Preface:
In the entertainment industry, there is no shortage of stories of male stars reorganizing their families.
In the face of unrelated wives and children, whether these male stars can fulfill the responsibilities and love that a father should have, and establish an intimate relationship with his children has become a touchstone to test a man's character.
These stories are warm or regretful, full of human touch, and full of key wisdom, let us listen to these extraordinary family chapters.
A good father who never leaves: Liu Zhibing spent ten years winning the trust of his stepdaughter
Liu Zhibing, 60 years old, is recognized as a "good actor" in the entertainment industry, he has a kind smile, and is humble and gentle.
In 1994, Liu Zhibing was already famous, but he was still a bachelor.
By chance, Liu Zhibing met fashion designer Ru Ping.
Ru Ping is 5 years younger than Liu Zhibing and has a 7-year-old daughter, Xi Wang, whose biological father divorced Ru Ping when she was very young.
Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping gradually became familiar with each other and had feelings for each other.
In 1995, the two officially entered the marriage hall.
For the sudden arrival of a strange stepfather, the little girl Xi Wang was very resistant at first.
She didn't want to call Liu Zhibing "Dad", and she didn't pay much attention to this gentle middle-aged man.
Liu Zhibing knows that the parent-child relationship needs time to be cultivated slowly and cannot be forced.
So he used great patience to carefully observe Xi Wang's interests and hobbies, trying to find a way to get close to her.
Liu Zhibing found that Xi Wang liked acting since he was a child, and often imitated the characters in TV series with his girlfriends.
So Liu Zhibing began to encourage Xi Wangduo to participate in the school's drama activities and cultivate her acting talent.
After school, he would accompany Xi Wang to read children's scripts, analyze the characters' personalities, and teach Xi Wang some basic acting skills.
Liu Zhibing's intentions gradually moved Xi Wang, and she began to take the initiative to communicate with her stepfather.
Time entered the 21st century, Xi Wang gradually grew up and was determined to enter the showbiz.
Liu Zhibing did not strongly oppose his daughter's choice, he respected Xi Wang's decision, but was worried that the sinister nature of the entertainment industry would hurt this innocent girl in her early 20s.
In 2002, Xi Wang finally entered the entertainment company through the draft and began his acting career.
Xi Wangjing, who has just entered the industry, is often questioned because of Liu Zhibing's relationship.
She felt very bad in her heart, and often cried to Liu Zhibing.
Liu Zhibing enlightened Xi Wang with her experience in the entertainment industry for many years, telling her that she can only be recognized through her own efforts.
He also spared no effort to clarify the relationship for his daughter, emphasizing that Xi Wang entered the entertainment industry completely by strength.
After that, whenever Xi Wang encountered criticism in the entertainment industry, Liu Zhibing would always stand up for his daughter and correct her name as soon as possible.
He also often finds time to chat with his daughter, sharing his way of survival in the circle, hoping that his daughter can go further in this circle.
Today, Xi Wang is a well-known actor, and she is grateful to Liu Zhibing for his father's love, which gives her the strength to move forward in difficult times.
When Xi Wang fell in love with film and television celebrity Guo Xiaoran, Liu Zhibing once again perfectly played the role of a father.
He first investigated Guo Xiaoran's family background and made sure that he was a decent man and gentleman before he readily agreed to this marriage.
In 2021, Liu Zhibing personally handed over his daughter's hand to Guo Xiaoran to witness the wedding of the two.
Time has passed, and Xi Wang is no longer the little girl who resisted her stepfather back then.
Under Liu Zhibing's love for more than ten years, she has grown into a gentle and intellectual woman.
And Liu Zhibing finally won her daughter's respect, trust and sincere love.
Caring for the lost father's love: Li Yapeng's differential treatment lays hidden dangers
Li Yapeng, a famous Taiwanese singer and actor.
The combination of him and the Chinese diva Faye Wong is more like a shower, which comes and goes quickly.
Soon after their marriage, the two parted ways.
But this marriage brought Li Yapeng an important identity - Dou Jingtong's stepfather.
Dou Jingtong is the daughter born to Faye Wong and her predecessor, with a lively and cheerful personality.
In 1996, 10-year-old Dou Jingtong came to Beijing with his mother Faye Wong to live.
At this time, the news of Faye Wong and Li Yapeng's marriage had spread.
Dou Jingtong was cautious about his strange stepfather at first.
After marriage, Li Yapeng's every move affected the little girl's impression of her stepfather.
At first, Li Yapeng treated Faye Wong and Dou Jingtong kindly.
But gradually, some subtle deviations began to appear.
Li Yapeng, his new wife Faye Wong and their daughter Li Yan often take first class, while Dou Jingtong can only take economy class.
This obvious differential treatment made Dou Jingtong, who was still growing up, feel inexplicable pain and remorse.
In fact, in other aspects, Li Yapeng is still more concerned about Dou Jingtong.
In order to allow Dou Jingtong to study in a prestigious school in Beijing, Li Yapeng went to Beijing four times to get her wish.
In 2000, Dou Jingtong sang for the first time at the music festival, but was unable to attend due to Faye Wong's temporary affairs.
Li Yapeng sat in the audience slightly awkwardly, and pretended to be an enthusiastic fan to cheer for her daughter, so that she would not feel lonely at important moments.
However, these concerns and preferences made Dou Jingtong even more confused.
She understood that Li Yapeng was not indifferent to her, but she couldn't understand his different attitudes.
Adolescent girls often have cranky thoughts, and this contradictory parenting style may have planted a crack in her heart that is difficult to bridge.
Gradually, Li Yapeng also felt the changes in Dou Jingtong's heart.
But it was too late, and the stepfather and daughter failed to establish a deep family bond after all.
