The disadvantage of not having children is that you have no children and no daughters, and you have no old age to rely on.
The disadvantage of having a child is that I was angry and got sick, and I spent all my savings, and finally raised my son, and I had to continue to take care of my grandson.
In this way, there is only one disadvantage of not having children, that is, when you are old, you will be helpless.
But having a baby has a whole lot of harm!
No, some netizens said: It's pitiful when you don't have children, and it's even more pitiful when you get old when you have children.
Some netizens are even more pessimistic, he said: If you have a child, you will not provide for your old age, but you will have to be a cow and horse for your children for the rest of your life, and in the end it will be thankless.
When you get married, you work for your family and your children, and if you don't get married, you live for yourself, so you don't have to be so tired.
Why are more and more people reluctant to have children?
Society and the environment are also a big factor.
The following netizen said: There are other social factors in education and medical care now, giving birth to a child is to bring him into the fire pit, your identity is not only his parents, you also have one more identity, you are his sinner.
Having a child not only has one more channel for high consumption, but also a tiring and tiring heart for a lifetime.
In the past, it was said that raising children to prevent old age, but now, there are many children who do not support the elderly, and there are many people who gnaw on the old.
So, why are some people still willing to have children?
Some netizens said: No matter what others think, no matter whether the child is filial or not, I must have a child of my own, I want my life to continue, this is the greatest satisfaction in my life.
Some netizens said: Without children, there is no motivation in life. It's different when you have a child, because you see hope, and with hope, it's worth it no matter how much you pay.
Is it better to have children or not to have children?
Many people are thinking about the problem from their own standpoint, if they put aside their own interests, think about it from another perspective, and really think about it for their children, do they want to come?
A netizen said: Actually, the child doesn't want to come, it's just wishful thinking on the part of adults.
Some netizens said: If you don't have children, you don't drag down your children, and you don't let your children suffer, which is equivalent to saving someone's life and counting merit.
The following netizen's opinion is: Whether to have children or not depends mainly on economic ability, children are toys for the rich, and tragedies for the poor.
So, for ordinary people, is it better to have children, or not to have children?
Do you think it's worth coming?
If you had to choose, would you like to come to the world?