The "generation gap" caused by life experience, experience and different times and environments will lead to a gap in communication between parents and children, and some unfavorable feng shui in the home will often sow the "seeds" of hidden dangers for the discord between parents and children.
So which feng shui affects the relationship between parents and children? In general, there are three main aspects of feng shui that affect the relationship between parents and children: one is the lack of angle in the northeast corner of the living room; the second is that the children's bedroom is located on Mars; and the third is that the placement of the bed is unreasonable.
First, the northeast corner of the living room is missing
The northeast belongs to the 'Gong' Gua in feng shui bagua, which is the land of three mountains, representing the descendants of the mountain, but also representing the cai mountain and the patron mountain. That is to say, the northeast side of the living room not only affects the fortunes of the family and the fortunes of the nobles, but also has an important impact on the heirs of the family. If there is a lack of angles in the northeast, it is easy to make the heirs of the occupants unhappy, and the relationship between parents and children is not harmonious. At the same time, the lack of angles in the northeast of the living room means that there is no patron, the main family has no noble luck in work and career, and cannot get the weight of the superior leader, which is not conducive to the development of work and career.
Solution: If there is a missing angle in the northeast direction of the home, it is recommended to fill it with Taishan stone. This is not only very beneficial to the family's career and fortune, but also has a good effect on the harmonious relationship between parents and children.
Second, the children's bedroom is located on Mars
In traditional Chinese feng shui, the five elements of Mars are fire and are one of the fierce stars. Martians is active, restless, and tongue-in-cheek. If the child's bedroom is set in the Mars position, there will be a problem of children's academic greed and difficulty in discipline. At the same time, it may also lead to verbal disputes between parents and children, which naturally affects the harmony of family relations.
In addition, some arrangements in the children's bedroom will also affect the children's personality, which in turn will affect the relationship between parents and children. For example, posting some violent and bloody, fierce animal posters on the wall will make the children have a brave and fierce psychology; and if the children's bedroom uses too much red, it is easy to cause the children to be grumpy and restless.
Solution: Move your children's bedroom out of mars. Less red is used in the children's bedroom.
Third, the placement of children's beds is unreasonable
The bed placement is very exquisite. If the placement of the child's bed is unreasonable, such as the placement direction is inconsistent with the parent's bed, it is easy to cause problems in the relationship between parents and children.
Solution: If it is an only child, the child's bed should be placed in the same direction as the parent's bed to help the parents and children's feelings are harmonious. If there are two or more children in the family sharing a room, placing their bed in the same direction can also help reduce friction and conflict between them.
Dong Yilin warm tips: If the door of the children's room and the door of the parents' bedroom, the elevator, the kitchen or the toilet form a "door rush", it is also easy to cause a verbal dispute between parents and children. And to avoid the pattern of doors facing each other. If it cannot be avoided due to conditions, a screen or other occlusion buffer can be set up between two doors that may appear to be punched or inflated. Of course, a more concise and effective method is to use a special peach wood Chinese knot hanging in the room facing the door to resolve the "opening brake"; use the special peach wood animal head to hang above the toilet toilet or the east wall to dissolve the "dirty mouth brake" formed by the toilet; use a special peach wood safety bottle to hang in the bedroom facing the door or hang on the east wall of the bedroom to resolve the "door flush". To prevent things that are detrimental to the relationship between parents and children.