Nevertheless, as an adult, Li Yapeng should be more rational and take a more reasonable way to treat this innocent child.
The parent-child relationship requires the joint efforts of both parties, and there should be no differences in family affection.
And Li Yapeng failed to do this back then.
His gentleness melted her heart: Chi Chongrui built a happy family with his wife and children
"My son is better than my son, and my daughter is better than my daughter", this sentence best describes the relationship between actor Chi Chongrui and his stepchildren.
In 1998, Chi Chongrui, who was over half a hundred years old, met and fell in love with Chen Lihua, a strong woman who was 11 years younger than him.
However, life after marriage proved to the world that the couple was extraordinary.
Chen Lihua has experienced a failed marriage and has two daughters and a son.
The three brothers and sisters of the Chen family had mixed reactions to the emergence of a new father.
The eldest son, Zhao Yong, is calm and introverted, the second daughter has a lively personality, and the youngest daughter is still very young.
Chi Chongrui understands that only by treating people with sincerity can he influence others.
So, he took good care of the Chen siblings and treated them as his own children.
Chi Chongrui often had long talks with Zhao Yong, understood the interests and ideas of this young man, and played the role of a guide for the elders.
Zhao Yong also gradually opened his heart and regarded Chi Chongrui as a trustworthy friend.
The two discuss life together and decide the future together.
Chi Chongrui also cares about his daughters very much and regards them as pearls in his palm.
The youngest daughter gets out of school every day, and Chi Chongrui always makes nutritious snacks and waits for her to come home.
After several years of getting along, Chen Lihua's children affectionately called Chi Chongrui "Dad", and sincerely accepted this warm and generous new family member.
And for Chen Lihua, a strong woman, Chi Chongrui also gave enough understanding and respect.
Chen Lihua sometimes has a bad temper, Chi Chongrui just smiles and never cares about his wife.
This generous character won Chen Lihua's heart.
Now Chi Chongrui has been upgraded to the "grandfather" that everyone envies.
During the holidays, the whole family will happily reunite and enjoy the joy of family.
Chi Chongrui melted the new family with his sincerity and wrote a warm and harmonious chapter of family affection.
A near-perfect family: Li Youbin uses love to influence the unacceptable stepson
In 2020, 55-year-old veteran actor Li Youbin fell in love again.
The subject turned out to be an actor Shi Lanya, who was 13 years younger than him.
Although friends discouraged this "unruly love", Li Youbin had a deep love for Shi Lanya, and finally entered the marriage hall.
Shi Lanya has an 8-year-old son, Han Han, who has a lively and mischievous personality.
Han Han was very resistant to his mother finding a boyfriend like an old grandfather at first, and often played pranks on the new "uncle" Li Youbin.
For example, pouring milk into Li Youbin's facial cleanser, or throwing his clothes everywhere.
Shi Lanya is troubled by her son's behavior and intends to teach him a lesson.
But Li Youbin thoughtfully stopped his wife, because he could understand Han Han's inner discomfort.
Li Youbin believes that in order to win the love and acceptance of this little guy, it is necessary to carry out a parent-child relationship in a long way.
As a result, Li Youbin began to take the initiative to integrate into Hanhan's life.
Every day after school, I drove to school to pick up Hanhan home, checked his homework, and took him to the playground to play.
Li Youbin also spent time playing chess and chatting with Han Han, answering every question of the child with the experience of an elder.
Gradually, Han Han found that Li Youbin was not as serious and old-fashioned as he thought.
On the contrary, this "old man" is funny and hurts himself.
Li Youbin can tolerate his own naughty mischief, and is not as easy to get angry as his mother.
In this delicate fatherly love, Han Han finally opened his heart, called "Dad" affectionately, and began to stick to Li Youbin.
Seeing the child and his stepfather establish an intimate relationship, Shi Lanya was also relieved.
She saw that Li Youbin was sincere and a good father.
Now Li Youbin, Shi Lanya and Han Han have become a happy family.
It was not easy to reorganize the family, but Li Youbin resolved Hanhan's resistance with great love and patience, and finally won this lovely child.
He used practical actions to interpret what love and responsibility are, and wrote a warm and touching step-father story.
He treats his vegetative girlfriend as a relative, and accompanies him for 10 years until the last moment
Zhang Yi, an actor born in 1970.
In 1994, 24-year-old Zhang Yi enlisted in the army and joined a literary and artistic army.
Here, Zhang Yi met a recruit Han Mei, who was also a girl from the Northeast.
Both of them like literature and art, and gradually became familiar with each other, and love sprouted in their hearts.
However, the rules of life in the army were strict, and they had to make compromises.
They can only associate secretly, carefully hiding their eyes and ears.
In this way, Zhang Yi and Han Mei spent two years sweetly.
In 1996, Zhang Yi's military career was coming to an end, and the two were forced to face separation.
In fact, Zhang Yi wanted to go down with Han Mei, but Han Mei's family strongly opposed this marriage.
In desperation, the two could only fall in love from afar and break up in a hurry.
Soon after, Zhang Yi ended his military service and returned to the entertainment industry.
Epilogue:
There should be no difference in family affection, this is a wise saying that parents must keep in mind.
In the face of children who are not related to themselves, they need to be more understanding and tolerant.
Liu Zhibing, Li Youbin and others used their own actions to interpret what responsibility and love are, and gave equal care to the children.
And Li Yapeng caused irreparable regrets with a limited vision.
Every child deserves to be treated sincerely, and only by being good to children wholeheartedly can the seeds of family affection sprout, take root, and blossom.
On the road to reorganizing the family, we can only reap the sincerity by paying sincerely, which is the precious inspiration left to us by these stories.