The bridal house was occupied by the brother-in-law, and the house of the scourge was not presentable, and the mother-in-law shouted: If you don't let you live, you will divorce.
That year I married my husband and with a fortune I entered this new home that he and his family had promised to build for me.
The moment I walked through the door, I vaguely felt that something was wrong. is living in the man's parents' house, and it is actually occupied by the brother-in-law.
The mother-in-law came in and looked at the house first, and sighed heavily, "This house is too undecent!" Why is it so broken? Before my mother-in-law had time to find a theory with her brother-in-law, she turned directly to me, "You find a place to live by yourself, and if you don't live well, you will get divorced!" ”
This sentence shocked me, and I was stunned for a moment when my marriage was under threat of divorce at the beginning.
My husband looked at me coldly, and the corners of his mouth barely hooked up a smile, "You go to the city to live for a few days first, and I'll take care of this matter before I pick you up."
I nodded confusedly, packed my heavy bags, and went to the rental house in the city alone. The room was small, but as the door closed, I felt like I had regained some peace.
During my time in the city, my contact with my husband gradually decreased. He often doesn't answer my phone calls and doesn't reply to my messages.
Until one day, I received a call from my husband. He told me that my brother-in-law had finally moved away and that I could go back.
When I got home, I found that the house had been renovated with new furniture and looked neat and welcoming. When my husband saw me, he smiled faintly, "The house has been cleaned up, you can live here in the future."
I wanted to ask my husband what had happened and why my brother-in-law had finally left. But the husband always avoided the topic.
As the days passed, I gradually understood what was going on. It turned out that the brother-in-law had been reluctant to move out because he thought it was his dowry house and was unwilling to give it up.
During this time, my suspicions about my husband gradually deepened. When I mentioned the divorce to my husband again, he smiled, "I promised you that the house has been given to you, and it doesn't matter if you want a divorce."
This divorce threat, which was miscommunicated by my mother-in-law, made me feel disgusted with my mother-in-law. I decided that I couldn't let her threats and pressures affect my marriage.
I started trying to dress everything up in this house to make it more nice and welcoming. Slowly, I increased the intimacy of this home through my own efforts.
The house became a hurdle in our marriage. My husband gradually understood my determination to keep the house, and he took the initiative to participate in the decoration and decoration of the house.
However, I never knew how my husband solved my brother-in-law's problem. He never really told me what was going on and what was going on.
In the days that followed, my husband's marriage and I gradually calmed down, and the house became the result of our joint efforts.
One evening, I was about to make dinner when I heard a knock on the door. I walked to the door with some confusion, and when I opened it, I found that it was my husband's brother-in-law standing outside the door.
The brother-in-law said with a sad face: "Sister, I have no place to live, can you let me in?" I was stunned, I didn't expect him to come to me out of nowhere.
I hesitated, but finally let him in. After my brother-in-law entered the house, I found him looking very haggard, and his eyes revealed a trace of loss and helplessness.
I politely asked him what happened, and my brother-in-law sighed, "The place where I lived before was demolished, and I have nowhere to go, so I don't know where to go."
I looked at my brother-in-law with some softness, "You can stay here for a while, and then move out when you find a new place to live."
As the days passed, my brother-in-law became more and more energetic at home, helping with household chores and chatting with me often.
But the husband gradually became dissatisfied and jealous of the appearance of his brother-in-law. He began to snub me, stopped caring about me, and even consciously avoided spending time with me.
I was confused and conflicted, I didn't want to hurt my husband, but the presence of my brother-in-law gave me a special feeling.
At night, I was alone in my bedroom, meditating, not knowing how to face it all. Suddenly, I heard an argument coming from outside.
I quickly got up and walked outside. The moment I walked out of the room, I saw my husband and brother-in-law arguing fiercely.
The husband angrily yelled at his brother-in-law, "Are you here to sabotage our marriage on purpose? Do you know what you've done? ”
The brother-in-law innocently explained: "Brother, I didn't want to ruin your marriage, I just didn't have a place to live so I came to my sister for help."
I hurried forward to resolve the argument, but was pushed away by the two of them, and they looked like they had reached their limits.
I stood helplessly, tears streaming down my face. I began to wonder if I was really making the right choice.
My husband and I are back in our married life, and my mother-in-law seems to have felt a little change in me, and she is starting to become less confrontational.
