Have you ever thought that a marriage can break up because of a small thing? Have you ever thought that your bride price money would become your travel fund? These are the real experiences of Mr. Zhu, a man from Shanxi, such a dramatic scene made netizens praise wildly, what did Mr. Zhu experience?
In an ordinary coffee shop in Taiyuan, Shanxi Province, a man sits in a corner, facing the bustling street outside the window. This man's name is Mr. Zhu, and his eyes reveal a kind of helplessness and determination.
Mr. Zhu, a 35-year-old salaryman, works in a service industry with a monthly salary of only $5,000. He is not a wealthy man, but he hopes to have a warm family one day.
After 8 months of getting along, he got to know a girl and finally decided to enter the palace of marriage. He knew from the beginning that the bride price was inevitable and that it was a "normal market" in the local area. In order to welcome this day, he accumulated a large amount of savings, a total of 168,000 yuan, and borrowed 20,000 yuan as wedding expenses. Although this is far beyond his ability to bear, he is still willing to give all this for love and family.
However, on the day of the wedding, his girlfriend suddenly made an additional request, asking for an extra 30,000 yuan and five dollars. For Mr. Zhu, this is simply unreasonable. He borrowed 20,000 yuan from a friend, but he still fell short. He felt very depressed, he felt that such a bride price system was really unfair to the man, why did he have to bear such a heavy debt when he got married?
So, he resolutely decided to give his girlfriend a phone call and admitted that he could no longer borrow money. His girlfriend's response was unexpected, and instead of getting angry or reproaching, she calmly said, "Let's break up." At that moment, Mr. Zhu felt exhausted, and his heart was full of helplessness and loss. However, instead of despair, he made a decision that surprised everyone. He quit his job, packed his bags, and embarked on an unknown journey.
In five months, he roamed more than 40 cities and spent only 30,000 yuan. He chose the Green Train, lived in an affordable youth hostel, and lived a simple and free life. He took a lot of photos along the way, documenting the moments of the journey.
The lawyer believes that the husband, Mr. Zhu, has already borne considerable financial pressure to pay the bride price. The woman's request for an additional bride price of $30,000 may add to this burden, leaving the man overwhelmed. The man's nude speech and travel can be seen as a form of rebellion, and he is trying to express his dissatisfaction with the unfair bride price system. The man has the right to choose whether or not to accept the woman's additional request. Although the bride price is a tradition, it should not evolve into economic oppression of the man. However, this also raises legal issues for the marital relationship. Marriage is a legal relationship that needs to be established based on mutual understanding, respect, and agreement. In this case, there was a communication problem between the man and the woman, which eventually led to a breakup. Although the man's choice is made for financial reasons, it is also a matter of stability and mutual trust in the marital relationship.
The editor believes that I support Mr. Zhu's choice, I think he has the right to live for his dreams and should not be bound by the bride price system. I objected to the woman's behavior, and I did not think that she respected the man's financial situation and did not show sincerity and trust in the marriage.
The bride price is part of traditional Chinese culture, originally a gift that symbolizes the bond and blessing of two families, but now it has become a financial pressure and burden on the man. This phenomenon not only violates the original intention of the bride price, but also harms the equality and harmony of marriage. In my opinion, the government and society should take measures to regulate and reform the bride price system to protect the legitimate rights and interests of men and women, and avoid excessive bride price requirements and unreasonable bride price transactions.
I was touched by Mr. Zhu's story, who found his freedom and dreams despite losing his love. He used the bride price money to travel, saw different landscapes and cultures, and experienced different lifestyles. His choice, although unexpected, showed his courage and determination. He was not willing to marry for the bride price, nor was he willing to be in debt for the sake of marriage. He chose an unusual path to pursue his dreams, unwilling to be dragged down by the weight of the bride price. If he really said it: if you owe a lot of debt, you might as well go out and have a look.
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