Wang Shiling was ridiculed for filming an advertisement, and her figure and shape were "too mature": how can children grow up like this?
In the first season of the variety show "Where Are You Going, Dad", the five children have their own characteristics, which is impressive. At that time, Wang Shiling, who was soft and cute, was the little princess in many people's hearts.
Following "Where Are You Going, Dad", Wang Shiling occasionally appeared in front of everyone, and she also looked like she was "rich". When the New Year was approaching, 11-year-old Wang Shiling filmed a set of advertisements, because her body shape was too "mature", which was completely inconsistent with her previous cute and cute appearance, which caused ridicule from netizens.
Netizens left messages one after another, some saying that they didn't know how Li Xiang raised their children, and some asked Li Xiang how to raise his children like this.
Wang Shiling was ridiculed for filming an advertisement, nothing more than because her figure and style are "too mature", and she doesn't look like an 11-year-old child at all. Li Xiang has always created his image of being rich and raising children, and Wang Shiling is now very different from the image of "rich and raised" that people imagine, which makes netizens exclaim how children can grow like this!
In fact, many people have heard the words of raising a poor son and raising a rich daughter, raising a poor son is to let his son know that it is not easy to make money, he matures early, and raising a rich daughter is to prevent her daughter from being deceived when she grows up. In fact, this statement may not be accurate, but it is still necessary to raise children richly.
How to "enrich" children?
substance
At first glance, it sounds like giving the child the best of everything materially, but the truth is quite the opposite. Raising a child well does not mean that you have to meet all your material needs and respond to your child's needs. If you want to train your children as "princes" and "princesses", you should pay more attention. What children need to learn is their bearing and self-cultivation, not "prince disease" and "princess disease", thinking that the whole world has to let themselves.
educate
The real wealth of children should be in education. Parents should pay more attention to their children's education, so that their children can not only learn but also enrich themselves. After all, material things cannot last long, and the knowledge that a child learns is the wealth of his life. Parents' investment in their children's education is more tangible than buying toys and clothes for their children. Allowing children to learn more can also increase the number of cards that children have a strong hole card in the fierce competition after they grow up.
The heart of the child
If parents want to enrich their children, then they must enrich their children's inner world, at least give their children enough security. If the so-called "rich" children of parents only "throw money" at the children, without paying attention to the inner feelings of the children, and even spend very little time with the children, this is called making up for the children materially. A child's inner sense of security is more important than material satisfaction, and a child whose parents accompany him is more confident and sunny, which is also a kind of enrichment.
Enriching children is not a simple material satisfaction of children's needs, but requires parents to listen to their children's inner feelings, know what their children need most, and give more to their children in that regard. The education of children should pay attention to the inner and spiritual enrichment, which will become the wealth of the child's life.