One day, my mother-in-law suddenly came to our house with her sister-in-law, and her eyes fell on the corner of the house. "This house is not good, it is too small!" Mother-in-law pointed to our residence and complained loudly.
I feel angry, this house is already the result of our hard work, can't my mother-in-law cherish it? "Mom, we have done our best in this house, we will try to pay off the loan, and life will get better and better.
The sister-in-law suddenly interjected and said, "Brother, this house is indeed a little dilapidated, why don't we buy a new one?" ”
My precarious marriage was hit again, and I couldn't stand my sister-in-law's provocation. "Sister-in-law, you know we don't have that much money, and now the pressure is already very high, you can't expect us to become rich all of a sudden.
The sister-in-law's expression suddenly became displeased, and the corners of her mouth rose, "Do you think this house is suitable for our family?" Or get a divorce! ”
What a ridiculous request? I glared at my sister-in-law, "Sister-in-law, you can choose to leave, but please don't interfere in our lives, we have the ability to create happiness for ourselves."
The husband remained silent, and he watched the quarrel between his mother-in-law and sister-in-law with a complicated expression. Finally, he suddenly stood up and interrupted the argument between the two.
"Mother, sister-in-law, I know your requirements for the house, and I will try to meet them, but please give me a little time.
I felt my husband's efforts, and I knew that he had been silently enduring the pressure of the family and the expectations of all sides.
The mother-in-law hesitated for a moment, and finally nodded, "Okay, you can go and see the new house when you have time, I don't ask for too much."
Seeing my mother-in-law's compromise, I felt a little relieved. Although the conflict in the family has not been completely resolved, at least we have found a glimmer of hope on the way forward.
This home, once occupied by the brother-in-law, has now become a source of conflict because of the house. But we can't give up, and only through mutual support, hard work, and understanding can we truly resolve the conflicts in our families and make our marriages stronger.
In the days after we got married, my husband and I lived an uneventful life, witnessing family disputes and conflicts in the family.
One day, my mother-in-law came to visit us out of the blue and brought us shocking news. She claims to have discovered a secret from her husband that he had an illegitimate child outside.
I couldn't believe my ears, weighing my mother-in-law's words, and I felt a deep betrayal. The husband was silent for a long time, and finally admitted this fact.
I felt my world crumble in an instant, and hurt and pain flooded over me. My mother-in-law looked at me and smiled proudly, "Look, your husband is a flowery person, do you still want to stay in this house?" ”。
This scene left me with deep anger and despair, and I walked away. Feelings of loneliness and helplessness raged through me like a storm.
However, I found myself unable to part with this home. This place, once full of hope and happiness, has witnessed our growth and efforts for each other.
My husband and I began to have an honest conversation and deal with reality. We experienced anger, disappointment, forgiveness, and in the process, we became more aware of the importance of family and the bonds we had with each other.
Slowly, we re-established a new trust and mutual understanding. Although this family will experience pain and frustration, we believe that our love and the strength of our family will overcome all difficulties.
When I got home, my heart instantly became heavy. The house looked cosy and cozy, but I still felt a faint sense of unease.
One day, my husband received a strange phone call and his face became extremely nervous. He hurriedly said to me, "Something happened, I have to go, don't go out yet."
I felt flustered and didn't know what was going on. The husband has always been a steady person, and he is so nervous, there must be something big wrong.
A whole day passed, and the husband never returned. I waited anxiously, but there was no news. Unable to wait with peace of mind, I decided to go to my husband.
The husband was stunned for a moment, and then replied with embarrassment and guilt: "Things are a little complicated, I had to help a friend, but it involved some illegal things."
My heart was torn apart in an instant, and I couldn't believe that my husband was involved in something illegal. I couldn't stop crying, and I felt the foundation of my family being destroyed little by little.
Seeing my sad look, my husband held my hand tightly and said, "I know you will be worried about me, but you have to believe me, I will be responsible for this family."
These words shook my heart, and I realized that my husband's commitment to the family was real. As disheartening as I was by the predicament I was across, I knew that giving up was not the answer.
When I got home, I sat quietly in the bridal room, thinking about what we had been through since we got married.
This home used to give me happiness and warmth. Despite the strife and pain it bears, I believe that the power of family can make it stronger and better.