a sweet and very recognizable "first love face", so her debut is the peak.

Jin Sha was born in 1983 in a wealthy family in Shanghai, and his father was the general manager of a company.

But her real name is Jinsha, and she is based on her mother's surname.

Because his family concept is very open, the father does not mind this matter, and feels that as long as he pays attention to the growth of the child, the surname of both parents does not matter at all.

And many years later, when Father Jin participated in the recording of "Daughters' Love" with his daughter, he was very open, gentle, and loved her very much, and bluntly said in the show: My daughter does not have a full understanding of her age.

In a word, it is revealed that Jin Sha is a little princess who grew up in a very loving environment - perhaps it is precisely because of this that she has always maintained the innocence and determination of the "lonely brave" in terms of mate selection.

But is that really the case?

In 2002, when she was still a freshman at Xinghai Conservatory of Music, she entered the crew of "Eighteen-Year-Old Sky" and played the role of the heroine Lan Feilin.

Soon, Jinsha became popular overnight.

But it's a pity that she hasn't come up with a more out-of-the-circle work or role since then, which is very embarrassing.

However, her popularity has never been low, because she has been rumored with different actors.

In addition to the actor Li Zhinan in "Eighteen-Year-Old Sky", Jin Sha was also "proposed" in public by his senior brother Lin Junjie, but later came forward to clarify that it was just hype.

Not only that, Jin Sha was also revealed to have a secret love for the Korean artist Rain, and then was involved in the divorce turmoil between Mei Ting and Yan Po, and was photographed kissing Han Han on the street with a girlfriend.

In 2010, Jin Sha regained popularity by playing the role of Lu Su in the mythological drama "Myth".

But soon there was an ambiguity with Hu Ge, the male protagonist in the play...

It shows that she is not a female classmate without a story, nor is she a "silly white sweet" as people imagine.

But it is precisely because of her experience of "reading all the sails" but still being alone that Jinsha has become one of the "hate girls" in your circle in recent years.

In 2020, she has recorded many popular variety shows, and her career has ushered in a "turning point".

For example, in "Sister Lang", Zhang Yuqi once said: "My biggest task now is to marry Jinsha."

In a word, her lifelong event has become the focus of national attention.

After that, Jin Sha participated in the recording of "Daughters' Love 3", and successively refused to be courteous to the male guests in the show, and gained a sober label.

When it comes to her view of love, she seems very frank and bluntly said that even if she is nearly 40 years old, when she encounters love again, she will still "jump off the cliff to save the other half" like a little girl.

This sentence pierced the hearts of many older girls who were struggling to pursue love at that time, and who wouldn't want to be a "pure love warrior"?

And Jinsha was obviously more "lucky" that she met.

2. Is it reliable to fall in love with "fresh meat" at the age of 40?

In August last year, the 39-year-old Jin Sha officially announced her relationship, saying that the other half was an amateur, and the two had been in love for more than half a year at that time, and their relationship was very stable.

It wasn't until May this year that her "amateur" boyfriend Sun Chengxiao was finally photographed by the media and soon caused an uproar.

The reason is that the other party is only 21 years old, 19 years younger than Jinsha, and the two are jokingly called "mother-son love" by the outside world.

It is reported that Sun Chengxiao just graduated from the drama this year, studying broadcasting and hosting, with a height of more than 1.85 meters, a good figure and a good appearance.

According to Jinsha's own revelations, they said that they met at a dinner.

At that time, it was the man who fell in love at first sight, and he looked at her for 2 minutes, causing himself to be hit by an electric current.

After that, Sun Chengxiao began to attack, and began to learn to cook with short videos, and made 159 dishes in 53 days to show her his heart, which also made Jinsha fall.

The man in the show looks very cute, but he is quite quick in doing things, and it can be seen that he is really good at taking care of people.

The two also talked about age, future and other topics on the show, and Sun Chengxiao also took the initiative to talk about the outside world's views on herself: "Everyone thinks I have a plan." ”

Indeed, although in this era of tolerance, everyone advocates that "age is not a problem in love", in fact, this kind of "old and young love" with a difference of nearly 20 years still refreshes everyone's cognition.

Especially Sun Chengxiao is not a complete amateur, he also collaborated with his girlfriend on a short drama last year, the plot is the setting of the royal sister + milk dog, which is very similar to the situation in reality.

In the face of netizens' doubts, Jin Sha seemed very brave, and even said bluntly to the camera:

"Good men don't circulate in the market. ”

The implication is that you must strike first, but in fact, there is both helplessness and thirst behind this sentence.

No wonder netizens commented so hotly: "I don't trust that there are good men in the market, and I long to meet good men, and finally find a reasonable excuse for myself to find a younger brother, but is this older child really a good man?"

In fact, looking at the scandal stories in the 20 years since his debut, there have been intimate interactions with both Han Han, a talented man who "admires" three wives and four concubines, and a "player" like JJ, but none of them seem to be "good people".

