Children born in ordinary families at the bottom of the society want to completely break the status quo of the social class that "dragons give birth to dragons and phoenixes" and "rats can make holes" by learning the only way, and realize the goals of "carp jumping over the dragon gate", "pheasants flying on branches and becoming phoenixes", "life counterattack", "changing lives against the sky" and "class jumping", which is no less difficult than the successful landing of a spaceship on Mars developed by human beings.
Kindergartens are a microcosm of a miniature society, elementary school campuses are a microcosm of a small society, secondary school campuses are a microcosm of a medium-sized society, and university campuses are a microcosm of a large society. Since they are all microcosms of society, they must have the basic attribute of society, that is, human feelings. Going to school is just the simplest thing, and it is not easy for a person to read only the books of the sages from the moment he steps into the school gate.
Children born in the upper echelons of society and children born in the middle of society, from childhood to adulthood, have long been exposed to the worldliness of society at home, and have and basically mastered how to do it after they enter the society. However, children born in ordinary families at the bottom of the society have been influenced by the same kind of people around them since they were young, and many people have suffered from different degrees of social difficulties and developed a timid and fearful personality from childhood to adulthood.
The campus of a university itself has the basic social attributes of human sophistication, in fact, it is basically the same as the society outside the university. If the IQ of the student admitted to the university is average, but the emotional intelligence is still relatively high, he can still mix well on the college campus. If the student's EQ and IQ are not high, then it is actually difficult for such a student to gain a foothold in colleges and universities, and it is also very easy to be artificially isolated by classmates in the same dormitory, class, and school.
The complexity of the human situation in colleges and universities has led to the fact that the school has the final say on who the national scholarship should be issued! If the student's emotional intelligence is relatively high, he knows how to have a good interpersonal relationship with his classmates in the same dormitory, knows how to have a good interpersonal relationship with his classmates in the same class, and knows how to have a good relationship with the instructor and class teacher, then basically the good things that exist in the dormitory and in the class are likely to be able to get his turn. On the other hand, if students are not able to manage their relationships with their classmates and teachers, the probability of being marginalized will be very high.
In 2023, a poor college student from a university in Tianjin reported that the number of places in his national scholarship was topped up in his real name: On November 2, 2023, a college student from a poor household in Tianjin reported in his real name that the distribution of school grants was unfair, and the quota was squeezed out by the roommates of non-poor students; The school notified: set up a special working group to investigate and verify; Tianjin Municipal Education Commission: has intervened; The student concerned: The school promised to give the national second-class scholarship (about 3,000 yuan), and he moved out of the original dormitory because of this incident;
On November 3, 2023, a male student who reported that the bursary quota was squeezed: he did not accept donations, and if someone pretended to be him to accept the transfer of money, he would consider calling the police; The student concerned again raised three demands, demanding that the relevant personnel be punished; On November 6, 2023, the student concerned posted again: The result is out, I lost; Tianjin colleges and universities reported that "the bursary was reported to be unfair in evaluation": there was no crowding; The student did not agree with the findings: the investigation should have been conducted by a third party.
Through the "twists and turns", "unsatisfactory", "even a little unkind", and "there is likely to be favoritism" in the process of applying for national scholarships for poor students in Tianjin, it is not difficult for us to find that this student's family is indeed very poor, and he has indeed suffered from the unfair treatment of the school. However, the arms can't reach the thighs, and the list of students who apply for national grants reported by the school to the higher-level leadership unit is actually a matter for the school leaders themselves.
As for why this classmate has come to this point today and experienced such a bad situation, I am afraid it is also very closely related to the character created by his own growth environment from childhood to adulthood. Since this classmate was able to be admitted to university with his own efforts, it means that there is no big problem with his IQ. As for how high his emotional intelligence is, through his participation in the national scholarship, everyone must have some points in their hearts.
From an objective point of view, regardless of how high the emotional intelligence and IQ of this student is, this student should indeed be treated well by the school, after all, he is really a poor student. And those students from wealthy families still rely on their family connections, and the behavior of depriving and replacing the quota of poor students to apply for national student loans is itself a wrong behavior! The appearance of these people is too ugly!
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