As for Li Zhinan, who has always been very persistent with her, seems to be down-to-earth and knows the roots, Jin Sha can't look at it, and she is really entangled and helpless.

She once revealed in "Sister Lang" that her mate selection criteria: sunny, handsome, down-to-earth, talented, tall, and logical...

Later, in an interview with Yi Lijing, he bluntly said that he needed a "soul mate" and liked to be vigorous.

Looking at it this way, Sun Chengxiao has indeed won all of them, and has added additional items: sweet mouth, willing to work hard, and can cook.

But don't forget, the popular love saying: "Be careful when you find a partner and meet the perfect person!"

This may also be the main reason why the public reacts so much to Jinsha's new love, and there is still a 19-year-old gap between them?

After all, according to past experience, those beautiful sisters in your circle who have encountered "fresh meat" have staged "BE aesthetics".

3. The sisters' "New Year's Love" has their own caution

Xiao Yaxuan, known as the "Queen of the Sea", once had the happiness that many people envied - her predecessor was named Huang Hao, born in 1995, and the difference between the two was 16 years old.

It is reported that they also met at a gathering between friends, and it was love at first sight at that time, and they soon established a relationship, and made a high-profile official announcement.

During the period of love, Xiao Yaxuan promoted her boyfriend very much, not only invited him to join his company, but also took Huang Hao to the show everywhere to brush up on his presence.

Interestingly, at that time, Jin Sha also said in a high-profile manner on social platforms: I want to experience Xiao Yaxuan's happiness.

And Xiao Yaxuan is also like a "mother", asking her boyfriend to take acting classes, learn to dance, and practice piano, hoping that she can have a good future in the entertainment industry in the future.

Although this approach is well-intentioned, it has also been complained by netizens: "This kind of love has a sense of control, it's too suffocating!"

Obviously, Huang Hao was unwilling, and even very repulsive, so the two gradually contradicted.

However, the woman is very interested in this relationship, and even publicly said that she "wants to have a child for Huang Hao".

But on the other hand, she has shown a "strange state" more than once during her relationship, which has made fans worry about her mental condition.

Sure enough, soon after, the two broke up, and Huang Hao turned around and married a newly met beautiful neighbor after that.

On the other hand, Li Bingbing, who is just 50 years old this year, also revealed his relationship a few years ago, and the other half is Xu Wennan, an amateur who is also 16 years younger than him.

It is said that the man is an executive of a certain company, and the two met because of the introduction of their mutual friend Ren Quan, and after being photographed dating together, Li Bingbing generously came forward to admit the relationship.

It is said that Xu Wennan also fell in love with Li Bingbing at first sight, and then launched a passionate pursuit without being affected by the age gap at all.

But the outside world has a lot of complaints about this relationship, after all, Li Bingbing is already a real "big flower" in your circle, and in recent years, she has changed behind the scenes and transitioned to become "capital".

However, at that time, Li Bingbing was very insistent on this relationship, and even came forward to support her boyfriend several times.

The two got along very sweetly at first, but she also revealed that the man would think he was verbose in daily life, and he didn't like to wash his hair.

Xu Wennan's identity to the outside world is an investor, but it is rumored that his business is not running well, and he even lost a lot of money.

Perhaps it is precisely because of this that Li Bingbing officially announced her breakup at the beginning of 2021.

As mentioned above, Zhang Yuqi, who wants to help Jinsha find a partner, is also a lover of "fresh meat".

When she was recording "Sister Lang", she and violinist Li Zhangxi looked at each other, and the difference between the two was 8 years old.

Similarly, after they were together, the man also "couldn't wait" to enter the entertainment industry.

Later, the two also appeared in "Daughters' Love" together, and showed their affection in it.

In a chat in the show, the man bluntly said that "he wants to film", and Zhang Yuqi responded firmly:

"Not everyone is capable of being an actor, I don't have the ability to cover the sky with one hand, and I can't help you with anything at all..."

As soon as this remark came out, everyone labeled Li Shanxi as a "soft rice man", but what he didn't expect was that Zhang Yuqi came forward to accuse the program team of "malicious editing", and then announced that he would quit filming.

However, while netizens were waiting for her and Li Shanxi to achieve a positive result, Zhang Yuqi was photographed dating Zhang Mohuai, who was 10 years younger than herself, on the street.

Obviously, Li Shanxi is a thing of the past.

Not only that, with the popularity of "Fengshen", she was picked up and had a brief relationship with Yu Shi in the "Proton Group", and the difference between the two was 9 years old.

In this regard, Zhang Yuqi once explained on the show that she likes to fall in love with young people at such an age because "it is really sweet".

Looking at the love of all the above sisters, I can feel that their different demands are different, but the ending is not optimistic.

Only Zhang Yuqi, after experiencing two marriages, may have learned to let go and be free.

I also hope that Jinsha can learn from her, it's good to be in sweet love with her little boyfriend, and if you get married, it's best to be cautious.